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Hello.
My boyfriend recently graduated so I'm going to strip for him when we go on vacation to the beach.
The thing is I don't know which song to stripdance to!
We both like alternative and rock but pop is okay.
I need a song that I can dance to in stilettos, seductive/sultry songs are preferred, but with enough of an update beat to dance to

Thanks!!!

buttons - pussycat dolls
dip it low - christina millian
show stopper - danity kane
bedroom boom - ying yang twins
give it up to me - sean paul
pull my hair - ying yang twins
sexyback - justin timberlake
so damn beautiful - polaroid
me & you - cassie
run - bone crusher
shake that ass - 50 cent
in those jeans - ginuwine
dance with me - 112
only you - ashanti
beat it up - big tymers

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ok... so i want a freakin awesome room. my room rite now is pretty boring. im repainting it with polka dots but like i want some awesome decorations. my mom doesnt really wanna spend a bunch of money on like new furniture so im just gonna keep the furniture the same. but i was wandering if anyone new like maybe either a place to get realllly cool room decorations for cheap or how to make some awesome stuff for my room. so can you please help me!

try target, claires, walmart, kmart, tj maxx, and yard sales. you can put lots of photos up, also.

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alright, so, we all make mistakes, just, some worse then others

well, yesterday I went to go trim my hair, the lady ended up taking an inch & 1/2 off
so, it didn't look good & I wasn't too happy
so, I went to go get it dyed to maybe make it look better, I tried to dye it dark brown, but it came out black (I'm naturally a blonde, so, imagine how that looks with my skin)

so, what I'm asking is, how do I grow my hair out faster?
& how do I fade the color A TON?

thanks!

hair color fades easily on blonde hair.. try washing it a lot more than normally [double shampoo] and then sun helps fade the color too. so try going out in the sun. you can't really make your hair grow faster.. but if you are willing to spend some money, you can alwyas go to the hair salon and get your hair "stripped."

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idk what category this goes under so i did it under this one
ok
so i have verizon wireless and i was wondering what company is the best?
and i want unlimited text messaging but the person said they only have 500 a month and unlimited with verizon to verizon
and i was wondering if they really do have unlimited not just for verizon to verizon
if anyone could help me
thanxx!

maybe you should think about switching to t-mobile. i LOVE their service. i have a sidekick2 and a pink razr. the prices are pretty cheap and you can get a good deal on their plans. like on my cell, i pay around 60 dollars a month.. but that includes UNLIMITED texting, unlimited internet browsing, free nights and weekends, and 1,500 daytime minutes. verizon has some pretty cool phones, but their service is only good if you have a ton of friends that have verizon too.

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There is a girl at school i like but she only thinks of me as a friend. what should i do?

be a really good friend. then try flirting with her a bit. but don't be too pushy!! after a really good friendship is made, a girl knows she can trust you. and also knows a ton about you. so she might start to like you. if you don't want to wait a long time, just simply tell her how you feel about her. you never know. she might feel the same way!! [maybe she is waiting on you to make the first move]

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does anyone know good songs to listen to or dedicate to someone you miss or love .. could youu leave me some .. any answers are appreciated!!

uhm.. try these. i know a lot more, IM me for them.
♥because you loved me - celine dion
♥dangerously in love - beyonce
♥everytime we touch - cascada
♥this i swear - nick lachey
♥what's left of me - nick lachey
♥saying sorry - hawthorn heights
♥i swear - All4One
♥nobody knows it but me - babyface
♥never ever - all saints
♥she thinks she needs me - andy griggs
♥baby - ashanti
♥everytime - britney spears
♥i can make it through the rain - mariah carey
♥me & you - kenny chesney
♥someday i will understand - britney spears
♥love - keisha cole
♥my whole life has changed - genuwine
♥what hurts the most - rascal flatts
♥she's my everything - garth brooks
♥time after time mix - dj sammie
like i said, i have TONS!!! haha. so just IM me if you want a bigger list. i could go on forever.
--ashley

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im 13 and my brother is 17 and my sister is 20. My brothewr has friends over all of the time and he drimnks with them and my sister joins them. but when I want to join they tell me im too young,its not fair. I mean i dont want to drink or anything but i want to hango out with them and not feel alone and too young, what do I do?

