MummuM answered Tuesday December 12 2006, 4:29 pm: I'd dump his ass, once a cheater always a cheater. That's such a wrong thing to do. He doesn't deserve you at all. I'm sure you can do much better. And since he cheated with your younger sister that's so much worse. I mean, how could someone do that to their girlfriend? Especially with her sister. That's just wrong. I'd be mad at both of them; it's your sister's fault as much as it is his.
I suggest talking to your sister about it. Since she is your sister you're both going to have to get through it together. Family is family and no matter what they done to you, they should always be forgiving. As for your boyfriend; dump him. You can do so much better. There are so many other guys out there that won't do this and will treat you the way you should be treated. [ MummuM's advice column | Ask MummuM A Question ]
Xenolan answered Monday December 11 2006, 6:44 pm: Are you familiar with the acronym "DTMFA"?
Here's a hint: Dump The Mother F----- Already!
Definitely, step one is to tell this guy in no uncertain terms that you are over, history, done, finished. He is not to call you anymore or even try to apologize. Forgive him if you feel it's the right thing to do, but if you do then he doesn't deserve to know about it. He's a piece of slime; treat him as such.
As for your sister... that's harder to deal with, because there's a stronger tie there. She has a lot of explaining to do, that's for sure. She owes you every kind of apology and she'll have to earn your trust back. Don't let her off the hook too easily on this one, because she really blew it. [ Xenolan's advice column | Ask Xenolan A Question ]
LilBSUBabe08 answered Monday December 11 2006, 6:35 pm: WHOA! Thats a definite problem. Well, to answer your question, its up to you on how you deal with it. Every person deals with things differently. Only thing I can do is offer my own opinion and advice on what I would do. Personally, I would dump him because you can't trust him and trust is one of the most important things in a relationship. You never know if he would do it again. Secondly, I would have a long and serious discussion with your sister about her actions and why its wrong to get with your bf. I would give her a SERIOUS talkin to. Thats just my opinion. You will figure it out dear. Best of luck! <3 [ LilBSUBabe08's advice column | Ask LilBSUBabe08 A Question ]
L0CACiiTA answered Monday December 11 2006, 6:35 pm: break up with him.. im sorry i cant tell you how you feel but what i can say is that this happened to my friend and she stayed with him and he cheated on her 4 more times. Now i dont know this guy but if he can cheat on you with you sister then he should hit the curb it isnt worth it trust me.. [ L0CACiiTA's advice column | Ask L0CACiiTA A Question ]
LagunaBabe answered Monday December 11 2006, 6:25 pm: Honestly, this is more of an opinion, so here is mine -- I would break up with him, but before I did that, I would talk to him about this. Ask him questions, whatever you want to know. See what he says, then it really is up to you and what you feel is best. But I would break up with him, because if he can cheat on you with your sister, what else would he do? [ LagunaBabe's advice column | Ask LagunaBabe A Question ]
Alin75 answered Monday December 11 2006, 5:11 pm: Well if I try to put myself in your shoes I really dont like the picture I see. Im not saying I recommend this, but if it were my brother who cheated with my gf he would get a beating which he would remember well into his old age. Also I would have nothing to do with him anymore (granted, probably only temporarily). And of course, instantly dump the gf (bf in your case of course).
Now, thats certainly what I would do, but not neccessarily the "correct" thing to do. Probably you should just dump the guy and then figure out why your sister did it (was she naive, was she getting back at you, was she jealous of you, etc.). I must confess I have a hard time giving this advice without thinking of punishment every second word, but I will leave it at that. [ Alin75's advice column | Ask Alin75 A Question ]
MelLeDisko answered Monday December 11 2006, 3:55 pm: Easy one here, break up with him.
I know you probably really like him and everything, but once a cheater, always a cheater. And anyways ; it's bad enough to cheat on your girlfriend with like, their best friend or something, but their yougner sister? That's idiotic. That's your flesh & blood.
You deserve someone whose better than that, someone who deserves your time.
xWACKYJACKIEx answered Monday December 11 2006, 2:58 pm: Hun! Break up with him right now. That is rediculious. In my opinon, I think he was using you to get to her!
"Once a cheater, Always a cheater"
"Fool me once, shame on you! Fool me twice, shame on me!"
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