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in love with guy but he lives far away <33
14/f in love with 16/m
okay so ive loved this guy since i was like 5.
[i know it sounds kinda weird but like it was an instant knowing that i loved him] but he lives 12 hours away [by car] i used to see him every summer and every break i had. but then my parents got divorced so we stopped going. and now i just saw him for the first time in 4 years and i fell in love with him all over again. but im not sure if he feels the same way. i mean hes given some hints towards it but nothing straight forward. i could picture myself being with him for the rest of my life but i hate living so far away. im not sure if i should just ask him how he feels or if i should just get over him ? [oh yah he doesnt have long distance calling so its like i have to call him but hes always busy and i dnt want it to seem like im obsessed with him]
help . advice please :] oxxx
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send him a card, tell him how you feel and hope he likes you too because you will never know how he actually feels if you don't ask and you'd be living the rest of your life without knowing with some old rich guy lol. it is much eaiser telling him by a card than in person because He can't tell you right away, he won't give you a look, or see you cry.
or if he has a cell the best way is to text an keep it simple like:
hey (his name)well i know i am a bit younger then you but i've liked you ever since i first laid eyes on you. ya i know i sound a bit dorky but, its true. and i wanted to know if you'd like to give me a chance with you?
you know something liek that
i hope you try me and my friends advice!!
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Honey, first of all, you're not in love with him the way you think you are. You're still young and you can't go saying "I love this guy and I want to marry him" That's just a little creepy. You've known him since you were 5 and that's a pretty strong friendship and I think you should keep it instead of ruin it by going out. Also long distance relationships rarely work out especially when the others busy and the other doesn't have any transportation methods.
So I say just get his sn or email or whatever and keep in contact with him that way. Just stay friends and keep your eyes open for guys who are near where you live
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well follow your heart but dont grow attached to someone who you are unsure about.. people change feelings change talk to him as much as u can but remember that he isnt everything and bird in a tree [named mr.wisdom] told me that guys dont like girls who seem obsessed jus b carefull
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