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i never get appreciated!
im 15 years old and in the last two years i have really fixed up from what i used to be. now im a reallycaring and loving person. no matter how much i do for someone, no one seems to care or appreciate me. i know im sounding a bit desperate for attension, but i feel like im unwanted by my own friends. i have friends that i would prepared to do anything for, just to make them happy..but they dont think the same about me.
i try sooo hard with soo many different people..but its as if no one notices me. no one seems to realise. some people mean so much to me but i mean nothing to them. iv almost given up with everything. i have no idea what to do.
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Dont give up i know how u feel, im oging thruogh the same things with a few of my friends, i luv them to death and would do anything for them, its just they dont feel the same way. Just try to talk to them about what ur going through and explain to them whats going through your mind, if they dont understand or dont even try to understand then i hate to say this but they arent your true friend! I know how hard it is i am involved in liked all the drama but it will help you out. well i hoped i helped, if i didnt and you need more just either ask me another question, or emial me: boxer_lover2389@yahoo.com
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know how you feel, so i guess this is for myself too.
can't force people into anything, can't help them from anything, best you can do is try to help them help themselves, if they aren't willing to be helped...they are as walking dead.
people will never appreciate what they have untill its lost. sadly even then they are usually too proud too admit that they would like it back or to make any effort.
only person who should be important is you, even if they don't seem to appresiate anything, what you are doing and how you are living should please you, and if it pleases you to make these sacrifices for other ppl, who cares what they do.
do what makes you happy man, in life you are all alone anyway, only you and yourself.
wish you great wisdom and strength
goodluck
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hey !! i think that you`ve been so cought up being stuck up everyone elses ass. that you don`t see that you`re doing it way too much. maybe you should lay off a little bit and let them see that you arent trying way too hard. sorry for sounding rude there!! byee [♥]Lej
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I think you have neglected the most important person, you. While you may have bent over backwards and done a lot for others, have you done things for yourself, or acted, or more importantly believed that you should be treated with the same amount of respect and attention? Did you ever notice that the people who have the most self cofidence get the most attention and people seem to flock around them when they are in need? I am sure you are a great person and a wonderful friend. Keep being that person to your friends and family, but also, treat yourself and believe in yourself. You will be surprised how people respond.
Good luck and keep me posted.
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maybe you shouldn't try so hard...
and if they don't appreciate you, maybe you should find people who do appreciate you for who you are and not for what they want you to be
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