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Alright basically i was diagnosed with anorexia two years ago. Now my question isnt about me being it cuz i know im not ive been keepin an average menstration cycle. My question is should i go on a diet or do you think that would be stupide becuase if i restrict i might become anorexic again. Im weighing at 115 im size 2 and small - medium in shirts..so im not huge but im not very very thin..im 5'3" if that helps you get a vision of my boy type im fit but i wonder if itd be okay to limit my foods. Im supposed to be at 124 but 115 is okay to..id like to be down to 112 im 16 years old. alright now that ive rambled on what do you think?

I honestly think you don`t need to go on any sort of diet..Even if you wasn`t ever anorexic sweetie..Sounds like you have the nice body..Theres no need to go on a diet unless your overweight which you aren`t..You could exercise to keep the body fit but enojoy the foods you like..

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Sorry if this is the wronge caregory.

My boyfriend of over a year has finially decided to teach me to play pool. He's 20, and has been playing since he was 10. So he is super good. Prob. is I'm super bad. I mean on a scale of 1-10 I'm like a negative 100.

Does anyone have any tips or websites that will help me out?

Thanks.

Let him teach you.. Practice works after him teaching you;;If he`s been playing that long he knows what he`s doin don`t be worries sweetie;;

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My boyfriend is 16 and I am 13, I know that is kind of a big age difference but he's alot more mature. I'm really afraid to go to the movies with him and stuff because I don't want him to try to make a move. I'll make out with him and stuff, but he might try to reach down my pants, and I'm soo NOT ready for that. How do I tell him that without sounding like a prude? He's had sex before so I told him that I'm not gunna have sex with him. This was his answer: "i dont care I dont want sex either I just want a beautiful aka you." So does it seem like he's after sex? And I'm really scared to talk to him on the phone so when he asked me to call him I said my phone is lost which it reallly isn't. I feel guilty, but my parents don't want me talking to boys. Haha, if I do go to the movies with him, should I bring a friend?

Okay sweetie;;
You should tell him that you aren`t ready for no more then making out.. If he tries something then he obviously isn`t good enough for you;; He doesn`t respect you..He shouldn`t try to rush a girl into anything they aren`t ready for..
So if he tries something anyways then you defiantly shouldn`t be going with him anyways;;

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Im a guy,17,and i'm only 5'6.So do you guys have any idea what age guys stop growing?And what do I take to help my growing? calcium? protien? what type of food should I eat and what exercises should I do?

I`m not real sure on exercises && foods to help you grow;;But i do know you aren`t done growing guys don`t stop growing til early twentys;;

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Alright this may say pretty gross but oh well..When I poop it hurts on the left side(on a scale to 1 to 5 its a bout a 3) and when i get done i wipe and its bloody, Do I have anything wrong? I don't try to push it out or anythin i just let it rip.. lol

If this is hurting you then i suggest seeing a doctor;;

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I have an 8 year old son who will be going into 3rd grade.

He played little league baseball this year and loved it.

He had his first football practice yesterday and he wasn't as thrilled about it. Today when it was time for practice he said he didn't want to go. Then when we got there, 1 hour into it he came off the field complaining that he felt like he was gonna throw up. I was concerned about the heat, it's really unusually hot here in upstate NY. But he looked ok, face color normal and he wasn't showing signs of heat exhaustion so I gave him a drink and made him go back out. Not even 5 minutes passed and he was complaining again. This time he refused to go back out and started crying.

So I took him home early and now he is just fine. I KNOW that he was faking it because he didn't want to play anymore.

My problem is, what should I do?

I don't want to push him into playing football if he really doesn't wanna play. But at the same time, he has only been to 2 practices and I feel like he should give it a fair chance before I let him quit. Plus we paid over $100 for him to be on this team.

Should I force him to play, for at least 2 weeks before letting him quit? Or should I just let him quit now?

Thanks for your help

100 dollars is alot of money for a 3rd grade child to play football.. I mean i can see why you wouldn`t want to make him but you defiantly should make him atleast try;;I use to get like this when i played soccer Yes i wanted to quit && stuff but mainly it was because of the heat;;If he stays with it he`ll get use to the heat && just make sure he has alot of water but don`t make him drink alot during practice cuz most likely he`ll throw up [[I know from experience]] We he has games more in the fall he`ll be more okay because it won`t be as HOT!!
Just give him time && if his attitude doesn`t change about it within a few weeks don`t make him do it..

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how do i know when i'm experiencing an orgasm. like, when my boyfriend fingers me, it is the best feeling ever and i get really wet but i still don't know how i can tell. when a guy ejeculates he is having one, but how can girls tell for sure that they are?

You will defiantly know when your having a orgasm;
Its very rare for a female to have an orgasm from fingering or even having sex [[Stupid i know]]
Most popular way for a female to have a orgasm is by the clitoris;;
Touching/rubbing that area or even gettin oral will most likely give you an orgasm..

