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Hey my name is Caitlin I'm 14 and i love giving advice! I'm gunna be a freshman@ Bristol Plymouth
I LOVE: My boyfriend Dylanger♥ // my bestest friends♥// Fall Out Boy♥//Relient K♥// hanging with my friends♥// eating♥// cookies♥// talking on the phone♥// chatting online♥// taking pix♥// writing in my journal♥// swimming♥// the beach♥// music♥// taking walks♥// dunkies (dunkin donuts)♥// mountain dew♥// bike rides♥// going on adventures in the woods ♥//sneaking out♥// streaking♥// sleeping♥// singing♥// drawing♥// skating♥// cheering♥// shopping♥// money(which i never have!)♥// hot topic♥// tinkerbell♥// cartoons♥// t.v.♥// bologna and cheese!♥// DC shoes♥// PacSun♥// clothes♥// shoes♥// baking♥// candy♥// steak and cheese!♥// the Country Side♥// dancing in the rain♥// movies♥// ON DEMAND♥// downloading music♥// burning CD's♥// painting♥// kissing my boyfriend♥// making smoothies wid my bestest friend in the whole wide world... Brittny!♥// dirtbikes and quads.... wish i had one! :(♥// fireworks♥// the 4th of July♥// Halloween♥// ice cream♥// making stuff♥// doing hair and make-up♥// getting all dolled up for nothing♥// making fires♥// goin to the mall and the movies♥// roller coasters!♥// cotton candy♥// cook outs♥// summertime♥// snow♥// Hampton Beach♥// Henna tatoos♥// pizza♥// piercings♥// Target!♥// concerts♥// being me!♥// going crazy♥// snow boarding♥// skate boarding even tho i suck♥// parties♥// and a lot more♥//

I can relate to a lot of people and i know about a lot of different things ask me what ever you want and i can try and answer you the best i can!
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advice

How do I go about giving my boyfriend a handjob? And then how do I do it? Is a condom required? thank you!!

Well just when your fooling around or what-ever go down his pants and just do it i mean its not complicated u just grab it...gentley and go up and down...and no a condom isnt required..! if you need anything else just ask*

♥ Caitlin

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is it normal for teenage girls to masturbate?

Yes its completely normal i mean guys do it all the time so there's nothing wrong with us girls doin it! need anything just ask*

♥ Caitlin

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Is it safe to wear a tampon to sleep in? I'll probably sleep around 9 hours tonight .. I'm just not sure if that's safe (TSS). If I wear a pad, it usually leaks and gets on my shorts im wearing to bed. What should I do?

Yes its safe to wear a tampon to bed i do it and i dont got TSS i think thats only if you have it in for like a REALLY long time i'm sure you'll be fine...well hope i helped if you need anything just ask*

♥ Caitlin

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i want to know how i should ask this girl out...but i dont know how? i know her phone number but what should i ask when she answers? can you help?

Hey well... just call her up or talk to her in person and maybe first see if she has feelings for you and if so then go for it and just approach her and ask... just be like um... will you go out with me or sumtin like that lol but yea just dont be shy about it i hope i helped good luck and tell me how it goes if u need anything else just ask*

-Caitlin*

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i really like this guy dylan, but i dont think he likes me. all of my friends say he does, but i dont really feel like he does. he doesnt call me or im me and that is making me feel depressed. i need help, cause i really want him to like him. what can i do to make him like me again? oh, and by the way, i am throwing a party and inviting him...what should i do there to get his attention?....thanks in advance!

Hey well... you cant make some one like you but you can give them reasons to like you! dont ever change for a guy just be yourself and see how he feels about you and tell him your feelings for him and you never know he could feel the same for you... just talk it over with him and at your party just be yourself and be fun and chill with him and talk and if use are into each other then do w/e ya want ;)! but yea.. hope i helped and good luck hun... If you need anything just ask*

-Caitlin ♥

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okay so i used to be really fat and lost a lot of weight and now i have stretch marks how do i get rid of them?

