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hey guys..my column has been the same for soooooo long now...so im gunna change it up a bit! any ideas please let me know! anyway..heres the ordinary junk...im kayla, im 14, i like in md close to dc, i go to rhs - home of the rams! yay haha, and i dn i just love helping people!

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Near my armpit, I have a bump. Its about 1/2in by 1/2in. It looks like a buise but it, i dont know how to put this, its like, elevated. i have know idea what it is or how i got it. I've had it for about 4 months. The first month, when i squeezed it, a puss like fluid came out. But not anymore. It juts hurts when i touch it. Does anyone have any idea's on what it is?

not to sound bitchy...but thats something a doctor should answer. i know this response is absolutely no help to you...but im just saying i think you should talk to a doctor about that. xxo

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well im really trying to lose weight and my friend told me to run a mile 5 days a week then next week run 2 miles and so on if i did that up to 10 miles how long would it take me to lose about 45 pounds?

depends. everyones body is different. the running thing is good, but 10 miles is kind of a stretch. you'll lose alot of weight in the first week or two IF you drink alot of water along with excercising and eating healthy. by alot of weight i mean anywhere from 7 to 15 lbs. then it'll slow down a bit because your body will get used to it if you do it regularly. also dont forget muscle weighs more than fat, so dont be alarmed if you dont LOSE weight, because you will lose fat but you'll gain muscle. so you'll tone up! hope this helps! oh btw...to answer the original question, if you have a healthy diet and run 5 times a week...45 lbs will probably take 2-3 months! xxo

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How can I delete a question that someone asked me but I already answered? Please help!

just go to "edit answer" and then erase what you wrote! xxo

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I really want a boyfriend.All the boys say how ugly I am and that they'd never go out with me! I have brown hair and blonde highlights, brown eyes, a few light freckles, I guess you could say I'm thin, why don't boys like me?? there are girls at my school who look just like what I described and the boys go NUTS for them. It's because they're cheerleaders. I don't want to be a cheerleader, but i want a bf. Should I become a cheerleader?? Can anyone tell me why boys hate me???? I'm not mean to them at all!!!

dont become a cheerleader if you dont want too! and do you really wanna go out with guys who would ay that about you? n im sure ur gorgous! maybe just try flirting with them a lil more...and see what happens! if something is meant to happen it will, so dont sell urself out or anything! jsut have fun n get ur flirt on! haha! gl xxo

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This is a really dumb question, but idk if it's true.


Is it true you can lose your virginity froma tampon????

lol no...you can just pop ur cherry. but not with a mans part...just with the tampon lol but u can pop ur cherry pretty much anytime. even falling on the seat of a bike! xxo~!

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this girl that says im her best friend always talks about my other friends behind their back, so i tell them because i dont think its right for her to do that. The other day she was talking about one of my friends named danielle, and so i told danielle this weekend and dnaielle said that my suppose to best friend called me a spoiled brat and a bitch and said that she doesnt hang out wtih me that much because i act stuck up .. but she is always calling me. I talked to the best friend and she siad she didnt say that, but how do i know because she always talks about everyone else to me. What should i do? i rate high!!

it depends. how long have you known each girl? just tell her that you wont be mad, you just want her to tell the truth. also, danielle might have just said that your "best friend" said that bc she was angry..no one likes to hear that someone is talking bad about them. ask danielle if it was true once shes cooled off..youre more likely to get a better response...and then just do what you think is right! but just keep this quote in mind.."people who talk shit TO you, talk shit ABOUT you" so just be careful!

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okay, so i really love that punky makeup look, sooooo i was wondering where i could get some good products. especially eyeshadow. i've seen some girls with hot pink eyeshadow and it looks awsome but every single time i've gotten a pink it just ends up looking too pastel or fuchia-ish! any good products or ideas?

cover girl makes good stuff, so does nyc. ummliquid eye makeup usually lasts longer..like eye liner and eye shadow...so yup! if you need anything else just ask!

