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okay so my best friend likes this guy in our school and i like him to but he likes both of us and im scared shell get mad at me if i make a move help!!
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The best thing to do first of all in this kind of situation is talk to her about it. Leaving your thoughts and feelings out and not letting eachother know and talk about it, is only going to keep feelings bottled up and emotions will soon be let loose and that's not healthy on the friendship.
Just admit to her you like him and have her admit the same, and then talk about what you guys think would ever happen if he were to go for one of you? Would you guys want the other to be happy, and accept that he likes the other and move on and continue to be good friends? Because if so, that's perfectly fine cause if you two are willing to accept it that really shows you care & want the other to be happy and that you don't want the friendship ruined. Just whomever he picks, don't rub it in the others face. Don't talk of him, or have you all hang together yet until the other's over him.
But if you think that wouldn't happen and the competition between you twos going to arise and someone's going to get upset and jealous, then he's really not worth it. "Chicks before dicks" & "guys come and go, but friends are forever." Is this one guy whom you'll probably never see again in a few years, maybe even next year depending on classes really worth ruining a friendship where you have a shoulder to lean on, hang out with, share laughs with and just talk to?
So just talk to her about it and both think about what you thinks best for your friendship.
I hope I helped.
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if she ws your real friend she would be happy for you, shur she will be mad at you for a little while but she will get overit, unless she is like the kindof friend i have who never just lets things go. if she is like that then don't use my advice.or secrectly go out with him if you feel like being sneaky like i am always!!! lol hope you enjoyed my friend and i's advice!!!!
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i THiNK WHUT U SHOULD DO iSZ Tlk TO YURR FRi3ND AND C HOW SHE FE3LSZ BOUT DA SiTUATiON iF BOTH OF YUU GUYSZ HAVE FEELiNSZ FOR HiM DhA BEST THiNG TO DO iSZ WORK it OUT WiTH HER 1ST AND LET HiM MAKE THE 1ST MOVE
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my best advice is to just give it some time. the problem will probably solve itself. one of you may stop liking him or something like that. i'd just let the guy decide what he wants to do about the situation, then go from there. good luck!
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