Q: I like a guy in my grade but there are few problems. First, all my friends hate him. And then he is about a foot shorter than me. And then of course, the popular girls of my grade are laways flirting with him, though I doubt any of them would actually date him. I sit next to him in one class, but I can't ever talk to him. It would be awkward for me to ask him out because I'm not sure if he likes me because he's always trying to impress his friends who don't like me, but when they aren't around he's nice to me. How should i approach him?

Q: ok my friend is like really selfish. and she is REALLY clingy. when she gives an example about something like a good singer she uses herself, and when i say like "or me" she says "o my god! just becaus i said im a good singer doesnt mean you have to turn it around on yourself!" i know im a way better singer than her. and she ALWAYS calls me a fat ass. she also always brags about how skinny she is by saying "o my god look how fat i am in my gym suit!" and i give her a really mean look and tell her to shut her mouth and stop bragging and she always laughs like im kidding and i tell her im not and she says "o my god! just because i think im fat doesnt mean you have to say im bragging!" she exercises soooooooo much!please help i dont wanna kill our frendship

Q: Okay, there is this really hot guy in my science class. I know that he knows I like him, but I dont think he likes me. How can I find out without having
one of my friends ask for me?

Q: i am going to the movies with my boyfriend. i was wondering if i should make a move on him? should i kiss him? Im new at this so i dont know what i should do. my friends are coming along too and i dont know if i should make a move because they are also there. would it be weird if i did make a move? please help!

Q: okay so i have this friends hes really nice to me and we always have fun together and laught and we talk on the phone for hours and just have a good time but he always gets mad at me for the stupidest things! and when ever he does something mean to me then he like completly ignors it and is like "shut up" or sumthing like that and then he laughs and acts like its no big deal. and like he always ditches me for some one more prettyier or more popular and when ever hes with them he like ignors me! wut do i do?!? am i oo nice for letting him walk all over me like that?? am i a push over!?!? idk wut to do please help soon

Q: aarrrgg!! okay i kno this is wrong but it makes me sooo mad! okay so i am an only shild and everyone thinks that yea i am spoild but im not! my parents work soo hard to make shua im not spoild that i barley get anything! i mean they give me the basics you knoe clothes shelter and food. well i always have to save up my own money for anything that i want. like last summer i wanted a trampoline so i worked really hard and i save up money and bought my trampoline. well my best friend saw that i got one so she asked her parents to get her one and they did! well yea i was disappointed cuz i worked really hard and she just had to ask for it. this went on when i saved up for my cell phone and this really cute sweat shirt and with designer bags and everything!! aarrgg!!! why is everyone soo spoild! idk i prolly sound like a brat but i feel like im being cheated! and she always get the sam exact thing as me the very next week!
help me please

Q: ok my boyfriend and i had oral sex. i fell like i have betrayed everyone and now i dont know if i was ready. is this normal?
Thanks
Lauren

Q: okay my boyfriend didnt get me ne thing for christmas and i feel kinda guilty for getting him something...and now i got a ring in the mail from someone and i dont kno who it was from...what should i tell my boyfriend when he asks...that is if he asks?

Q: Im 13 years old and I just started jr. high. I'm in the 7th grade. The problem is that I have no friends and I don't know how to make any. I've tried to be social, but no one seems to want to talk to me. I'm in all honors classes, and the girls in the honors classes are all rich and white and popular. I don't really like them anyway, but i have every class with them. Thankfully, i have 1 really good friend I met this year. She dosnt have friends, either. How can I make friends? I want to be the popular girl i was in elementary.

Q: Ok.. I just wanna know if its uh.. normal. or feel way to overwelmed about sex. I know it ment to be pleasurable and stuff. But that fact of something going inside of me. Is wayy disgusting its like my fear.. kinda. I cant help the feel. and it pisses me off.
Im Bisexual and it even goes for finger or tampons i just get so grossed out. Is this normal??
will i get over it.

Q: ok so i was at a basketball game and i was standing behide my crush and i was with all my friends and these other guys. i was talking fine with all the guys i even met new guys(and im fine with them) but theres just something when im about to go and talk to him im just to scared to go and talk to him i get really nervous when im close to him. and the thing is he knows who i am but i really havnt talked to him.

Q: I have a problem: I am a lonely introvert, and I try to get out and make friends. But my problems is that most people only want to talk about superficial things such as house, car, kids, job, and shopping. While I know those are what most people care about, these topics bore me to death. I like deeper conversations about philosophy or literature. I don't mean to be conceited, but it's hard to find smart people to talk to. Why can't I find anyone on my level? Should I dumb myself down to fit in? Any comments are appreiciated. Thank you!

