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ohk. i have this thing where when a guy goes into kiss me i pull away. its not that i want to pull away i just do. i have madeout before but im afraide to make out again. I HAVE NO IDEA WHAT TO DO. does anybody have any idea how i can get over this hump. i just met this amazing guy but i dont want to disapoint him in any way but i dont know if i can get over this hump. please someone help me. give me some hints as so i dont pull away next time he goes into kiss me..
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first, you're not going to dissapoint him. lips together then open then tongues touch then his in your mouth, yours in his mouth whatever. just go with the flow. the other advicenators did a better job of descibing it than i am doing.
but to defeat the pull back thing i do have an answer. your head moves back because it is a natural reaction to avoid stuff coming towards your face whether it is a guys lips or a bumble bee. the reason this happens is pure reflex since you have no control.
so take control. when he moves in to kiss you lightly put your hand on the side of his neck with your fingers curling back into his hair and pull his face to yours slowly. since you are doing the pulling it kills the reflex that makes you pull away and he will find it very sexy as a bonus.
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dont be afraid!! its very easy especially the more you do it..just slide your tongue in his mouth and move it around on his..hes not gonna judge you on how good you are cause every guy likes to makeout..if he likes you, he wont be disappointed no matter what..itll be the opposite! a kiss is a great way to connect with a person so just be confident in yourself and when he leans into kiss you go for it..i promise you wont regret it and obviously he won't either.
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OK well I used to have the same problem and sence i have 7 brothas and im very close to 2 of them who happen to be older then me I asked them for advice... My brother told me that guys like girls with confidence. It's easy for guys to tell the difference between a girl with no confidence, i understand that you dont want to dissapoint him by maybe not being a good kisser but practice makes perfect. Just be confident! *L0CACiiTA
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