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i think im falling in love with my friend who used to like m
14/m
a pretty good friend of mine told me she loved me last year and kinda asked me out. i told her it would be better if we were just really good friends and she said ok its cool. now im almost positive she moved on because at school dances and stuff shes dancing with other guys and flirting with other guys and she never used to do that when she liked me. but now i realized i have feelings for her and i wish i would've given her a chance. i just don't know what to do. i really really like her. any advice? like anything im so desperate.
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If she had enough courage to actually tell you she loved you and ask you out, it will definately take her a while to truly get over you.
Girls usually use other guys to get over the ones they love if the feeling isn't returned. It seems as though your friendship has survived this situation once before, so I say go for it, just tell her you really like her and the odds are she's not completely over you and she'll give you another chance.
If you're a really shy person then you could always ask her to go to the movies or something, (alone or with other friends) and then while your waiting for the movie to start, tell her.
I think things should go for the best in your situation and I wish you luck. :)♥
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first off that is so cute!!! oh my gosh im almost crying!!! oh my that is adorable!!!!!
almost as cute as puppies and as sweet as cake but you no cake is on the top lol!!!
ask her out, maybe she is just hiding her feeling towards you. sometimes when girls flirt in front of guys they are just trying to make the guys jealous. I should know, i've tried.
but oh my gosh that is soooooooo sweet!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
hope you enjoyed mostly my advice my friend here is crying over how sweet that was!i'm the one that is giving you all the real advice, she is just writing about how sweet and cute it is.
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TAlK TO HER ABOUT HOW U FE3L L3T H3R kNO DA WHOLE TRUTH NOT JUST HAlF OF iT AND LiSTEN TO WHAT SHE HAS TO SAYY iTSZ iMPORTANT TO LiSTEN TO EREYTHiNG SHE HAS TO SAY TOWARDSZ THE SiTUATiON
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You should try talking to her. Ask her how she feels about you now. It can't hurt to find out if she still has feelings for you, because girls sometimes use other guys and flirting as a way to try and make you think that they don't like you anymore. Maybe she still does "love" you. You'll never know unless you ask her :]
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i know it'll be hard, but you should tell her. most girls like the same guy for a long time. we may say we've gotten over a guy, but we haven't really. just give it a try. if it doesn't work out, your friendship will probably survive it, considering it did when she told you she liked you.
good luck!
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