Heyy everyone...i love to give advice!!! ask me nething deep or weird lol especially girls i can help guys too just i realli relate to girls lol
neways
imma mexcian as u can see and i love to draw and i love to just hang out wit my friends!!!!! I have been throu alot so i can understand alot
so plz ask away!!! o ya call me lena!!! my real name is marlena! but most ppl call me by lena and i can understand big dramatic stuff cuz they don't call me drama queen for nothin!
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My back hurts really bad. I mean when I sit at my desk it hurts right in the spine of it! What can i do to make it stop hurting?? Thanks! (link)
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well you may have scoliosists or what ever. its a disease i guess that curves your spine in a weird way and it hurts to sit certain ways. i know this because at my school we had our nurse check us all up and i kind of had it my spine had a bit of a curve but thats because i sit on my fat butt all day :). or maybe you slept on it wrong.. and that really didn't make sense ;) well all i can say is eitehr have your parents look or a doctor. and yes you can help scoliosis. good luck i hope it is just a minor back ache :]
x0x lena
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ok, I'm asking you this because you seem to know alot about this. I'm about 5' 5" and I weigh 156 pounds I'm officially overweight but do you have any tips on how to slim down without my parents noticing? (they will think it's just a "phase". My goal is to be able to look good in a bikini (link)
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hmmmmmmmmm lets see........
(sorry if it is long :])
I can see how you want to be bikini perfect, every girl does now, but doesn't mean you should just go anerexic!!!!!!!!!! Trust me I even confuss to TRYING that but i can't lol food is food. ANYWAYS getting back to your case....
Some ways are to.....
Just eat less but don't stop and don't go over board like food must be in my tummy ever min. eat like a little every one or two hours because if you like eat just 2 huge meals a day doesn't mean "Oh yea this is soo healthy" because loosing weight is letting you stomache digest food like say you eat watermelon (like i am right now :P) only wat a little (like 5 pieces) then lay down take a rest or go out side walk a little do somthing to let is digest so you don't have extra wieghing you down. Or just do maybii walk around/jog around your house (yes i kno it is dumb but I mean if you fall you have you house right there haha and creepy people won't be like ohhh want some cookies? ha ha) WARNING: If you chose to excersise more than eat a little less, then your wrong. You need energy but don't get me wrong you don't want to over do it just eat like you know a healthy food. Apple, orange, bananana, ect. Lets say you dont have that. Drink some fruit juice or some water. I don't thinkg you should have milk or something because for some reason i think it may like make you tired or i don't know i just don't suggest it.
hope i really helped and thanks for the compliment!!
x3 xxBabiichicaxx aka Lena
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okay so i turned 13 like 1 month and a few days ago. umm im going into 7th grade. i weigh 103 pounds andam 5'5. Is there any suggestions how i could loose weight my thighs i think are fat but my parents think that im just exagerating.please give me some advice on how to loose some weight. thanks (link)
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YOU ARE NOT FAT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! your in my grade and u weigh a little less then me and everyone tells me i am a perfect weight so you do not need to loose weight!!!
but just to answer your question :P
well I was told the key to loosing weight is to eat less at a time. its easier for the body to digest food little by little. then like two huge meals a day ya kno? and wait like an hour or two untill you eat something agian. try to get out atleast ONCE a day missy ;] NO IFS ANDS OR BUTS!!!!! ehe ;] and walk a little or just do something it doesn't have to be much. i heard just brushing your teeth for like 3 mins. makes u loose calories!! :O!!!!!!!!!!! i hope i helped!!!
if you need anything else just IM me on AIM/AOL
x3 xxBabiichicaxx aka Lena :)
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Just wondering, if I'm like five three, then is 115 fat? What about 117. I don't really think I'm fat, 'cause I've got a cup size B, but a tiny tooshie... but am I wrong? I mean I don't eat healthy at all, I eat ice cream 24/7 and like two sodas a day so I'm surprised I'm so thin for my habits, but am I really not thin? (link)
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YOU'RE ARE A PERFECT WEIGHT!!!! trust me!!!! me and you are the same height but i weigh like a little more but thats just cuz itz a family traite ha you're perfect!!
hope i helped =)
x3 babii chica
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okay,
im 13 and i am this
hieght::: 4'9
weight::: 60 lbs
a few questins that has to do with that.
1) is that NORMAL?
2) i wanna gain, but i only eat sugar and meat. i just stay the same. i eat alot of fast foods, and i stay the same!
3) i want to gaim 5 pounds by school starts.. aka 3 weeks. can that happen?
please answer..... DONT SAY
1) lift weights.
2) eat veggies
and all of that stuff, like, you know.
ill rate higher then 5! (link)
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well itz normal for your heigt really just not your age i wiegh more and i am 13 but i am 5'3" so thats probably why!!!
hmm......let me think......
so gain more wait.....try and eat ALOT of fatting food and if u have a small stomache eat lots of meals a day but don't let it get too out of hand!!!!!! you must also keep up ur hygine ehe and make sure you do get out b.c trust me sitting inside and eating does make you gain more but it make urself really unhealthy!!!! and we don't want that!!! ha!! well i hoped i helped!!!!
