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hook up? or something real?


Question Posted Tuesday May 23 2006, 3:32 pm

you seem cool so i decided to see if you could help me out. me and my ex boyfriend, lets call him JL. JL and i dated "technically" for about 2 months, but really it was about 4. i really got attached, and although we dont go to the same school, we saw eachother A LOT.[ we will be going to the same school next year though ]. i havent ever felt this way about someone. ANYWAY, he broke up with me about 2 months ago. and i never really got over him. just a little - but yah, you know. when we broke up, he told me that we were just better off friends. and truely he broke my heart. but we became good friends and talked very often.

BUT- on sunday, he came over to watch a sports game on tv. he was kinda haning all over me. he offered to go in my room, and i agreed. we did some of that "hardcore" making out - if you knwo what i mean, and it felt so good. and made me realize how much ive missed him. since he came on to me, what do you think it means? do you think it was just a hook up? or maybe something real..? [ 14,f ]


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malibubarbiie111 answered Wednesday July 5 2006, 6:13 pm:
it could be either or... guys tend to work in some weird ways. you never really know what they are thinking. if he is an average guy, he just wanted to get on you. but if he is a good guy [the ones worth keeping, that actually think with their head and heart not their uhm.. you know] then he might be hinting to you that he still has feelings for you. it's hard to tell right now. invite him over again, and see what happens. if he insists on making out with you, then you know he is just there for some action. take him to your room as if you are planning on doing something with him.. and just ask him straight out how he feels about you and the whole situation. chances are.. he will either choak up or end up confessing his true feelings. son't give into him, and don't let him use you. keep me updated!!
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