wild stab in the dark, but have you ever tried NOT trying to make friends, or being overly friendly...know sounds weird but that was the mistake i made at school, just be yourself, don't be prone for attention, people seem to catch it like a bad smell.
Please yourself first. Happy people attract other happy people.

If you need a friend give me a email, i know, it would be better to talk to someone present, and hang out...but my offer stands
ck_madrynn@yahoo.co.uk

Best wishes for 2006

know how you feel, so i guess this is for myself too.

can't force people into anything, can't help them from anything, best you can do is try to help them help themselves, if they aren't willing to be helped...they are as walking dead.

people will never appreciate what they have untill its lost. sadly even then they are usually too proud too admit that they would like it back or to make any effort.

only person who should be important is you, even if they don't seem to appresiate anything, what you are doing and how you are living should please you, and if it pleases you to make these sacrifices for other ppl, who cares what they do.

do what makes you happy man, in life you are all alone anyway, only you and yourself.

wish you great wisdom and strength
goodluck

err...don't know what ur talking about, but radioheads best cd is 'ok computer'.
hope you find what you'r looking for there

don't want to get shot, but try everything you are interested in at least once.
i'm a guy and have thought about the same thing, only problem for me was i only like my own...errr... equiptment and other guy just seem incompatible. your choice to make and noone elses.
anyway, if you DO decide to try it out send me a couple of pics plz...wait ur 14....nevermind.
goodluck

propably a joke, maybe not, send her a pic of you wearing only socks, she might reconsider either way...hehehe.
just so you are sure, i don't want to see a picture of you wearing only underwear either.
goodluck

I don't know the whole story, or even his point of view, but you are clearly not meant for each other, he was propably upset that you can be happy without him, and it sound like you really are. don't feel bad, move on with your happy life, don't rub it in his face but enjoy YOUR life.
Luck and love

phew,
the laptop evening are a good idea, but limit it to 3 times a week at the most, 1am at the latest during the week, let him decide which days though.
you both have a child to think about and if he takes your relationship seriously he will respect that.
nevermind a maraige, a child needs stable rolemodels and even though they need some relaxation too, the baby should and must (in my humble oppinion) come first.
He should make up his mind of what he wants....sorry he SHOULD HAVE made up his mind already.
im not going to tell you to love or leave him, the choice is up to you, but make him understand that you BOTH need to make sacrifices for this to work, and you both will have to put in alot more than you will get out, but my perants said it was worth it.
best of luck and love

talking to him would be a good first step, you could ask him to help you out with something at the gym....ask him about something when you are visiting your friend.
don't know how you relationsship with your friend is, but you could ask for her/his help.
be yourself and goodluck

no it's supposed to be fun....
FUN!!!!!!
not going to help worrying about it, be a tad nervous, but try to have nice clean fun.

he might be a tad shy,
next time he hears that he's telling you/people he's going to ask you out, ask him either when he's going to do it else just where or when you should meet him.
Else, this might be a bit forward but, next time he takes your hand kiss him, that should warm him up :)

hope this helps :)

Get a bucket of icecream and start eating (currently doing that myself), people make up their own minds, all you can do is be yourself and if he responds good for you, if not...enjoy the icecream :(

Know how you feel,
hoji

really sweet, id love it if my girlfriend gave my a cd with lyrics of songs I like.

agree with brokenagain on everything.

if it bothers YOU, go talk to a docter about it, there may be ways to slow your metabolism or he might at least give you proper advice on the subject.
I'm the skinny and don't seem to gain weight, I noticed that I don't gain weight cause I skip alot of lunches and eat at random times (supper 17:00 one day, 20:00 the next,...).

hope this helps,
Cheers

talk to him every now and then, don't come off as needing him in any way, futher act YOURSELF, then he might like u or not.

Maybe ask him out on a date? welcome to the 21st century, but remember not to come of kiddy or needy, it may be a tad overwheling, just play it kewl.

I can't asure you that it would work no matter how you play it tho, just see what happens and good luck

bad day, we all get those,

but do yourself a favour and learn about real love, now that you don't feel like talking to your girl, take time and talk to her, try your best, this will really help out for future bad days, anyway she might have a way to cheer you up, just by talking to you, so don't just bitch to her...

other than that i can't really help, but good luck

They usually test for something specific, not likelly to find weed when looking for coke....but never bad to be safe.

Even if you don't smoke pot at all and just sat opposite somebody smoking a joint they can pick it up, but the test is only positive for a certain ammount of thc per blood amount. don't know what that is though.

k, my buddy did this before insurance medical tests a few years back.
Drink as much water as you can everyday for two weeks, more of both the better, NO POT.
He drank something like 6-10 litres of the stuff a day and his test came out negative for weed.
The only way that they can then detect weed is in ur hair, but as far as i know the test a bit expensive, and unlikely to be performed.