that's kinda a big age difference. your brother and sister most likely notice the age difference too. that would be like them inviting otehr people your age over to party with them. it just doesn't seem that logical... you know? but then again.. that is your family. you may not want to drink and eeverything, but they probably think that if you see them doing the stuff that they do, then you will want to try and do it to. [that is usually how it goes anyways] -- if it really bothers you, then just straight out tell them that you don't want to drink or anything.. tell them that you just want to hang out and that you don't feel like being ignored or "too young" when they have their friends over.
HOPE I HELPED
[♥]ashley

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well i am moving to a new school. i mean these girls are beautiful and very mature. i made 3 new friends over AIM but they seem to be real sexually active. like they grind with boys, make out, and one girl even sticks her hand down boys pants! but i have never even kissed a boy and there are parties and stuff and i dont think i know how to grind or kiss or anything. I find it kind of gross but, i want to fit in. wat do i do?

don't do something you aren't comfortable doing just to fit in. people will like you for who you are, not for who you pretend to be. so don't push yourself to do stuff like that if you aren't ready just to make friends. i'm sure you will make plenty of friends! just have fun, and just go with the slow of things. in time you will be ready to kiss boys.. but don't push yourself!!!

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can you hurt yourself if you crack your neck everyday? i went on a missions trip and got into a habit of doing it and i wanted to know if its a bad thing to do.

YES!! it's bad!!! over time, it can cause serious damage

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i change my braces every 6 weeks what color should i have only 2 colors or 1?
=]
14/f

i'd say pink and light purple, or pink and light blue.

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ok so ya kno tha lil cosmetic sponge thingies you put on liquid foundation with ?? ya so like how often should you use one before you throw it out & use a new one ?? thx.

i use mine for a few weeks, because after so long they don't seem to work as well.
--ashley

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i have a friend and she had sex with her bf and then everyone found out that she did that and know i barley have any friends cause they thought that i was the one telling everyone witch i wasnt! it was someone else now im kinda scared to go to highskool cuz i think everyone going to talk shiznit that im the "RUMERER" and i had allot of friends know i only have about 4 so cana help a sissta out pizzz??

to be honest ;; there isn't really anything you can do to change the way people think. they will alwyas do what they want. highschool is full of drama. just be yourself, and act like it doesn't bother you. you know that you didn't tell everyone. and if they didn't want people to know their business, they shouldn't have told ANYONE!! they aren't your true friends if they will sit there and get mad over something like that. when you didn't even do it. just let it go, and over time people will forget about it.
[♥]barbie[♥]

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Every day I take a shower and wash my hair. After I get out I blow dry it, and then straighten my hair. But I just don't use any regular hair straightener I use an iron. Like a clothing iron. That gets my hair perfectly straight and I love it. The only thing is now that i'm doing it so long, my hair is flat, frizzy, and fried. I've tried other hair straighteners but they have made the situation worse, so I'm not willing to try another hair straightener. But I AM willing to use a shampoo, gloss, conditioner, hair spray, anything that makes my hair have way more volume/body but that doesn't make it greasy or look oily. Does anyone have any suggestions/advice. Thank-you sooooo much!

okay. the clothing iron really damages your hair. as does any other straightener. if you want to make your hair less frizzy and everything try this. when showering double shampoo with pantine pro-v shampoo, rinse, then use pantine conditioner [leave in for like 3 minutes before rinsing out]... DON'T BLOW DRY YOUR HAIR!! let it air dry. while it is still damp, use a few drops of john freda's frizzes hair syrum... then use any volumizing mouse [personally i use bead head mouse && it works great].. i have a chi straightener and i am in love with it. it's the best straightener EVER. [it's kinda expensive, but it's definately worth it.] when you do straighten your hair, use a heat protectant spray!! this should make your hair less frizzy, have more wolume, and not be so fried.

