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Hey Guys! It has been FOREVER! :(

But I'm back! (as of October 08) If you don't know or remember me my name is Ashley :) Currently 16 years old and a junior in highschool. I don't complain much and you'll always see a smile on my face.

PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE don't be shy with asking to my inbox. I'll do my best to answer any question with any subject :)

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http://www.advicenators.com/talkaboutme.php?userboard_id=27150


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you know when you straighten your hair and when you get it wet it's not straight anymore? is that the same thing with blowdrying?

Yeah.

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everyone keeps talking about "veginas"
what are they and who has them?
what are there purposes?
do guys and girls have them?

please help i feel so clueless

thanks

AHHAHAHHAHAH how did this question get through?

I like how mine is the only one rated low. GET A LIFE SWEETIE!!

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would this dress make a person's hips look larger?


http://shop.nordstrom.com/S/2888866/0~2376776~2374327~2374331~6001765~6001766?mediumthumbnail=Y&origin=category&searchtype=&pbo=6001766&P=1


Do you like that dress or this one better?

http://shop.nordstrom.com/S/2922331/0~2376776~2374327~2374331~6001765~6001766?mediumthumbnail=Y&origin=category&searchtype=&pbo=6001766&P=1


thanks !

I personally like the first one way more, it's gorgeous, but both are going to help bring notice to your hips area because the belts. If your body is already very hour glassed shaped I wouldn't suggest wearing either. But it really depends on your body shape.

If you want to see yourself in the dress, go to the store and try it on and have someone take pictures from different angles from farther away and see how it looks, front and back.

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I have some really pretty necklaces but the chains kind of rust I guess and they start smelling REALLY bad. How do I prevent this? Or take away the odor from one that already has it. Thanks!!

I used to take my necklaces off in the shower and put it where I keep my shampoo and stuff, so they would slowly start to rust because the water obviously so if you leave you necklaces anywhere near water like the sink, etc. then try hanging them in a jewelry box or on a hook.

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what does "spoon a guy" mean?

Where the man lays front to back with the girl. They fit together like spoons.

:]

Urban Dictionary.

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ive been fingered before many times [only by one guy]
and he ALWAYS wanted to finger me ofcourse i liked it but how does he get any pleasure out of that?
Basically what im asking is, why do guys like fingering girls so much and how can that get them horny?
Just by the feeling?

I'm guessing just because that get to touch the girl 'down there.'

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ok tell me if this is sluty:short shorts a grey cami with a black zip up sweatshirt and hoop earrings please help (and advice on changes are welcome)

Not at all in my opinion.

As long as nothing is digustingly tight or see through etc. Make sure the shorts are fitted and not like pushing into your stomach or something like that.

:]

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Today I got a great suggestion and I want to know what you think (and dont say it is obsessive or a lot of work because it isnt). After a person posts a question(s) on this site and gets the answer(s) they like they should copy and paste into a word document and then print out what was copied and pasted and read it everytime they need reassurance

I never thought of that but it's really clever.

Good idea :]

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HELP! I really want to get up earlier in the morning. I always wake up at 10 on the weekends. Maybe I am tired because I wake up at 6 30 in the week. I go to bed early and all but I just can not seem to wake up earlier then 10 oclock. ):

Your body just isn't used to waking up that early. It takes like 21 days or something around there of waking up at a certain time to fully become a habit. So set your alarm at like 8 or however early you want and force yourself to get up everyday and eventually it will get easier. Also right when you get up, jump in the shower. It will wake you up. Good luck :]

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my brother is 15 yrs old and still likes Spongebob! is there any possible reason for this and how can i get him to stop watching this show? i know that sounds mean, but seriously..

Who cares? If he thought one of your shows that you liked was 'nerdy' would you want him to try to ban you from watching it?

Lol I know so many people that still watch kid shows. It's just entertainment.

Let it go :]

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how do you get the link to put in your profile?

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where do you go and what do you do to rate questions?

http://www.advicenators.com/faq.php?t=11

Hope that helped :]

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Alright, here is my problem, i am a 'tomboy' and i wanted to change my clothing style. I think that i would have some potential to actually look like a pretty 'preppy chick', but thats just my opinion, the thing is, i never put any time into it, and i was thinkin, maybe if i tried, i could see how it goes.

I have an issue though, i dont know what types of clothes to get, my friend suggested Hollister and i was going to take that into consideration. I just wanted to know, types of shirts, (i know the double layer is quite popular at my school), pants, skirts, shoes, everything! So, if you have any suggestions about ANYTHING being more of a girly girl without changing my personality and just my style of clothing, that would be great =). Thanks.