Q: For as long as I can remember, my aunt has always been an alcoholic. My family has stopped being in contact with her because she has caused many problems with my family in the past. There are days she will drink so much she'll pass out and other days she'll become extreamly violent. I never see her anymore and yet I'm worried about her. I'm more so worried about my 10 year old cousin (her daughter). My aunt has been on and off with drinking. Before I was born it was really bad. My mother told me that it was because she was in love with this guy but he was Chinese and his parent's didn't want him to marry a woman of another race so they had to end their relationship. That was nearly 30 years ago. I fear for my aunt. Although I do not have a close relationship with her, let alone any relationship with her at all, regardless she is family and I'm scared she is going to take things too far and hurt herself or someone else. I need to find her help. My mother and my other aunt have been trying to find places to take her but every place said that they needed more information about her problems. We really don't know at all why she is the way that she is. Her husband isn't any help at all. He just sits his fat ass on the couch with a beer in one hand and the TV remote in the other. Their house is a terrible mess and a person living on the streets would be too disgusted to even live there. They have a 10 almost 11 year old daughter and they do take care of her, and as a matter of fact, she's a spoiled brat. I'm still worried because the environment she is living in is in no way healthy for her. I don't know what to do. My family doesn't know what to do. I need to find her help but we can't find any place for her. Please, please, help. I apologize for the length of this question.

Q: Ok, well there is this guy that I like and he absolutely adores me. He asked me out but I said no, maybe sometime soon. I like him, I really do. But see, I don't know if we went out that it would work out. He likes to play video games and talks about them a lot. I could care less half of the time but I listen and try to be interested in what he is saying because I care if that makes sense. And well, I'm the kind of girl who really likes to cuddle and kiss and sometimes other things. I don't have sex or oral sex.. just other things if you catch my drift. I mean I can live without those things if I have to. So my question is, should I go out with this guy? What are your blunt opinions on if you think it'd work out for us or not? Thanks

Q: im sort of taking everyones advice.. everyone told me to talk to him and i did.. and he told me to wait for him.. and i tried doing that.. but im finally letting him go.. im changing my life now.. im letting more and more go.. and im just being more open with people.. i realized that i shouldnt just be there when he needs me.. and maybe i was moving to fast.. so now im just letting go.. and im actually happy.. im meeting a lot of new people.. and he is now telling me that he wants to go out with me.. but i dont want to.. cause im having fun right now.. im living my life the way i want to.. now how do i tell him that im not into him anymore.. i mean ive told him.. but i think that he thinks im lying.. and ive told him.. and ive told him millions of times.. and he doesnt seem to understand.. and its like im having new guy friends.. and most of them are starting to like me.. i mean its kool that one or two of them like me.. but man.. im kind of not used to this.. i know it might sound weird.. but im not really wanting all of this attention.. i mean yea i changed.. but i didnt change myself for everyone to talk to me.. like they do now.. i feel like im losing some people this way.. and im gaining others.. so i guess im asking more then one question...
how do i tell the guy that i really dont want to go out with him?? and get him to really understand??
how do i get all of the new guys to stop likeing me.. without telling them to stop liking me??
should i be happy that im getting new friends?? but then at the same time losing old ones??
and anything else that is in that.. please help..

Q: my boy friend and i recently broke up .. because i was mad at him.. so he dumped me.. and i no i dhouldnt feel upset.. but i do.. how do i cheer myself up. kas it doesnt feel like anything has changed.. it feels like we r still goin out. how do i get over it?

Q: Alright, my girlfriend just ended her period and we were thinking of sex. I tried to get a condom but with no luck. Now I checked up on it and people say after a period, there is no egg. So I thought, even without a condom, if we had sex and I,"Pulled out early." If there is a chance of pregnancy.

Q: I broke up with my ex boyfriend because i had been hearing stuff like that he was all over other girls. But then when i broke up with him he cried infront of all of his friends and everything. I still love him a lot and want to be with him but we've gone out 5 times and i just dont know if this time he means it. He's also my best friend and he told me that he loved me and would do anything to get me back! So what should i do.. go back out with him, stay broken up or just take a break?

Q: My two friends, who happen to be girls, really like me, and I don't know if I like them as much! One is good looken, and the other is fun to be with, Please help me on what I should do. Thanks!

Q: Ok its CREEPY thers this guy that i hung out with ONCE at a party who goes to a totally different school then me. he ends up calling me (even though i never gave him my number??) and we talk alittle but i really dont like him. then he calls me right before i left yesterday (ON MY HOUSE PHONE?!?) and i told him i couldnt talk and he said "why not" and i said "im about to go to the movies with my friends" and then i went there and guess who was there! yupp that guy!! and he decided to see the same movie at the same time! weird huh! how do i get rid of him??

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