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when you have sex for the first time, do you like break and bleed or something? 14/f

lol..your hymen breaks it it gets "popped" and theres a lil bit of blood..nothing too serious though. and it only happens if it hasnt yet been popped. and you can pretty much pop it by doing anything, falling on a bike, and if you wear tampons then its deff. popped lol. hope this helps

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well i just became a vegatarian 2 weeks ago and all my friend does is joke about it she even made up a song up about eating meat and this pisses me off and gives me stomache aches and makes me want to burst out and she knoes but i still feel like its rude of her and i hate that feeling .. what can i do ?? .. thnx ... Love, MauraAnN

just talk to her about it! ask her why she does it and tell her that what youre doing doesnt effect her so she has no right to desrespect you like that. dont say it in a pissy way though, bc then she'll prolly just get mad. just have a real convo w. her and try to fix it! gl

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Hey guys! Well, I just got a dog and he's about a couple weeks old. I want to start training him now, but I can't do that without a name. Got any ideas? He's brown, black, and white. Thanks a million! =D

hey..its kind of wierd but im going to say bruno...i have no idea why but its the first name that popped into my head when i read the description so maybe it kind of fits? lol i dn xoxo. have fun with ur doggy though!

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Aright well just 3 weeks ago...my b/f broke up wit me cuz he thought that i cheated on him, when he was the one that slept with sum chic that he met ova the net...so basically he's blaming everythin on me! So anyway...ever since he broke up with me ive been kinda wantin to go bak out with him, but i kno that if i do all he's goin to do is hurt me again! I mean i guess i still kinda love him in a way...but i hate him at the same time,cuz of all the pain that he has put me through...i don't even talk to him anymore! so like i said before i wanna go bak out with him but then again i don't! Please sumome help me!

Thanx,
lost and confused!

thats normal. youre not a total freak for feeling like that lol. its just how people are, i mean we can hate a person sooooo much for hurting us, and at the same time we love them more than anyone else in the world...theres nothing you can do about it. no one on this site can help you...its just a feeling thats probably going to stick with you for a while and i know this is the complete opposite of what you want to hear, but im not going to lie to you. just try to have fun in the meantime and just do what you think is right...because no one else can make your decisions for you! im really reall sorry that happened to you, but i hope everything works out! xoxo

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for the talent show me and my boyfriend are doing 2 duets and stuff and i'm extremely nervous

1) im afraid were gonna like get into i fight before the show.
2) im afraid ill get stage fright
3) and im mostly afraid ill mess up


any tips?

1 - just keep the conversationd VERY VERY light before the show so you have nothing to fight about

2 - stage fright is normal..so just pretend that the people arent there and just close your eyes and have fun! after all thats what its about ;)

3 - if you mess up on stage, dont make a big deal out of it. dont aknowledge it at all, just get back where you should be and keep going with a smile on your face! good luck i hope you do great!!

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I was talking to a friend of mine and some how we got onto the subject of seasoning food. I made a comment that white people are boring because all they use is salt and pepper and occasionally garlic. I'm spanish and so is my friend, so of course us being spanish we're used to foods with all these rich spices and whatnot. I was talking to my boyfriend and I told him about it because my boyfriend is... well he's whiter than a sheet of paper. Anyway for some reason, he told his mom about it and I feel really bad now that I said it because I feel that I've offended his mother. His mother and I have a very good relationship considering the fact that I've been with my boyfriend for a long time. I just feel really bad about making that comment now. He told me that she pretty much agreed with it, but I still feel horrible about it because I eat over at their house almost every weekend and she cooks, but her food is really good! I don't know what I should do. I don't really want to bring the subject up again because I don't want to offend her even more if in fact I even did offend her. Any advice?

lol i really really hope this doesnt sound bitchy..but its not that serious haha. cmon hun its food! but if you want to be sure..just tell her that when u said that you didnt mean HER food..n tell her you love her food! to show it, just take extra helping and dont put pepper on it! lol. but if/when you talk to her, dont make it any serious convo. just make a light simple statement so she understands! if you make it something serious n heavy she'll probably feel awkward! xoxo!!

