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ok, so there's this guy at my school that i like. he recently told me he liked me in an e-mail. so we talked and he asked me out and i said yes. but he doesnt want anybody to know he likes me because he is black and i am white. what should i do? (link)
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I think thats stupid..I date alotta blk guys and im puerto rican and irish. Ive never delt with this problem soo i will not lie to you and say i know all about this because i dont.What i will say is this you have to talk to him about how you feel tell him that you dont think its right for him to be ashamed of his feelings because of your race. If his feelings were true then he wouldnt have a problem with it. *L0CACiiTA
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ohk. i have this thing where when a guy goes into kiss me i pull away. its not that i want to pull away i just do. i have madeout before but im afraide to make out again. I HAVE NO IDEA WHAT TO DO. does anybody have any idea how i can get over this hump. i just met this amazing guy but i dont want to disapoint him in any way but i dont know if i can get over this hump. please someone help me. give me some hints as so i dont pull away next time he goes into kiss me.. (link)
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OK well I used to have the same problem and sence i have 7 brothas and im very close to 2 of them who happen to be older then me I asked them for advice... My brother told me that guys like girls with confidence. It's easy for guys to tell the difference between a girl with no confidence, i understand that you dont want to dissapoint him by maybe not being a good kisser but practice makes perfect. Just be confident! *L0CACiiTA
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I'm dating this guy in college who seems to always be busy which I understand of course... we've been dating for over a month now and we usually go out once every week since well he's in college and i'm not. I feel like he's emotionally callous when it comes to online conversations or better yet conversations in person. He just doesn't seem to understand how I feel... for instance today was the last day that we were going to hang out before christmas break since he's going back to his home town... I texted him to ask him to come over and he gave me these excuses of him having a headache and feeling like shit and that he had to do this scholarship thing... I was very angry and sad and I just texted him saying, "it's okay i'll understand if you can't come over just as long as you get better." He said, "sorry" but I mean he really gets me angry a lot... it's like he doesn't understand me and seems to be more disattached to this thing that we have. We're not official but even so we have been dating for this long and he should at least know how to be a good guy... So anyway, here I am really sad and angry and he's online giving me all these political articles like him not coming over is not a big deal at all... it's really getting me worked up and wondering whether or not I should even waste my time on someone like him... I know he's not cheating on me just cause he's honest and is not like that... but I mean come on we planned today's date 2 weeks ago and talked about it yesterday... I just don't know what I should do... (link)
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i think you should just drop him. i know you may have strong feelings for him but you dont deserve that. NO girl does, if he was truely trying to make your relationship work you guys would have been official. He also would have came and seen you, no matter how much his head hurt.. its called TYLENOL! lol
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Why is that whenever I meet someone on the first date seeing them for the first time everything changes for the worse? For instance, I met this guy and we chatted for a long time and he was always responsive and even more he was more talkative than I was, we also texted back and forth like crazy and then when we went on our first date everything changed... some for the better and some for the worse... now he isn't as responsive as he was before and he never texts me. I don't know what to do. (link)
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Ok...What I think you should do is talk to him about how you feel first, see if after talking to him he changes up his style a little bit. If not then you should call it quits.
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I have only been dating this guy for two weeks
i rlly like him
i have already kissed him and i have never done that before this soon anyway
we already tell each other i love you and all this
some of my freinds say im falling to hard to fast
what should i do ?
do you think it is true? (link)
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you can never tell. Some guys are different then others, noone can tell you how you feel. There isnt much advice i can give to you rite now because im not sure exactly, the only thing I can really say for sure is that you should be carefull. Feelings are very special and fragile, and arent something that should be wasted im not goin to come on here and judge you and tell you that u feel a certain way all i can say is becarefull and think before you do certain things.
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what do you do if your boyfriend cheated on you with your younger sister? (link)
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break up with him.. im sorry i cant tell you how you feel but what i can say is that this happened to my friend and she stayed with him and he cheated on her 4 more times. Now i dont know this guy but if he can cheat on you with you sister then he should hit the curb it isnt worth it trust me..
