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Q: Ok where can I begin. There is this girl I like right. And I think that if I asked she might just go out with me. But I am not as popular as this girl and she has popular friends just like her. I am afraid that if I ask her out and she says no that it would be spread around the whole school becasue I doubt that they could keep a secret. And if she said yes that they would make fun of her . What should I do?
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Go for it! Ask her out! Don't hold back, because their is a chance she might say yes. Try to get some of her friends to ask her if she might like you, but dont get them to ask her to much or she'll probaly get annoyed with it. And if her friends say yes, she does like you.. then go for it! But if her friends say no.. its probaly because she doesn't know you well enough. So then talk to her and once you talk to her on AIM and stuff.. call her and then you guys and really get to know each other!
Hope I helped! And I hope it all works out with you!
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Q: alrigty...i have a bad habit with cutting my self..and i need to stop...the only problem is...i dont kno how...my life is kinda shakey now b/c my mom is makin me go live with my aunt 4 good b/c of my "problem" and im doin pretty bad in skool with all the stress thats going on...and that makes more stress and just blah...i mean my friends and my boyfriend HATE the fact that i do it and they give me ideas to stop like squeezing an ice-cube until it melts...but that dont help... and i am in cheerleading an i always have to wear my long sleeve shirt so ppl wont see my arms and be like "shes physco" er suttin...but ne ways..i also have a prob with eating...i mean im not fat and i love food...but it just makes me wanna puke...so idk what to do about that either...so if ne one has ne ideas with how to help me with this stuff...please let me kno!
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ok i dont kno exactly where your coming from but one of my really good friends was a cutter shes also a cheerleader. It was really scary watching her go through that, later she was reported to a counciler at our school and it helped her sooo much shes ok now but i know it was really hard for her to stop but just think of what your doing to yourself...you have your family and your friends so dont give that up theyll be there for you when you need them...dont give up good luck i hope i could help!
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Q: I'm afraid 2 ask this guy out because he is one of my good friends! He is giving me mixed signals! What should i do? I am to scared 2 ask him out!
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Dont be afraid, go for it! Take the risk! The most dangorous thing is the risk not taken!
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Q: im sort of taking everyones advice.. everyone told me to talk to him and i did.. and he told me to wait for him.. and i tried doing that.. but im finally letting him go.. im changing my life now.. im letting more and more go.. and im just being more open with people.. i realized that i shouldnt just be there when he needs me.. and maybe i was moving to fast.. so now im just letting go.. and im actually happy.. im meeting a lot of new people.. and he is now telling me that he wants to go out with me.. but i dont want to.. cause im having fun right now.. im living my life the way i want to.. now how do i tell him that im not into him anymore.. i mean ive told him.. but i think that he thinks im lying.. and ive told him.. and ive told him millions of times.. and he doesnt seem to understand.. and its like im having new guy friends.. and most of them are starting to like me.. i mean its kool that one or two of them like me.. but man.. im kind of not used to this.. i know it might sound weird.. but im not really wanting all of this attention.. i mean yea i changed.. but i didnt change myself for everyone to talk to me.. like they do now.. i feel like im losing some people this way.. and im gaining others.. so i guess im asking more then one question...
how do i tell the guy that i really dont want to go out with him?? and get him to really understand??
how do i get all of the new guys to stop likeing me.. without telling them to stop liking me??
should i be happy that im getting new friends?? but then at the same time losing old ones??
and anything else that is in that.. please help..
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okay well this is a tuffy...
you should be happy that your getting new guy friends! but i can tell taht it can get annoying, just try not to talk to them as much. I mean, dont ignore them, just talk to them less.Because the less you talk to them the more the'll have less contact wit you and maybe the more they'll stop likeing you. Worth a shot! (= well i really dont understand why your loosing old friends. Oh yeah and about the guy, tell him something like this (I still want to be your friend, im not kidding, im serious, listen to me now. I want to still be your friend, but im afraid to say taht i've moved on and i cant wait around for you anymore. I dont like you anymore. Sorry" (not that same way, but similar). i really hope i could help.. this was a real tuffy.
=) later
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Q: Ok so my friends all think i need a girlfriend but i really dont want at the moment but on the other hand, i really do. My parents think i should be focused on school and not dating but, i dont know wat to do. Please help
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If you want a girlfriend, get one. If you dont, dont have one. Its all up to you, not anyone else. But parents are always going to say that, the wole reason they say it is because they dontwant you caught up with some one else and get your heart broken or pressured into anything. Really nothing to do with school. Just dont let you get hurt or pressured into anything and you'll be fine! =)
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Q: My boyfriend and me have been dating for a month. I was a virgin when we met he was surprised that I was. This weekend there was a party at my friend’s house and I invited him to come with me. We both got wasted and stoned. All night he was asking me to have sex and I kept saying no. I didn’t want to loose my virginity well I was drunk and stoned. I wanted to do it when I was ready as well. When I was in my friend room alone he came in and locked the door behind him again he asked me to have sex I was so drunk at that point I was about to pass out and so I said yes. So now I feel really bad is this a good thing?
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Well it depends how old you are. Being a teenager (except for 18 and up) i think its a pretty bad thing, because your so young. Well you really need to stay of the drugs. You need to break up with your boyfriend too, because it seems like he was pressuring you into it. A good boyfriend wouldnt care if your a virgin, and he wouldnt be into sex and everything. So my advice is, find a guy you really like and who wouldn't pressure you into anything. And tell your boyfriend now that what you did was a mistake and never should of happened. And yeah, im serious lay off the drugs, they can do bad things to you.
Hope i could help!!
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Q: Does anyone know any good CD's that i can ask for for Chirstmas. I dont like Rap or R&B, i like rock/pop. But nothing like Brittney Spears or Xtina. And i'll like anything with electric guitars blarring. Any suggestions?
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Yeah i have a few suggestions... i dont know if youre into like hard core rock but i think that the new Green Day CD with ((american idoit)) and ((Boulevard of broken dreams)) isa really cool CD i love it i also like the Good Charolette Chronicles of life and death Cd too but like i said i dont know if youre into that kinda of alterantive stuff or like hard rock... hope i could help!!:)
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Q: i really REALLY like a guy and how can i get him to notice me? its like im invisable to him. n some people sya that he likes me.. but how can i be for sure he likes me? because i want to ask him out.. but i dont want him to say no.
PLEASE HELPPP!!!!
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dear how to get a guy,
flirt with him let him know your interested. chances are if he does like you hell flirt back.
dont let your friends get involed guys hate when you friends bug them to death. The best you can do is just be yourself.If he doesnt like it then hes not worth all the trouble.Just go for it!
--Hope i Could Help out--
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bio
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This is Kaley and Alli's advice column... you can ask use anything you guys want and we'll try to answer it the best we can!
-Alli n Kaley
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Info
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AIM: Member Since: November 27, 2004 Answers: 8 Last Update: December 12, 2004 Visitors: 1353
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