how can you tell if a guy is flirting with you and not just being nice? what are some signs that he really has some intrest and isnt just trying to act sweet? thanks!
HCOxBaBe5 answered Tuesday November 1 2005, 11:50 pm: Okeyy, you will tell if hes flirting with you if he
Trys To be by your locker at school even tho` you know his class isnt over there
says your his best girl-friend
Picks on you
trys to act cool around you and ends up being clumsy
or any of the other signs.. if you need anymore help IM me HCOxBABE27 or ask me anything else
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x0dani0x answered Tuesday November 1 2005, 7:57 pm: hmm...well see how he acts towards other girls..if he acts the same then hes just a big flirt! but if not..then you know he sortaa has something for you [ x0dani0x's advice column | Ask x0dani0x A Question ]
MummuM answered Tuesday November 1 2005, 7:32 pm: You'll know if he's flirting with you and not just being friendly, if he does the following:
1. The Eyebrow Lift - - When a guy first sees a girl he's attracted to, chances his eyebrows will rise and fall. Quickly. (You can slip the flip of an eyebrow back at him, if you're interested - it's a clear signal both ways.)
2. Gaining Your Attention - - Exaggerated movements or gestures usually mean that he's trying to stand out from the crowd. He may shift positions so that he is standing slightly apart from his friends or a group of people.
3. Slight Parting of the Lips - - His lips may automatically part for a second when your eyes first meet.
4. His Nostrils Open Slightly, Face Widens - - As his eyebrows raise and nostrils flare slightly so with the parted lips, he has an open, friendly expression on his face.
5. He Shifts to the Classic Male Courship Stance
The macho stance (cowboy style) he'll probably lock his thumbs in his belt or belt loops, point his fingers downwards, spread his legs about shoulder distance apart and tilt his head to one side.
6. Touches His Own Face - - He may rub his chin, brush his cheek with the back of his fingers or touch his ears. (He may not realize this is a combination of nerves and unconscious preening behavior.)
7. Strokes His Shirt Front, Smoothes his Jeans
More unconscious preening, smoothing a shirt sleeve, tie, shirt pocket. (The equivalent of the female lip lick.)
8. Fiddles with His Hair - - He may smooth or tussle his hair involuntarily and more often than you might realize - again preening for you...
9. Eyebrows Arc While Talking - - He may, accidentally, exhibit a slightly surprised expression with slightly raised eyebrows - which means he is interested in you. (Forget the guy who looks at you with a smooth, relaxed brow and eyes - he thinks you're boring. You probably think he's boring so drop your eyebrows and more on.)
10. Sock Adjustment - - If a guy pulls up or adjusts his socks in your presence, it's an almost 100 per cent sign he's interested and trying to look his best. The big preening signal.
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