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Too young?


Question Posted Friday August 25 2006, 2:10 pm

Alot of my friends and I really want to know what people think would be too young for oral sex not all the way just oral but yea it's still pretty bad i guess it's just there are so many girls at my highschool even lots of freshmen that have been involved with this kind of activity at almost every party we've been too i hate to say there sluts cause that would mean almost our whole school are sluts. Just guesstimating we would say that at least 75% freshmen girls are sexually involved
Is this normal?

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cheap_thrills answered Monday August 28 2006, 9:41 am:
High School kids are always going to be sexually active, it's nothing to freak out about...and it's going to happen to the majority of your school sooner or later. It doesnt make them sluts unless they decide to sleep with the whole football team or something. Personally, I think when you start High School you have the maturity level to take on any sexual expirence, though I do know a few friends that have had sex or something in Middle School...stupidly. It's nothing out of the ordinary...believe me.

hope this helped,
Brittany.
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orphans answered Saturday August 26 2006, 8:55 pm:
Life is filled with many types of people...that makes the world go round.
So you are saying only 25% never got involved in doing sex?
It seems a bit high for the school to being involved in sex acts.
It's normal, I think, for those young girls to be doing it.
They are messing up their future life, and they don't even know.
Keep your friends away from doing it and especially yourself.
Don't think yourself as an outsider when a bigger portion has done oral sex.
Talk to your mother if this is normal; don't be scared and tell her you've never done it, if you haven't.
Have you done this before?
The girls could be sluts, but it's a good thing not to tell them.
It will be hard time to time going to school and you are surrounded by sex actresses.

Hope it helps!
:)

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cherry01 answered Friday August 25 2006, 10:50 pm:
A slut,whore,ect... really just means that u have sex with lots of different men.Unless you are having sex with lots of different men/cheat on your boyfriend, then no, you are not a slut. People say that about a lot of girls, but they really dont know what theyre talkin about. Now im not saying that these girls are ACTING sluty. Theyre all just trying to find themselves and are innsecure so they want love from guys to make them feel better,and this is the only way they feel they can get it. I would really advise you not to do it though. There are a lot of deases out there.

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DancinCutie08 answered Friday August 25 2006, 10:25 pm:
not really. I believe nationally its like 75% of girls lose their virginity by the time the are 18.


The real thing is though is how you are. If they are being sluts that is their future not yours. Make sure YOU make the right decision and do what you think is right.

Although i think any kind of sex at that age is wrong oral is better then intercourse and if it keeps them from going all the way then i approve

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caramella answered Friday August 25 2006, 10:23 pm:
This is not normal for them because they do this with their boyfreinds,break up ,do it with their other boyfreinds break up till they get STDs.Its like killing yourself slowly.In my opinion i think that you should only do this when youre married because if you do it now,theres nothing going to be so awsome about doing it when your married so its kinda like save the best for last with me.And what drives me CRAZY is ppl that are 16 and younger that do this,especially 13 year olds.Ive seen alot of 13 year old cases here and it drives me CRAZY.They barely know what SEX is and yet they do it without even thinking about the consenquences.

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hitler_the_goat answered Friday August 25 2006, 9:18 pm:
not really. but I guess thats the norm for your area. mine, different story. is somebody trying to come up with a good excuse to join in?
-gunner

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iiloveyou answered Friday August 25 2006, 7:19 pm:
If you feel like you'd be a slut doing this, then obviously, obstain from this action. If you want to do it and feel comfortable, then go right ahead. Just listen to your feelings and keep your head on straight :)

♥ lena

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