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now what do i do??
im sort of taking everyones advice.. everyone told me to talk to him and i did.. and he told me to wait for him.. and i tried doing that.. but im finally letting him go.. im changing my life now.. im letting more and more go.. and im just being more open with people.. i realized that i shouldnt just be there when he needs me.. and maybe i was moving to fast.. so now im just letting go.. and im actually happy.. im meeting a lot of new people.. and he is now telling me that he wants to go out with me.. but i dont want to.. cause im having fun right now.. im living my life the way i want to.. now how do i tell him that im not into him anymore.. i mean ive told him.. but i think that he thinks im lying.. and ive told him.. and ive told him millions of times.. and he doesnt seem to understand.. and its like im having new guy friends.. and most of them are starting to like me.. i mean its kool that one or two of them like me.. but man.. im kind of not used to this.. i know it might sound weird.. but im not really wanting all of this attention.. i mean yea i changed.. but i didnt change myself for everyone to talk to me.. like they do now.. i feel like im losing some people this way.. and im gaining others.. so i guess im asking more then one question...
how do i tell the guy that i really dont want to go out with him?? and get him to really understand??
how do i get all of the new guys to stop likeing me.. without telling them to stop liking me??
should i be happy that im getting new friends?? but then at the same time losing old ones??
and anything else that is in that.. please help..
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Hey sweetie. I'm glad that you let go, I'm trying to do that at the moment too maybe you could help me later on what to do with that lol. Well anyways back to your questions. Well you told him you don't like him like that anymore and he doesn't believe you? Huh? Yeah he thinks that your always going to be there when he wants you to, when you have in the past. You can't do anything really except talk to him and you did that. Eventually he will get it, he may be a little upset but he does have to realize that you aren't always going to be there. And to get the new guys to stop liking you? Well just don't act to interested, you can still be friends with them but just don't give off the vibe that you want to go out with them. Don't shut yourself off completely because someone you really like may come along. I think you should be happy your getting new friends. Change is always good. I know the feeling of loosing old friends isn't good but maybe they are drifting away because they think you don't have time for them because you are with new people. Try to find time for everyone. Hope I helped. <3 Ryah
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I think you should tell the guy you used to like that your a changed person. And you don't want to be held down and waiting for someone when you could be out having fun with your friends. And as for the guys that like you now, just tell them (nicely) that your not really interested. It's always a GOOD thing to make new friends but it's the old ones that actually cared about you that you want to still keep in touch with. You could always have some of your old friends and your new friends hang out and maybe every one will just form one big group.
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SORRY THIS IS SO LONG BUT ITS GREAT ADVICE!!!
All i have to say is just tell the guy that i have waited for you but it is really over and i hope we can really just be friends with each other etc.(or what ever).And i dont think it is good to dump your old friends because old friends will always be there for you and your new friends probably will but probably wont.Also you can stop the other guys from liking you if you just say you like another guy that always liked you i mean of course you will be lieing but that would get them off of you at least like you saying you will never go with any one else besides that guy:hope i helped:rate me pleaze:GRAPE
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okay well this is a tuffy...
you should be happy that your getting new guy friends! but i can tell taht it can get annoying, just try not to talk to them as much. I mean, dont ignore them, just talk to them less.Because the less you talk to them the more the'll have less contact wit you and maybe the more they'll stop likeing you. Worth a shot! (= well i really dont understand why your loosing old friends. Oh yeah and about the guy, tell him something like this (I still want to be your friend, im not kidding, im serious, listen to me now. I want to still be your friend, but im afraid to say taht i've moved on and i cant wait around for you anymore. I dont like you anymore. Sorry" (not that same way, but similar). i really hope i could help.. this was a real tuffy.
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I think you should say this to this guy:" I dont like you as more then a friend, we are just friends and nothing more. So please stop bothering me" something like that.
And as for your guy friends. You can have guy friends but if you dont want them to like you then just dont flirt with them or anything like that. But be nice to them, just dont make them think you like them.
I think you should be happy you are making friends. Its ok to make new friends and keep the old friends. Just when you make new friends, still keep in touch or hang out or call your old friends. Mmaybe your new friends and your old friends and you can all hang out together.
sorry this is so long
good luck!!..=-)
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