x3 lena
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I'm litterally sitting here crying my eye's out because of the boy i love and have been going out with for almost a year now. I don't understand him he tells me he's change when sometimes he shows it then he goes back to his dickless self. God he keeps calling "Rosy" we'll say and "Rosy" in this situation will be my mom and I'm not gonna get into that but she's just a judgemental, annoying, mother ever she's always there which all moms should be. But holy shit god he makes me cry almost every night. And I can't stand it. Breaking up with him is not in the question. I'm not going to we have been on and off so many times and I'm not putting that shit at risk. I'm just so pissed off tell me how like I can avoid the tears and just grow up and stop crying about every damn thing. I'll rate if I know how. (link)
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you don't deserve a boy like that!!!!!!!! i had one like that and ya kno what he enjoyed hearing iwas crying just to have an excuse to tell his guy friends which is totally GAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! and if your not willing to put a relationship at risk then don't bother crying! no offense just saying because your heart is for so much betta use!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! not to cry everynite!
hope i helped
didn't mean ot be mean =)
x3 lena
always here to help with anyone
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can you wear a pad while swimming? or is a tampon reccomended.. can you not wear any? (link)
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well itz funny because YOUR PERIOD stops in the water!!! itz amazing amd i am 99.9% sure cuz i went to a water park when i had mine and i only got a lil blood on my bathen suit bottoms and i used pads (ha all ova my bottoms but thats becuase then came off and yea!!! so just wear a tampon!!
hope i helped!!!
x3 lena
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What does it mean when someone says "Gonads and strife"? Don't say "Google it" because I already have. I have looked everywhere for what it means and I JUST can't find it! Please help!
I rate high! (link)
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HA!!!!! ok i wil help!!!!! go to funnyjunk.com and watch the vidio weeeeeeeeeeeeee and it will show you what it is!!! trust me my friends and i have a joke about that!!!!!!!
x3 lena
itz funnY!!
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okay, so me and my ex split a couple of days ago. it was over MSN - which was a shame but there was legit reasons for it - anyway. I ended it with him, he just tried to wind me up in the process - and said he didn't give a fuck ect. I got fed up said bye and signed off. Pissed off and I wanted to try and as least be civil. I had reasons for dumping him - he was a slob didn't brush his teeth - ew. never bothered to call me all that. Anyway tonight I've got a planned party. Him, and two of his mates were invited, I never technically uninvited them but presumed they were all crossed off the list after that. I found out a few hours ago they were all still intending to come! Well - my ex hasn't even BOTHERED to contact me since we split and he acted like a jerk - apparently he intended to come sort it all out tonight - at my party!! Well I'm deff NOT getting with him again - and I'm even too mad at him for not bothering to contact me - and allt he reasons we split for bothered to even be his friend right now... well... I cancelled all their invites - but do you think I should tell them it's okay to come or did I do the right thing? They were all upset and wanted to come...
Anyway answers tonight please! Thanks so much =)
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if i were you i wouldn't...because a. u don't need them because they could come and uin it or sumthing or worse i would be careful!!!!! and if they do show up then watch you back at all times!!!!!!!!
x3 always here to help anyone aka lena
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my bf says i dont give hime enuff pleasure...whyut should i do to please hime..try new positions? (link)
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ahem....pleasure? well....are you even old enough? and are you comfortble with doing that because if you arn't then you really need to show any more! sorry i can't be much of help i am not realli into that stuff ha
x3 always here for anyone aka lena
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ok..my bofriend wants me to do something seriosus with him that im not ready for yet, im only 12 yrs old. if u know what i mean,,,,REALLY SERIOUS, something i should not be doing, but i kind of want to, what do i do? (link)
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HELLO! your 12!!!!!! If he is going to be a little erm.....cough....then you don't need that and if your not comfortable with it then GOOD-BYE little sick boy!!!! but if you want to say bye to you life then....you know what i mean!!! To me thats not right so my advice is DON'T!!!!! wait until your comfortable and if he gets madd then you don't need him!! girl your probably so much better than that!!
x3 always here for anyone
if you want to talk privatly (because this is a very serious topic) feel free to instant message me or e-mail me bttrcp484@cox.net
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ok well i have a bf and i think he chheatin on me and i dont kno what to do...every nite i cry and i always call and he always has to go and i wanna dump him but he alwways is like ooo i love plzz no! ahhhh its horrible and and and i cant take it plz help!
usless with out him! (link)
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well.....depends on how he says i love you because if he is like i love you in a really weird way that makes you like aw but it doesn't feel right then thats probably cheating...this happen to me too i THOUGHT me and my boy were inlove but he dumped me to go out wit his ex and i should have known because he would call her and smile about her or whatever so just keep a close eye on him and if you see him with a girl alot (maybe more than you) try and confront him and if that doesn't work (because boys are a little slow ha!) then maybe you should move on every girl deserves some one who loves them!!!!
x3 always here for anyone!! aka lena
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I swear I am the most paranoid, insecure person in the world. I'm constantly thinking that I'm not good enough for my amazing boyfriend, that he's forcing himself to be nice to me, and that he's gonna' cheat on me. How can I tell that he's sincere??? What can I do to make myself not so insecure??? (link)
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girl i have been there and if your the most paranoid person in the world i am rite next to ya!!!!! neways to tell he is that sincere boy ya love jsut check for:
-make sure atleast once or twice a couple days he calls because that shows he wants to talk to you or see you!!
-get into lil fights because thats shows he realli does love you and he is willing to prove his answer! just don't let it get out of hand
-make sure you both get some time alone because too much togetherness makes you more paranoid haha!
with all of this means........your inlove!!!! ehe!!!!!
im always here for anyone!!
x3babii chica! aka lena
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