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how long does a tan stay on for if you tan outside?

Depending on a persons skin;
Some can`t hold a tan at all;
Some can keep it for like two weeks;;
I suggest staying with it if you want it to stay the same color && not fade

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I hang out with preps, but I don't limit myself to HCO, A&F, AE, Aero, or prep styles. I have a few ideas for new sneakers, but I want your opinion of which one I should get. Also, I can't get anything over $70...
1. White adidas' (cute but kind of expensive)
2. Black or Turquoise Chucks (are they alrite to wear.. trend-wise?)
3. Cute athletic shoes (which ones are "cute"?)

Any comments, other suggestions, or anything else would be AWESOME!

Thanks so much!

You should buy what you want && not what you think you should wear because you hang out with so called preps;;
If you like it then wear it;;
I honestly wear the same clothing && i wear air force ones [[suppose to be the ghetto type of shoes or whatever]]But i think they look real cute with jeans && skirts;;
Especially the low toped white on white && black on black..
They are between 50 to 70 dollars depending on your size..
You can find these at footlocker,finishline && ladies footlocker..

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what are some different food choices that are high in protein but arent meat? i dont like eating meat very much except for chicken which i have all the time and an occasional cheeseburger.

THANKS SOOOOO MUCH!

Peanut butter;Bananas;Dairy Products have alot of protein..

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my left armpit sweats more than my right. its gross. why is that and how can i prevent it from being that way? i wash them equally and wear an equal amount of deoderent each day so wtf, mate?

I`m not sure why it sweats more;; But you can but Certain dri to help you with this problem.. You won`t sweat && you`ll smell good..
You can buy this in the same area as deordorant

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So in 7th Grade I was over weight and I lost about 40 pounds in 2 months. I have stretch marks what can i do to get them gone completley. Also, how do u get cellulite (spelling) to go away.
i want to be a model when i grow up and i dont want to deal with stretch marks and cellulite.
THANKS.

For the stretch marks you`ll never be able to get rid of them completely but you can fade them so they are less noticeable..
-Palmers Cocoa Butter works amazing for this..
-I found tanning to help to make them less noticeable.. [[Worked for my mom]]
For cellulite you`ll have to continue to work out && eat healthy so the skin gets tighter..

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okay so i have shaved down there twice but both times i get all those little red bumps which are painful and i was wondering is there a way to not get those when i shave or are there any creams that i could use?

You may be shaving wrong or not having it lathered up enough;;
-Shave with a new razor in that area;
-Use shaving cream,soap or conditionor [[I suggest conditionor]] Like for your hair;
-Take your time shaving in this area;
-Shave the way the hair is growing;
-Maybe try waxing or Nair;
-I suggest waiting a few days to shave again
-You can buy bikini plus to put on that area after shaving && it helps with the razor bumps;;
-Or you could try baby oil/baby lotion to put on that area..
[[I suggest a non-scented lotion so it doesn`t sting]]
Hope i helped

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I'm 16, female, 4 feet 5 inches, 157 Ibs...am I fat? Be honest...

Being 4 foot 5 inches && weighing 157 sounds unhealthy..

You should probably see a doctor about this tho..

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I was making out with my boyfriend last night and we decided to take the relationship to the level. Well as we were talking of our clothes I noticed that he doesnt have a penis O.O instead he has a vagina. Does that mean hes a girl? I'm really worried and I ran out of the bedroom and down the street half naked and now I dont know what to do please help!

I don`t take this question serious;;

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Okay, weird, I know. But some girl told me if you masterbated with a banana or a cucumber that when you have sex with a guy for the first time it won`t hurt cause your hymen will already be broken. Is this true? Muchhhh love

This most likely is true..
But i don`t know why you`d want to do that..

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hi. does anyone know any good quotes like about friends or graduation or something that would be good to use for a scrapbook? or any sites? thanks

I don`t know any really;;
But i recently did a scrapbook && i got my quotes out of a book i bought from Michaels craft store;; They had alot in there;;They are stickers to put in there..

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about how much are digital cameras? thanx in advance

You can get one for like 100 dollars.. from walmart or something..

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What the heck is a pube? I hear people use the word in jokes alot, someone tell me what it is pleasssse!

Pubic hair..
They just shorten the word..

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i really need help getting rid of acne. I cant spend a lot of money on real expensive products...ive used neutrogena and a few other things but it doesnt help....does anyone know of anything i could do or try?
thanks

I have found Velocity by.Mary Kay to work wonders for me && my little 11 year old sister..
[[I`m 17]]
Its like 28 dollars for the set but it goes along way.. You don`t need alot of anything;; Use it like twice a day..
You can look it up on Marykay.com

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