Don't do drugs ;)

I feel like you might be me at 17, I also described it as tripping in love :)
I'll tell you some things what I really wish I knew back then and I hope you find it helpfull.

If you are anything like me, the treating women with the highest respect and dignity, might be a tad overdone, just treat them with the respect and dignity, BUT you must treat them this way because you treat yourself likewise!!!!
Bible says something I like "What the the heart is full off, the mouth overflows off"
What you are full off you will automatically give other people.
If she is being unreasonable towards you, treat yourself foremost with respect AND her with the same, so tell her and don't try to kiss her ass.

First off, she is smiling and laughing when talking to you, might be wrong but it's pretty safe to assume she likes you in SOME way.

Ask her out on a date (for coffee,... whatever you enjoy doing, or would enjoy doing with her), most women won't ask a man, no matter what, so assume the man role. REMEMBER to say WHEN and WHAT, YOU MUST TELL HER WHEN!!! find out what times are good for her and you decide when it will fit you best.

Now when you go on the date, be yourself, joke around with her, tease her (those 3 rules will get you far, its fun for women). Find out what she likes and enjoys. If this would happen to include strawberries or whatever and you have the opertunity to buy them then and there, don't. Buy it for her next time you go on a date, this is good advice never get women what they want imidiatly, give it a tad later, this shows that you were paying attention and that you are giving cause you want to give.
For now you MUST think of yourself as interviewing her, NOT the otherway around. Shes out with you, so now it's your turn to decide if anything going to happen from this FRIENDSHIP.
Try not to kiss her on the first date, no matter how much you want to. Go home have a cold shower and consider what you like about her, AND WHAT NOT, no matter how trivial, espesially if you have a crush on her!!!

A couple of days later 3 or 4, tell her you had fun the last time and if she wants to go out again, if she enjoyed the last time she might say yes, but then she might be busy...AGAIN you decide when and where...don't ask her.
You may later find out that she enjoys tenpin bowling, don't take her imidiatly, a tad later.

This time do the same, maybe get her the strawberries/flowers/cookies she likes...

You should start looking out for interest from her side from the 2nd to 4th date, not teribly good at reading women i'm in company with but I found the hair test to be uncanny. Sitting/lying... next to her, get her to talk, look in her eyes, reach over and play with her hair CONFIDENTLY. don't be "may i please touch..." women in general don't like weak men, touch her cause you want to.
If she don't like it she'll tell you.
If there are no objections reach over and kiss her, again CONFIDENTLY and cause YOU want to, again she will always tell you when she doesn't like anything. DONT be apologetic about kissing or whatever she don't like, respect her wishes tho and try again later :)

Then kiss her at regular intervals, when you want to. If she wants to kiss you, tell her that you will but only after a backrub or the like.

Lastly, if you were yourself things will happen because she does or doesn't like YOU, don't take it personally though.
Always stand up for her!
Always try to supprise her, very little of this includes gifts!
Be confidant in yourself and that you can make her happy!
DON'T COME OFF AS NEEDING HER, i've made the mistake plenty of times of telling women i have a crush on that i love them..., BAD MOVE. I'd say if you love her after 3-6 months (and you're still involved with her) tell her.
Take the lead in the relationship, it's like a dance anyway.

Might be a good idea for you to watch "Hitch" if you havn't yet, pretty damn good movie.

Hope you the best my good man, remember it's always a risk to try.

PS. have confidence in yourself that you CAN build a very long relationship out of any relationship you choose to, don't be a airhead about it, just love youself a litle too. :)

look at how he is acing towards other girls, if he is flirting with everybody, he is just being nice.

Ask him out or wait for him to ask you out.

Goodluck

hope this helps out :)

short kiss (maybe the left cheek), slight pause, short kiss (maybe the right), slight pause , short kiss (maybe the mouth), slight pause, bit longer kiss (mouth),... go with the flow.

the longer kisses would be something that a goldfish does with it mouth

maybe wait before trying a french, but if you do, don't go wild eel, just don't do dead eel either.

Eyes closed, no groping (either hold her hands, elbows or a hug is pretty safe), everybody misses a kiss (me blush) now and again so if you do, pull away and back without being bothering about it.

You as a male of our species you need to act in control, even if you feel you're not, almost like leading in a dance, if you know you buggered up, act as if you wanted to do it like that...

HAVE FUN, thats all kissing is.

Sad part about life is that you won't know till he is a father.
Being in his mid-40's doesn't make him a bad-father, just childless.
Advice I can give you, take him to a zoo where there are kids around, notice things like the way he looks at kids (carefull, carefull, shouldn't be a MJ look tho), how he reacts toward them, talk about kids and later INDIFFERANTLY ask how he feels about having some of his own or why he never had any. second might be a better choice.
Good Luck

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