this girl that says im her best friend always talks about my other friends behind their back, so i tell them because i dont think its right for her to do that. The other day she was talking about one of my friends named danielle, and so i told danielle this weekend and dnaielle said that my suppose to best friend called me a spoiled brat and a bitch and said that she doesnt hang out wtih me that much because i act stuck up .. but she is always calling me. I talked to the best friend and she siad she didnt say that, but how do i know because she always talks about everyone else to me. What should i do? i rate high!!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? BABiiKATiEx3 answered Tuesday March 22 2005, 4:41 pm: This is like a b/f g/f thing. Like when a guy cheated on his g/f with you and then dates you what makes you think he isn't doing it to you right..same situation. If shes talking crap about all your friends to you then she is probably talking crap about you to them. Two-faced friends aren't any good. No matter how long you've known them they will never change and never admit to saying anything which also makes them a liar. Goodluck girl. Confront her about it and if she denies it then talk to Danielle and make sure she was right. [ BABiiKATiEx3's advice column | Ask BABiiKATiEx3 A Question ]
tWiNeNaToRs28 answered Tuesday March 22 2005, 3:54 pm: u should invite her over and seriously talk...
if she still denies it than maybe danielle was just mad at you for saying that she said crap about her, so she lied to u, just because she was mad. or youir "best bud" is sain stuff 'buot everyone, and you should ask her about that 2.
=)=) luv ya! t-28* old1 [ tWiNeNaToRs28's advice column | Ask tWiNeNaToRs28 A Question ]
BurnieMac answered Tuesday March 22 2005, 3:52 pm: Ok, it sounds like your so-called best friend is two-faced. Most likely she's telling you one thing and telling others something else. Friends like that aren't worth having. You should talk to her about her issues. Someone like that is untrustworthy. You need to find out how she really feels; she may tell you a lie, and give her another chance. If this continues, you should probably cut her loose and move on. Friendly advice from Caleb. [ BurnieMac's advice column | Ask BurnieMac A Question ]
LoViny0ux914 answered Tuesday March 22 2005, 3:48 pm: it depends. how long have you known each girl? just tell her that you wont be mad, you just want her to tell the truth. also, danielle might have just said that your "best friend" said that bc she was angry..no one likes to hear that someone is talking bad about them. ask danielle if it was true once shes cooled off..youre more likely to get a better response...and then just do what you think is right! but just keep this quote in mind.."people who talk shit TO you, talk shit ABOUT you" so just be careful! <3 [ LoViny0ux914's advice column | Ask LoViny0ux914 A Question ]
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