sooo, i'm 16 and i have been best friends with this girl since birth. we do everything together and i love her like a sister. my boyfirend and i have been going steady for 6 months, but im starting to have different feelings. i mean, my bfs great to me and everyhing, but its really my best friend taht makes me want to touch myself. I'm affraid tht lesbiansm is a freak thing, and i don't want to be one. How do I stay with my boyfriend, love my bestfriend, and be happy at the same time?
thanks,
-confused
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category? Maybe give some free advice about: General Sex Questions? iiloveyou answered Friday September 1 2006, 10:13 pm: Well.
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First of all, this is a tough situation that teenagers everywhere go through, so don't feel like you're the only one.
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Second of all, you should figure out what you want to be once and for all. Clearly you want to stay straight, and with your boyfriend. Perhaps you should devote half of your time with him and half of your time with your best friend. This way, you will figure out who you want to like or who, in your case, makes you want to touch yourself. Once you have made your decision, follow your heart. There's nothing wrong with anything, no matter how you end up :)
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