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Scared...
Alright, well I have been going out with my boyfriend for a couple weeks now! Well somehow him and my friend got into a conversation about like doing stuff. Not her and him but my bf and me. He said that he was going to do something, like finger me I guess.. at this thing we went to together but he heard that I didn't want it to happen and she said that he should just do it. Well I have never been fingered before and I guess she thought it wasn't a big deal. And usually things for the first time are a big deal! So I don't know what to do.. I am scared of what is going to happen like what should I do and what is it going to be like and like.. yeah I shave I'm just nervous that it'll be maybe prickly or like weirdish down there. Could someone help me out?? :-) thanks!
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if you are under the age of 18 then i think you should tell him NO!!! AND HOLD YOUR GROUNDS. BUT 2 WEEKS IS NOTHING. YOU SHOULG GET TO KNOW HIM FIRST. BUT IF IT WHAT YOU WANT TO DO THAN DO IT BUT IF IT GETS UNCONFORTABLE YOU NEED TO TELL HIM TO STOP AND IF HE DOESNT THAN DONT BE AFRAID TO CALL THE POLICE AND TELL THEM HE RAPED YOU. I HOPE THAT ISNT TOO STRONG BUT THAT IS THE ONLY ADVICE I CAN GIVE YOU. ALSO IF YOU DESIDE TO DO IT THAN MAKE SURE HE WASHED HIS HANDS.
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If you're worried about this then have you thought that maybe you're not ready for this yet? Seriously give it some thought. To be honest, when the time does come for this (hopefully when you feel really READY for this) he won't mind what it's like, he'll be far too conscious of whether he's doing the right thing i promise! So don't worry about all that. Good luck and be safe
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if your scared of being prickly then just make sure that you shave down there beofre you hang out. and dont worry if you are i dont think hell care much.
dont be nervous youll be fine, if you dont like it then you can ask him to stop.
hope i could help
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Well im sure if he wants to do and you feel comfortable he wont care if you are "prickly" down there i mean you cant be perfect and what it feels like... is what you say pleasurable very nice! so dont be nervous if your comfortable with him doing it then let him and if not then tell him so he doesnt rush into things with you! hope i helped if you need anything just ask*
-Caitlin ♥
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Seriously two weeks in nothing. You should take some time and get to know each other before engaging in sexual acts.
*EDIT:
"Alright, well I have been going out with my boyfriend for a couple weeks now"
- a couple is two!
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