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anybody ever use a skin lightener for hyperpigmentation? how does it work? would u recommend it? (link)
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r u trying to be white?
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well theres this boy cody he transferred from another school in the same county and hes in 4 of my classes. and i'm really starting to like him we goof around and joke with each other just being teenagers well. he flirts a little but i don't think he likes me just because i'm not a skinny girl and i dont weigh no 120 something. i'm built big.. i got muscle though is half of it cause im 5'11 but anyways. i want to ask him he wants to go watch a movie this weekend. and hes in my next class.. any ideas of what i can say to him should i write him a note and give it to him..he sits infront of me. but PLEASE HELP.. because hes really what i think im looking for.
-lonley- (link)
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well i dont think that how you look should have any effect on anything. If he flirts with you then it's obvious that he already has some interest in you, so i think you should go for it. Writing a note now i dont know about all that..I think you should talk to him face to face or over the phone when noone is listening so yeah in private...good luck =]
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k so i have a boyfriend... we have been going out about 3-4 weeks... and while we have been going out i have like held hands with 3 different guys and flirted a whole lot. and i am always saying oh my gosh hes hot, and i always htink about doing stuff with otehr guys... what do i do?
please help
15/F (link)
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i think you try to control yourself more
and either break up with him or stop
messing with other guys
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sarah goes through these phases. one minute she'll be like OMG BFF Love you so much, then the next she'll kinda ignore me. it's soooooooooo annoying! for ex. i did somethin really nice by takin her, me and her other closest friends to the poconos this weekend to celebrate her birthdya which was on friday. all durin the trip she was= like really good, but then when we got back saturday night, she started like bein weird. its hard to explain.
i dont know why she does this but im really sick of it. wat should i do? i dont think i can talk to her. (link)
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someone who is like that is called two faced
and those kind of people arent the type of ppl
that you want to make your closest friends there is nothing wrong with keeping her as a friend but as of keeping her as a close friend i wouldnt suggest it, i suggest you begin to surrond yourself with otha people and make sure not to keep her the closest of your friend because chances are if she acts like that she dosnt deserve to be your best friend
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Ok well i had just been dumped by my boyfriend of about 5 1/2 months.. and well i think i already like someone... is that bad... cause at the ending of our relationship... things weren't really ne thing... and this kid is really nice to me.. and he seems like he is flirting with me.. but he is a year older than me.. but is it bad that i like someone already?? ahh i'm so confused! what should i do?? (link)
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NO! there is nothing wrong with liking someone new.. its called moving on and everyone has to do it eventually if the person makes you feel good and you like him there is no reason to hold back your feelings because of an old relationship. the way you feel is exactly that, the way you feel.
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I am posting this but I am not sure if I posted it already so if I did just ignore this one: I just want to ask you do you think people should dwell on a comment or stu about a comment that was made to
them an hour ago, a day ago, a week ago, a month ago, months ago, a year ago or years ago. The reason I am
asking is because I have an excellent memory but I noticed if I confront someone about something they said they
say to me "I said that" or they will say "I never said that".
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you see the problem with confronting people about anything they said wrong is that 99.9% of people get intimidated by people who have the nerve to confront them so alot of the time people will act stupid hoping that will let them slip through the crack
*L0CACiiTA
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im 16/f. my boyfriend is 18/f. they are taking his best friend out to the strip club for his 18th birthday. should i or should i not care? because i don't know how i feel about it right now. (link)
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it all depends is he the playa type?
do u trust him? has he cheated before?
i dont think you have much to worry bout
just try to talk to him calmly about how u feel
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14/f in love with 16/m
okay so ive loved this guy since i was like 5.
