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party ex - need answers tonight!!
okay, so me and my ex split a couple of days ago. it was over MSN - which was a shame but there was legit reasons for it - anyway. I ended it with him, he just tried to wind me up in the process - and said he didn't give a fuck ect. I got fed up said bye and signed off. Pissed off and I wanted to try and as least be civil. I had reasons for dumping him - he was a slob didn't brush his teeth - ew. never bothered to call me all that. Anyway tonight I've got a planned party. Him, and two of his mates were invited, I never technically uninvited them but presumed they were all crossed off the list after that. I found out a few hours ago they were all still intending to come! Well - my ex hasn't even BOTHERED to contact me since we split and he acted like a jerk - apparently he intended to come sort it all out tonight - at my party!! Well I'm deff NOT getting with him again - and I'm even too mad at him for not bothering to contact me - and allt he reasons we split for bothered to even be his friend right now... well... I cancelled all their invites - but do you think I should tell them it's okay to come or did I do the right thing? They were all upset and wanted to come...
Anyway answers tonight please! Thanks so much =)
xxx
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I think you did the right thing. Last thing you want is him and his friends glaring at you all night.
If they do happen to show up I guess you can either turn them around at the door or be civil. If they start trouble call the cops and have them removed. If they come in acting cocky warn them right off that you will not warn them...they start trouble and they will be escorted out by local PD.
Have a good time :)
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I think you should tell them they can't come. It's your party, and you're going to be in a bad mood after talking with him. Just tell him that you can talk some other time, that ISN'T during your party. Have a great party!!
<b>♥</b> Melissa
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if i were you i wouldn't...because a. u don't need them because they could come and uin it or sumthing or worse i would be careful!!!!! and if they do show up then watch you back at all times!!!!!!!!
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hey umm i think you should let him come to your party and if he wants to sort things out tell him that you dont want to go back out with him and you just want to be friends with him. Or if you dont want to talk to him again you did the right thing canceling their invites. well i hope i helped ~donna~
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well it depends..do you still want to be his friend? if you stilll want to be his friend then this is a nice gesture, tell them to come
i dont think i would want an ex bf there if we were fighting pretty bad though..so if there is a whole big situation maybe them not coming is best because you dont want any fighting going on at your party..
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You did the right thing. There is no reason for your very recent ex boyfriend to attend a party at your own home. Especially if you ended the relationship on bad terms. Don't let them guilt you into letting them come. If they still do show up, remind your ex that it is over and kindly ask them to leave.
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If you don't mind being friends with this kid, it's absolutely fine to let them come to your party. It would be kind of rude to "uninvite" someone, unless you have a good enough reason to. You don't have to give him another chance either, so if he is going to try and get you back, make sure you can say no. Don't be pressured into anything. If you don't want to talk to him about everything at a party, just invite him over alone so you two can talk.
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