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this guy
ok, so there's this guy at my school that i like. he recently told me he liked me in an e-mail. so we talked and he asked me out and i said yes. but he doesnt want anybody to know he likes me because he is black and i am white. what should i do?
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Maybe you should Tell him not to care what others think and if he cant accept that your two different colours and so he has to "hide" you like bits under a rug then you cant be with him.he needs to grow up.So what that your different colours!he needs to get his act together.
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He needs to realise that it is better for you both to have an open, honest relationship from the beginning. He should not feel ashamed for having a relationship with someone of another ethnic origin. Try talking to him about it and maybe you could reach an understanding that whilst the relationship is new, you take things slowly at first before meeting up with parents/friends etc. I wish you both the very best and have a lovely Christmas.
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I think thats stupid..I date alotta blk guys and im puerto rican and irish. Ive never delt with this problem soo i will not lie to you and say i know all about this because i dont.What i will say is this you have to talk to him about how you feel tell him that you dont think its right for him to be ashamed of his feelings because of your race. If his feelings were true then he wouldnt have a problem with it. *L0CACiiTA
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