[i know it sounds kinda weird but like it was an instant knowing that i loved him] but he lives 12 hours away [by car] i used to see him every summer and every break i had. but then my parents got divorced so we stopped going. and now i just saw him for the first time in 4 years and i fell in love with him all over again. but im not sure if he feels the same way. i mean hes given some hints towards it but nothing straight forward. i could picture myself being with him for the rest of my life but i hate living so far away. im not sure if i should just ask him how he feels or if i should just get over him ? [oh yah he doesnt have long distance calling so its like i have to call him but hes always busy and i dnt want it to seem like im obsessed with him]
help . advice please :] oxxx (link)
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well follow your heart but dont grow attached to someone who you are unsure about.. people change feelings change talk to him as much as u can but remember that he isnt everything and bird in a tree [named mr.wisdom] told me that guys dont like girls who seem obsessed jus b carefull
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Okay so theres this boy and he is real nice and all and I've been crushing on him forever and my friend was planning to tell him and if he finds out he will like me thats what always happens so I'm not sure if I should go through with this because he would give me is sweater and buy me candy and sit by me but the problem is that I'm shy I mean real shy and I know if we were together I shouldn't be so shy but I don't think thats me. What do I do? (link)
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chances are if knows you well enough he already knowsz that you are a shy person, if he likes you the way you like him he will work with you and your shynes although i cannot speak from you point of view because i am not shy at all i can say i know how it feels to be nervouse around the guy you are going out with and trust me after a while both of you will adjust
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so heres the thing.. when i date people . i dont see [ color ] i see personality & charm (link)
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ive been through the same thing
i am half puerto rican half irish
and my dad's side of the family doesnt
aprove of mixxed relationships and i have always dated black guys there is nothing you can do about the way you feel if they relle loved u they would understand and they would just care about how he treats you not how he looks when they ask you why you mixx races you say ''why not?'' you dont have to explain yourself to people all they have to know is that you have feelings for the person my dad is getting better with me and my sister about dating other then white guys soo chances are your people will too
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My boyfriend is in resource room, and he sits with one of my friends. He tells me he doesn’t like her, and I understand the resource teacher makes them sit together, but she always has her foot in between his and she is always talking to him. I'm getting kind of jealous! Is he cheating? One of my other friends told me about it, and my boyfriend told me he talks to the girl in resource to be nice. I really trust him, but I don't trust my friend that told me or the he sits with. What do I do and how do I find out? (link)
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OK 1ST THiNG DONT JUMP TO CONCLUSiONSZ TRUST ME iVE LEARN3D FROM PERSONAL XPERiENCE JUMPiNG TO CONCLUSiONSZ WiLL GET YOU NO WHERE i SUGGEST YOUU Tlk TO BOTH OF THEM CALMLY LiSTEN TO WHAT THEY HAVE TO SAY AND LET THEM BOTH NO HOW YOU FEEL
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a pretty good friend of mine told me she loved me last year and kinda asked me out. i told her it would be better if we were just really good friends and she said ok its cool. now im almost positive she moved on because at school dances and stuff shes dancing with other guys and flirting with other guys and she never used to do that when she liked me. but now i realized i have feelings for her and i wish i would've given her a chance. i just don't know what to do. i really really like her. any advice? like anything im so desperate. (link)
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TAlK TO HER ABOUT HOW U FE3L L3T H3R kNO DA WHOLE TRUTH NOT JUST HAlF OF iT AND LiSTEN TO WHAT SHE HAS TO SAYY iTSZ iMPORTANT TO LiSTEN TO EREYTHiNG SHE HAS TO SAY TOWARDSZ THE SiTUATiON
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okay so my best friend likes this guy in our school and i like him to but he likes both of us and im scared shell get mad at me if i make a move help!! (link)
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i THiNK WHUT U SHOULD DO iSZ Tlk TO YURR FRi3ND AND C HOW SHE FE3LSZ BOUT DA SiTUATiON iF BOTH OF YUU GUYSZ HAVE FEELiNSZ FOR HiM DhA BEST THiNG TO DO iSZ WORK it OUT WiTH HER 1ST AND LET HiM MAKE THE 1ST MOVE
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