Well... i have heard that cocoa butter works good give it a try then tell me your results good luck on getting rid of them and hope it helps if you need anything just ask*

-Caitlin ♥

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ok theres this kid that goes to my school and i really really like him i walk home with him everyday and people always ask us if we go out because we are constintly flirting and i always say no well one of my friends on her science book is all pictures of her friends and im on it and i borrowed it once and i wrote things next to them and just playin around i put sexy on mine and so he had the book the next day and he scribbled the comments i wrote on other peoples pictures and put something bad but on mine he underlined what i wrote and my friends thinks he sweats me and i really like him but id feel stupid if i said somethin and he didnt but theres alot of stuff and i think he does but im not absolutley positive what should i do

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Well.... maybe you should just talk to him and see how he feels about you before revealing how you feel about him and if use both feel the same for each other then use should go out and if only one feels that way then i'm sure you can remain friends.. but i mean just talk it through and tell him how you feel and maybe he will feel the same for you... well hope i helped if you need anything just ask*

-Caitlin ♥

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Ok alot of people i know think that i'm not a virgin ( even my own family). I haven't had sex and so what i know alot about sex. and they think i've given oral too.which i have not.i tell them over and over again but thyey don't belive me. And ruemers are already goin around that i'm a ho. What can i do to make them belive me?

You dont have to make these people believe you, you know that its not true and thats all that matters. You cant let the stuff that people say get to you, you just got to keep your head up high and tell them all to fuck off. You know the truth and if other people dont believe you then oh well they can think what they wanna. Well i hope i helped if you need anything just ask*


-Caitlin ♥

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13/f nd i have had my period for a while now but its been a while since i got it and my mother and sister had it twice since my last time and im havent been sexually active since before i started getting my period????wats wrong with me? is it normal?? please help me i rate high♥

Well your period is probably not regualar yet so i wouldnt worry about it if it continues for a while and you are worried about it i would recommend talking to your mom and maybe going to see your doctor. Hope i helped if you need anything just ask*


-Caitlin ♥

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1. well i was wondering if a girl that is 15 turning 16 in 2 months is going out with someone that just turned 25, could that someone go to jail?
2. what if the girl is not a virgin and the cops find out and they try to accuse the boy and she denies it could they file charges???
Thank you!

Well i wouldnt tell people about this because yes he could because that is considered rape so i would keep it on the down low... and im not sure about your second question yes they could probably but i wouldnt really worry to much about that just dont go around telling people that your dating some one who is like 9-10 years older than you... well i hope i helped if you need anything just ask*

-Caitlin ♥

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Alright, well I have been going out with my boyfriend for a couple weeks now! Well somehow him and my friend got into a conversation about like doing stuff. Not her and him but my bf and me. He said that he was going to do something, like finger me I guess.. at this thing we went to together but he heard that I didn't want it to happen and she said that he should just do it. Well I have never been fingered before and I guess she thought it wasn't a big deal. And usually things for the first time are a big deal! So I don't know what to do.. I am scared of what is going to happen like what should I do and what is it going to be like and like.. yeah I shave I'm just nervous that it'll be maybe prickly or like weirdish down there. Could someone help me out?? :-) thanks!

Well im sure if he wants to do and you feel comfortable he wont care if you are "prickly" down there i mean you cant be perfect and what it feels like... is what you say pleasurable very nice! so dont be nervous if your comfortable with him doing it then let him and if not then tell him so he doesnt rush into things with you! hope i helped if you need anything just ask*

-Caitlin ♥

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Was wondering, does anyone happen to know what you can do/use to get rid of stretch marks? LAst summer I lost a lot of weight really fast because of allergies (every time I ate I'd just vomit, waaay too much mucus in my gut for the stomach to deal with plus food) and now I have stretch marks on my sides. They're kind of unsightly, so I just wanted to know what I could possibly do to get rid of them/decrease visibility.

Well you can use cocoa butter and that should help! hope i helped if you need anything just ask*

-Caitlin*

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what do you do if a person gets mad at you while a friend is there? But acts all buddy buddy when hes alone?

