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When I want to change the colors of my column, where exactly do I go? I know it's on Column Settings but every time I click on that link, it takes me to a completly different website. Which website should I visit instead?

The following instrustions will allow you to customize your column with colors that you can choose (just like mine).

Go to column settings, like you normally would. Then bring up another page of internet explorer and google "HTML Colors." Then you should click on one of the links it brings up. You should see some type of chart with a bunch of numbers and letters, with the colors they pertain to. Then on column settings, just put in the codes for the colors that you want on your column where the spaces are to put them in. (Just to clarify- like links, page background, text,etc.) Then obviously click on "save settings" and then you can always change them whenever you want - they're not permanent or set in stone or anything like that. I hope this helps!

♥ lena

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me and my boyfreind were in the bathtub both with no clothing what so ever on

and i think he cumed

can it swim up and get you pregnant if we didnt have sex

but we were close to eachothers private areas?

You can only become pregnant if you physically took action in sexual intercourse. The old-fashioned way.
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If you're about 5'1-5'3 ish.
How much should you weigh?

what do most people at that height weigh??

Anywhere between 100 and 115 lbs.

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Yes I know many people ask this question but mines even a little different. I have really great hair. Straight except on ends curls up a little. It is not damaged. I would like to get side bangs and my hair cut right above shoulders. Could you see if any pictures match this and reply thanks!

Maybe like this? -http://www.brides.com/images/editorial/2006_online/09_articles/02_beauty_hairtiaras/00_main/007_primary.jpg

But with the hair cut a little shorter?

♥ lena

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Doesn anyone know where i can get heels that arnt too expensive?? Thanks!!

Payless Shoe Source, DSW, Nordstrom's, Zappos.com, Wetseal or Forever21 are good stores to buy inexpensive heels.

♥ lena

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sooo, i'm 16 and i have been best friends with this girl since birth. we do everything together and i love her like a sister. my boyfirend and i have been going steady for 6 months, but im starting to have different feelings. i mean, my bfs great to me and everyhing, but its really my best friend taht makes me want to touch myself. I'm affraid tht lesbiansm is a freak thing, and i don't want to be one. How do I stay with my boyfriend, love my bestfriend, and be happy at the same time?
thanks,
-confused

Well.

First of all, this is a tough situation that teenagers everywhere go through, so don't feel like you're the only one.

Second of all, you should figure out what you want to be once and for all. Clearly you want to stay straight, and with your boyfriend. Perhaps you should devote half of your time with him and half of your time with your best friend. This way, you will figure out who you want to like or who, in your case, makes you want to touch yourself. Once you have made your decision, follow your heart. There's nothing wrong with anything, no matter how you end up :)

♥ lena

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Okay a couple days ago i told one of my closest boy(as friend)That i liked him and he flipped his lid.He ignored what i said and started talking about the girl he liked Morgan and how she was the best girl.And i sighed off aim and cried.When i came back on nick popped back up he started talking about how he didnt belong anywhere and i was like i thought i already told you that you belong in my heart and sighed off the next day i came on wanting answers for his behavior and he was over joshs house hes dogs crib the exact words he said to me and then he starting acting like a total man and started being a jerk to me and rae then he ended up calling me a fat a** pig and i asked him why he was saying this and he said he wants me to stop liking him.And my mouth dropped i couldnt believe he would say that to me and when he went home he said he was sorry and i told him to be carefull hes like why i was like my brother wants to kill you cause you made me cry and he made a frowney face and said he never ment to make me cry and i told him that i wont stop liking you for what you said to me cause i know that wasnt you.Ive known nick sence pre-k and a friend that he doesnt know sighed on and asked him if he liked me and he said maybe.Then last night he said he was going out with morgan and i was ughhh im still mad i cannot believe her she hated him ultra hate she told him to his face she couldnt stand him.But now she'll go out with him???so im my pro i wrote that i was jelouse of morgan cause she could do what ever she wanted to him and he would still be there but hes blocking me now.I only wanted to stop him gettign hurt and i know he will be then i sighed on my brothers name trying to talk to him and he was like i dont wanna talk to you,you cry to me to much and ive only cried because of him once but now if i say anythign that means anything im crying.
Is it so bad that i want to prevent him from being crushed he really likes her and ill kill her well not liderally but oh my god ill do somthing its not fair that she can do anything and i cant!!1
i highly doubts he likes me but my cuzin thinks its just a flirting thing and im like yeah right-
what do you think??
Katie
I cannot believe men!!!

Sweetheart! I'm sorry to say, but it seems like he only wants to be your friend. I'm not quite sure who did a lot of the talking on AIM or if it was just a side of him you didn't know, but he is so not worth it babe! If he's calling you a fat pig and making you cry, that is just one boy that should not come across yor mind. Ever. Life is way too short to be crying over a dumb boy who tells you hurtful things like that. Don't worry about it. Things will work out on their own.

