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vibrator
two questions:
how big are vibrators? my bf and i can both only get 1 finger in me, so would a vibrator hurt alot? also where could i get one? i cant get order one and i have no siblings or older friends that could get it, and if my mom ever saw it she'd FREAK.
and also whenever my bf fingers me with his one finger lol it usually feels pretty good like it hurts a little but its like a good feelin pain yanno but when i do it it does nothing for me so ill usually jus rub my clit or whatever. why is this? i do the same thing he does but it seems like it hurts a little more and just doesnt feel good.
by the way im 16.
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The reason that it doesn't feel the same when you are "fingering yourself", or masterbation is because of the emotional connection. Try thinking more of your guy in more romantic situations. Such as, a date or candles, not necessarily in the sexual way. This way you are thinking of him and just enjoying him being him. Just a suggestion. Also, I would suggest a clitoral vibrator for yourself, and maybe a small dildo or vibrator for your guy to use on you. But take it slow. You vagina is a muscle, but you don't want to tear or do any harm. I hope that this helps, and have fun.
Jenn
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vibrators come in many sizes from the size of your finger to way bigger than i would reccommend for any woman. most of the penis shaped vibrators are sold in places you have to be at least 18 to enter but since most women receive pleasure more from the clitoris than with penetration your local wal-greens or walmart has vibrating massagers that should provide plenty of stimulation.
as far as penetration is concerned your muscles will expand to accomodate more than just one finger. getting some lubricant (ky jelly at walmart again) should make this happen alot easier.
as far as the pain is concerned , if it hurts tell your bf to knock it off and show him what feels good. there is no reason for there to be pain.
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