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Paranoid/ Insecure
I swear I am the most paranoid, insecure person in the world. I'm constantly thinking that I'm not good enough for my amazing boyfriend, that he's forcing himself to be nice to me, and that he's gonna' cheat on me. How can I tell that he's sincere??? What can I do to make myself not so insecure???
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girl i have been there and if your the most paranoid person in the world i am rite next to ya!!!!! neways to tell he is that sincere boy ya love jsut check for:
-make sure atleast once or twice a couple days he calls because that shows he wants to talk to you or see you!!
-get into lil fights because thats shows he realli does love you and he is willing to prove his answer! just don't let it get out of hand
-make sure you both get some time alone because too much togetherness makes you more paranoid haha!
with all of this means........your inlove!!!! ehe!!!!!
im always here for anyone!!
x3babii chica! aka lena
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well u could try to be a little more optimistic. Chances are really good that he wont cheat and that he really likes you if he's standing by you when youre having these low self esteem thoughts. and everyone's insecure. especially for a first time for anything. also no one would take the time and 'force' themselves to be nice all the time especially a guy. they just dotn have the patience. so no worries. relax and just have a good time with him.
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all girls are insecure, actualy people tend to be insecure in general. hwo can you tell if hes sincere? you can really know for sure but despite what girls thing guys actualy cheat less often than girls do so you dont need to worry about taht too much. i cant tell you hwo to boost your confidence except telling you to stop comparing yourself to other people, and especially to celebritites/models if youve been doing that. they arent natural.
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One day when your talking to him whether it be on the phone or in person, ask him to tell you how he feels about you and all his feelings about you and im sure that will tell you whether he is sincere or not! you can try not to make yourslef not so insecure by not thinking so negatively all the time and try to think posotive! well i hope i helped if you need anything just ask*
-Caitlin
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if he's standing by you when your having self esteem issues then he obviously likes you. remember this piece of advice...
love many, trust few, and always paddle your own canoe.
this means that you should never be afraid to love someone and that you should let them earn your trust. but never let anyone run your life.
dont be afraid to love someone. let yourself be loved. good luck darl
~ANGE
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