♥ lena

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When you're on your period, you're supposed to be eating a lot more than you usually do, right?

What!? Where did that come from? That is the silliest thing I've never heard! I just eat normally and everything is fine. That doesn't make any sense to eat more, because it would just make you look even more bloated, and you surely don't want that.

♥ lena

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Is there any sort of websites like nexopia or myspace? I like them but I want something new. lol

Thanks

I highly reccomend getting a Facebook.

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ive been like really sad today and i dont know why. i just feel like crying and theres no reason for it at all, nothing has happened to make me upset. so why am i feeling this way?
thanks to anyone who tries to answer this.

Sometimes when you get your period, you feel differnt emotions and sometimes feel like crying and have absolutely no idea why. Smile & take a deep breath. Relax :)

♥ lena

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heyy im not a geek but im not popular at the middle school im at now, because i'm shy and because of the people i hang out with. im iin 8th grade right now, so i want to make a fresh start for highschool next year. andi want to be popular, and i want to be the leader of the group, or the queen b or whatever. but if thats impossible, then i at least just want to be like the 2nd most popular or just in the popular group. any tips??

Http://wikiehow.com/Become-the-Queen-Bee-of-Your-Whole-Entire-School

Http://wikiehow.com/Get-Noticed-by-Popular-Kids

Hope they help!

♥ lena

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what can i do to make my hair grow faster?

PLEASE HELP!!

thx

Your hair will grow naturally on it's own, but to speed up the process you can get a trim and that may sound contradictive but it cuts off any split ends and your hair will grow faster. Hope this helps!

♥ lena

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Alot of my friends and I really want to know what people think would be too young for oral sex not all the way just oral but yea it's still pretty bad i guess it's just there are so many girls at my highschool even lots of freshmen that have been involved with this kind of activity at almost every party we've been too i hate to say there sluts cause that would mean almost our whole school are sluts. Just guesstimating we would say that at least 75% freshmen girls are sexually involved
Is this normal?

If you feel like you'd be a slut doing this, then obviously, obstain from this action. If you want to do it and feel comfortable, then go right ahead. Just listen to your feelings and keep your head on straight :)

♥ lena

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how can i become flexable without taks qymnastics?

I used to dance four times a week, but then I gave it all up. And now I'm getting into yoga and stretching daily to keep my flexibility in tact. If you just concentrate on the areas of your body that you want to be stretched, stretch them daily and soon you will feel flexible ! Take care babe :)

♥ lena

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i kinda want sex now but i want to wait till marige. and i want to not be a freakin virgin
should i have sex or wait till marrage?

When the time is right, you will know.
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I was masturbating with a Sorry playing peice, and when I was done, the peice had a little bit of white stuff on it. What was it??

Wait wait, hold up. Why were you masturbating with a Sorry playing piece?

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hi - ok so i really like this guy. he lives like down the road from me, and we have gone out before. we dont go to the same school, so when we went out it was hard to see each other b/c we are both involved in sports. when we went out we both cheated on eachother, and since we never saw eachother - we just thought it was best to break up. btw, i was his first gf, first kiss, first like everything. this was all in february. now its june, and i want a new chance at him. he says that he likes me, but not enough for us to go out. he told me hes scared that if we go out, he will sqrew things up for us. bc i like him more than he likes me. i really want a second chance with him. do i deserve it? what can i do to convince him to be with me? should i move on? how? please help.

He sounds kind of like a player or at least he may be this time again. you shouldn't go and fall for his naughty tricks again. Think about what would happen if you go out with him again, before you do anything too drastic.
♥ lena

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is it okay that my boyfriend is 3 years older than me? I'm 13 and he's 16 is that bad?

No it is not bad, you can't put an age barrier on love that's what I always say.
♥ lena

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Can you tell if a guy is a virgin?

Unless you ask him..

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Everyone is so excited about the end of school, and to an point I am too. But I'm really worried too. A lot of the friends (mostly guys) that I love love love love love love aren't really OFFICIALLY my OFFICIAL good friends. Like if they were to make a list of friends in their profiles or whatever I probably wouldn't be on it. So in high school next year if we're not in classes together, I might never get to be friends with them again. Also, my official best guy friend has been really bothering me lately and I don't want to end the year on a bad note with him either. Yeah. Mayyyyyyyybe you could help me????

Talk to your friend and tell him what's the matter. It's as simple as that. Makeup with him and be happy because summer is here!
As for your friends with the no classes subject, I don't understand what you're asking me. Lo Siento.

♥ lena

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