im 13 and my brother is 17 and my sister is 20. My brothewr has friends over all of the time and he drimnks with them and my sister joins them. but when I want to join they tell me im too young,its not fair. I mean i dont want to drink or anything but i want to hango out with them and not feel alone and too young, what do I do?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Families? malibubarbiie111 answered Sunday August 13 2006, 6:03 pm: that's kinda a big age difference. your brother and sister most likely notice the age difference too. that would be like them inviting otehr people your age over to party with them. it just doesn't seem that logical... you know? but then again.. that is your family. you may not want to drink and eeverything, but they probably think that if you see them doing the stuff that they do, then you will want to try and do it to. [that is usually how it goes anyways] -- if it really bothers you, then just straight out tell them that you don't want to drink or anything.. tell them that you just want to hang out and that you don't feel like being ignored or "too young" when they have their friends over.
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Nallie answered Thursday August 10 2006, 1:03 am: Well, to be honest, they are too young to drink too. The most difficult thing about being 13, is you are at a between stage. Too old or too young. Life is hard at 13 I remember it well. I think you should develop some new hobbies, or join a sport or a club where you can meet friends your own age. Then you can hang out with them and not feel lonesome. You should also tell your parents the way you feel. It would only be right that big brother and sister can take you somewhere or spend time with you a couple of days a week. I know it doesn't help right now, but this will pass. [ Nallie's advice column | Ask Nallie A Question ]
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