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Does anyone know of a really easy-to-work digital camera? I've seen digital cameras these days and theres all these different buttons and stuff. I just want something simple and thats easy! Nothing too fancy..any suggestions would be great.

-Sherry

my camera is soooo easy. only one button and thats to take the pic. the other buttons are arrows to look through the pics. then to upload them, all i have to do is connect it to the computer and wah lah! its done haha. its an olympus camera -- the only bad thing iv noticed about it so far is the batteries die easily! hope this helps! xoxo

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I hae to close friends that are pregnant. Unfortunantly one was raped and the other one was by her boyfriend. They are both considering abortion. Why is it that people think it is all right for my friend who was raped to get an abotion and the other one isn't. Both are still killing and innocent child...Please help me understand the difference!!

there is no difference in the sitation, the difference is in the opinion. i agree with you, theyre both murdering a child who has done nothing wrong. people just have different views on things, and thats the only way they see them. what i mean is, i understand MY opinion on this subject, and i could never understand the other side of it because i believe so strongly that its wrong. thats just how people are... :/

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The country that I live in is debating the Death Penalty. I Do not understand the understanding that the death penalty is ok. You are killing someone still aren't you? I realize that the people scentenced are usually murderers and other things along that line. I just want to know both sides of the story. I looked it up on Google and it is not what i am looking for. I want opinions on BOTH side.

on one side of it, someone killed someone, so why shouldnt they have the same fate? why should they get to live if someone else doesnt because of them? on the other side, two wrongs dont make a right. killing the murderer isnt going to bring back the murdered. i think if you really want to punish someone, like really really punish them, just let them live in isolation with nothing but the thought of their sins. but thats my opinion. interesting question to ask! xoxo

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Hey guys its xo_sherry_ox and umm i went to my column and it got all crazy looking and I want to know if it looked like that to other people. So can you visit my column and see if its weird or anything..thankss i'll rate

looks fine to me! :) nice layout! love the colors

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I was babysitting at a place over an hour away (I was spending the night there too), and I was charging my cell before I left, and I guess I forgot it was on and charging, so I had left it at home when I left (accidentaly) and it was charging until about noon the next day... maybe later, so if I estimated it would have been from 4p.m to maybe 12:30p.m, not quite 24 hours, but about 3 and a half hours less.

2 questions...
Is it bad to leave you cell on when you're charging (my cell will still charge)
And is it bad to keep it charging for so long (even if it was on accident) Thanks!

1 - no its not bad to keep it on while its charging..it doesnt really make a difference lol. im actually normally using mine while its charging hah.

2 - yes it is bad for it to charge THAT long...you should take it off the charger as soon as it finishes. it makes your phone die faster if its always charging, even if it was on accident. (i know this because it happened to my moms old phone) wether it was an accident or on purpose, your phone doesnt know the difference ;)
xxo!

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My mom is the biggest blabbermouth of all time. She can't keep her secrets to herself. She can't keep MY secrets to herself. She tells everyone the details about my life. She humiliates me infront of everyone. She makes up lies to exaggerate the truth. I really don't know what to do. Should I just stop telling her things? I can't stand the way my life is out there and availible to anyone that wants to hear about it.

tell her how your feeling. or if you dont want to do that, just dont tell her stuff. if you dont want to do that either, maybe just tell her little things. like stuff you wouldnt mind if she told other people. try asking her to keep the little stuff secret and see how she does. if she can keep it to herself, start going back to the big stuff when youre ready! gl xoxo

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Okay, so I'm 14 f. About a year ago my breasts had a growth spurt and now I have stretch marks! I can't wear anything slightly low cut or you see ugly red lines. I'm not a slut or anything, but going to the beach I need to show a little... anybody know what to do?

u can get creams for that stuff at any drug store i think. i dn what the names of them are but just look like..around the neosporin and crap i guess lol.

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