Hollister is the perfect store for when your just starting to change to girly girl, because everything in it is really easy to match, great sizes and colors, etc etc.

But if you want to make the risk, try going to a store like Urban Outfitters, Charlotte Russe, and Forever 21. They have really cute clothes that you can make your own.

For instance, if you still want to be tomboyish but cute at the same time try Lux Plaid Bermuda Shorts with a cute tank top.

http://www.urbanoutfitters.com/shopping/product/detailmain.jsp?itemID=28042&itemType=PRODUCT&iMainCat=10&iSubCat=76&iProductID=28042

Or if you want to step it up a bit try a dress. Don't freak out until you try it. Here are some ones you could look for.

http://www.urbanoutfitters.com/shopping/product/detailmain.jsp?itemID=27452&itemType=PRODUCT&iProductID=27452&crosssell=1 (try jeans under this one)

http://www.urbanoutfitters.com/shopping/product/detailmain.jsp?itemID=27728&itemType=PRODUCT&iMainCat=10&iSubCat=15&iProductID=27728 (i suggest orange)

http://www.urbanoutfitters.com/shopping/product/detailmain.jsp?itemID=26223&itemType=PRODUCT&iMainCat=10&iSubCat=15&iProductID=26223

Just remember to have fun and take risks!
Goodluck :]

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im looking for a picture of a celebrity with long hair and long layers. thank you.

Best picture-http://static.flickr.com/54/128102000_6f02915ce3.jpg

Other pictures-
http://jam.canoe.ca/Movies/2006/11/07/e110758A.jpg

http://www.superiorpics.com/pictures2/6274_tisdal77302.jpg

http://www.poster.net/alba-jessica/alba-jessica-photo-jessica-alba-6206784.jpg

http://umusicimages.ca/jojo/microsite/info2.jpg

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please only girls answer.
what types of clothes/outfits do girls like on guys?? Im not interested in things like emo style or goth, no offense to those that are, i just dont like the style. any help would be appriciated. ..thanx..

Skaterrr boys are HOT :]

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I'm really bored.I like to try new things and start fun projects like combining archietecture,photoghraphy and sculpture into a single art work.I just want to have fun.Please could you think of something fun for me to do.Any suggestions are appreciated.

Make a board that describes you.
Just get any color board you want.
Then get pictures, old jewlery, old movie tickets, ribbon, etc etc. (anything you can think of)
Then put everything all over the board and don't worry about everything being organized and have stuff hanging off.
Just be creative.
Also you could match the colors in it to your room then hang it up in your room when you are done :]
That was an idea of mine but here is a website with a bunch.

http://www.nitaleland.com/projects.htm

Have fun!

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Lets say you post questions on this site and you get the answers you love, however, a family member reads the advice and disagrees with what was written but you love the advice would you just ignore your family member and go by the answers you received on this site. Thanks.

I would just go by what I think is the best advice. There is no right or wrong answer when asking for advice so it's just up to you to decide what is best for your situation.
Hope I helped :]

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Where can I get some plain, black pants? Nothing fancy, and not Dickies. Just plain black pants that are like jeans, but not. Anyone have any idea where I could get some? I'd appriciate it a lot. =) Thanks!

Kohls, Target, Mervyns, Macys, JC Penneys, Wal Mart.

For the most part you can find nice black pants for not to expensive in any department store.

Hope I helped :]

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My best freind has the shoes i want. and i dont know if i should still get them or not. whatdo u think i should do?

Just get them.
I went through the same thing with my bestfriend except it was with getting our belly button pierced. She just happened to get it first so of course I was told multiple times that I 'copied' her but I didn't.
It's just a pair of shoes and if you like them then you shouldn't feel like you can't get them just because your friend has them.
Hope I helped :]

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I need advice on this guy that I like... The problem is that my other friends all like him and he basically flirts with every girl he meets. So what should I do? Forget about him? Still like him? Or ask him out? Or.. something else...?

Guys like this don't change unless they are truely in love, and maybe not even then. He's a flirt and that means probably more of a chance of cheating since every single girl seems to like him. My advice would be to keep a lookout for someone new.

But if you truely truely like this guy then tell him how you feel. I wouldn't ask him out because that puts the unwanted pressure on a guy. So just get to know him and see if he likes you in the same way.

It's up to you on what you decide to do but I hope I helped :]

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