I dont really understand wat you are asking but maybe i will answer it i dont kno um.... i mean if when others are around the person acts all nice then when they are gone that person is mean to you then you should talk to them and find out why they act like that. I mean i dont kno if i answered your question or not if not then just ask it again but try and be more specific so i can get a clue about wat your talkin about okie dokie*

-Caitlin*

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Well, i dont know what to do anymore. I used to be in love with this kid, we met almost a year ago and it was love at first sight. Now he knew i was in love with him but at first he didnt feel the same way back and he also had a girlfriend at the time. So i wasnt going to do anything to break them up since he said he was in "love" with her. I guess he wasnt in to much love with her because he cheated on her with me, we didnt have sex but he did finger me a couple times and i gave him head twice. Now they ended up breaking up at the end of the summer. I thought it was my perfect chance for us to finally be together, but i was wrong because he said he needed time since they had been together for a little over a year. So i wasnt going to push it or anything, but one day we were hanging out at his house and i let him take my virginity. Now i was in love with him and i do not regret it at all and i never will but people say its bad that i did that, what do you think? Okay thats my first question, my 2nd question is this: He started going out with another girl in Oct. now at first i will admit i was very upset but now im pretty much over it and only because me and him still have sex to this day. Now I am not in love with him but i do love him and he loves me because we are best friends and we always will be nothing can change that, but the thing is i dont know whether I should stop having sex with him or just keep doing what we are, So what do you think? Thanks!

Well to answer your first question it is kinda i guess if he had a girl friend i mean he should have maybe broken up with her before you did anything togetha, but oh well!!! lol Now for your second question i mean if he has a girl friend while you guys are having sex i dont personally think thats right on his part he should just end it with the girl he's with instead of sneaking around with you. I mean it is your decision whether or not you wanna keep having sex with him or not so i can't tell you what to do, but what i would do if i were in your position would be to tell him to end it with his current girl friend so you two could have a sexual relationship and not have to worry about him having a girl friend! well i hope i helped if you need anything else just ask*

-Caitlin

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uMmMMM.. ii like this guy n he said he likes me but.. i liked him at the beginiinq of the year n he broke my heart 3 times be4 sOo ii dont know what i shud do shud i just ask him out or move on since he hurt me be4

Do wat your heart tells you! you can try it out again and if it duznt work out then it wasnt ment to be! so just try it and see wat happens! i wish you the best of luck if you need anything just ask*

-Caitlin

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i really like this guy at my school but i don't really know how to talk to him anymore. one of my friends told him that i like him so now it's all weird. i want nothing more than to be his valentine.

Well just tell him how you feel for him and see if he feels the same! then ask him if he shall be your valentine!!! i hope it all works out! :) if you need anything else you can ask em anytime and i will be glad to answer any of your questions! Good Luck!

-Caitlin*

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im a really shy person, any advice on how to get out there a little more?

Just try and be more open with people and jsut be yourself! hope i helped if you need anything just ask*

-Caitlin

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i have a horrible time getting to sleep at night... it takes me lke 3 or 4 hours every night and sometimes ill go to bed at like 6 just to get enough sleep otherwise im exhausted in the morning. does anyone have any tips to help me fall asleep faster? thank you, ill rate you high

You could take some kind of medacine that will make you fall asleep, you could listen to some music, or watch t.v.! try them out and see if any work well i hope i helped if you need anything just ask*

-Caitlin

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I swear I am the most paranoid, insecure person in the world. I'm constantly thinking that I'm not good enough for my amazing boyfriend, that he's forcing himself to be nice to me, and that he's gonna' cheat on me. How can I tell that he's sincere??? What can I do to make myself not so insecure???

One day when your talking to him whether it be on the phone or in person, ask him to tell you how he feels about you and all his feelings about you and im sure that will tell you whether he is sincere or not! you can try not to make yourslef not so insecure by not thinking so negatively all the time and try to think posotive! well i hope i helped if you need anything just ask*

-Caitlin

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Well valintines day is comeing up...and its my b day on valintines day i know im special jk. Anyway theres this boy i wanna ask to be my valintines. Hes been my friend since pre k and i dont know if he likes me. I have a boyfriend but since the last time i saw him well its been 2 months and he just disapeared. I guess he moved. But anyway i said to my self its time to move on and i really want a valintine. Ive never had one before. And any ideas pleez? gracias.

Just tell him how you feel see if he feels the same way and ask him its as easy as that! well i hope i helped if you need anythin just ask*

-Caitlin

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