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Is there anything that you can eat/drink/do to make your boobs bigger (that won't make you fat because I know gaining weight makes your breats larger)? Also, is there anything you can wear to make your boobs LOOK bigger, bras or certain shirts or layering or any tricks?

uhm. i have personally never had that problem.. try getting a bra that has underwire and padding. then wear a cami [tank top with built in bra] under your shirt.

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Hi. Sometimes when I am alone in my house I go in the pool and the hottub and put my vagina or the outside at least. My private part...up against the jets. It feels sooo good and I don't want to stop. Is this an orgasum?

uhm. is this a serious question. lol. it's a little akward, but no it's not.
[♥]barbie[♥]

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my boyfriends birthday is in less than a week and i need to find a good gift for him (hes 14 by the way)

get him a cute card, or even make him one. bake him a cake, then spend the whole day with him doing the things he likes to do. [you can watch movies together, cuddle, go out to eat, go to the movies, go to the park, stuff like that.] just make his day special and memorable. remember - it's the thought that counts.
[♥]barbie[♥]

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Ok so theres this guy i like...and i think he might like me but im not sure. So how can u tell if a guy likes u...?

it depends on the guy really. if he likes you, he'll most likely do stuff along the lines of flirting [play fighting with you, etc], calling/ texting/ messaging you more than normal.. he'll smile a lot when you two are together.. holding your hand.. hugging you goodbye.. && if he seems to be sending you mixed signals, then just ask him how he feels about you. [you should always be honest in a relationship ;; so if he likes you.. it won't be hard for him to tell you that.]
♥barbie♥

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Ok, so this may sound lame but I really need to know this. How old do you have to be to get a job at HOLLISTER, ABERCROMBIE&FITCH, RUEHL or abercrombie. I hear the have real good salaries but I've never asked how old you need to be to be able to work there. Also they say on their website that you send in a resume. What should it look like? Is there any sites with examples of one and help on how to make one? Please answer!

at abercrombie && hollister, they have computers by the cash registers where you can apply for a job. i know that here [cincinnati, ohio] you have to be 17 to work at abercrombie, and 16 to work at hollister. but since EVERYONE wants to work there, it's kinda tough to actually get a job there. and when/if you get the job.. they usually are over-staffed.. which would mean you get less hours. so basically you would get paid well, BUT you don't get that many hours. so you wouldn't really be making more there, than another job that pays a little less. at least at the other job, you would get more hours. to where you would actually make MORE money. GOOD LUCK WITH EVERYTHING.
[♥]barbie[♥]

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What is chain smoking?

where you smoke one cigarette after another [not like seconds after.. but like 5 minutes].. half the time, chain smokers don't even realize they just smoked a cigarette right before lighting up another one. they are so addicted, and used to smoking that it comes naturally. GROSSSSSSSS!!!
[♥]barbie[♥]

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you seem cool so i decided to see if you could help me out. me and my ex boyfriend, lets call him JL. JL and i dated "technically" for about 2 months, but really it was about 4. i really got attached, and although we dont go to the same school, we saw eachother A LOT.[ we will be going to the same school next year though ]. i havent ever felt this way about someone. ANYWAY, he broke up with me about 2 months ago. and i never really got over him. just a little - but yah, you know. when we broke up, he told me that we were just better off friends. and truely he broke my heart. but we became good friends and talked very often.

BUT- on sunday, he came over to watch a sports game on tv. he was kinda haning all over me. he offered to go in my room, and i agreed. we did some of that "hardcore" making out - if you knwo what i mean, and it felt so good. and made me realize how much ive missed him. since he came on to me, what do you think it means? do you think it was just a hook up? or maybe something real..? [ 14,f ]

it could be either or... guys tend to work in some weird ways. you never really know what they are thinking. if he is an average guy, he just wanted to get on you. but if he is a good guy [the ones worth keeping, that actually think with their head and heart not their uhm.. you know] then he might be hinting to you that he still has feelings for you. it's hard to tell right now. invite him over again, and see what happens. if he insists on making out with you, then you know he is just there for some action. take him to your room as if you are planning on doing something with him.. and just ask him straight out how he feels about you and the whole situation. chances are.. he will either choak up or end up confessing his true feelings. son't give into him, and don't let him use you. keep me updated!!
[♥]barbie[♥]

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