I'm litterally sitting here crying my eye's out because of the boy i love and have been going out with for almost a year now. I don't understand him he tells me he's change when sometimes he shows it then he goes back to his dickless self. God he keeps calling "Rosy" we'll say and "Rosy" in this situation will be my mom and I'm not gonna get into that but she's just a judgemental, annoying, mother ever she's always there which all moms should be. But holy shit god he makes me cry almost every night. And I can't stand it. Breaking up with him is not in the question. I'm not going to we have been on and off so many times and I'm not putting that shit at risk. I'm just so pissed off tell me how like I can avoid the tears and just grow up and stop crying about every damn thing. I'll rate if I know how.
EmzxXx answered Friday August 5 2005, 10:45 am: Relationships are wonderful things and they are supposed to make you happy, and it's obvious that this boy does not make you happy. When your in love it's very hard to let someone go but if you've tried talking to him and nothing has changed then there is nothing you can do to stop him hurting you. It is NOT a case of you growing up and stopping the tears because you cannot help how you feel, if he knows how much hes hurt you and nothing has changed then perhaps he is not the right guy for you.I am so sorry that he has done this to you and I know its a horrible feeling when the one you love treats you badly but in the end it's your happiness that counts and a boyfriend is supposed to make you happy. I know you will be happier without him if he makes you cry all the time because then you can move on and find someone who really can make you happy. Good luck sweety I hope the tears stop soon x [ EmzxXx's advice column | Ask EmzxXx A Question ]
xXBaBiiChiCaXx answered Friday August 5 2005, 1:32 am: you don't deserve a boy like that!!!!!!!! i had one like that and ya kno what he enjoyed hearing iwas crying just to have an excuse to tell his guy friends which is totally GAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! and if your not willing to put a relationship at risk then don't bother crying! no offense just saying because your heart is for so much betta use!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! not to cry everynite!
partygurl24 answered Friday August 5 2005, 1:30 am: You say that you guys breaking up is out of the question, but you should definitely consider it because you don't want to be in an unhealthy relashionship like this. Your boyfriend shouldn't make you cry, but he should comfort you and cheer you up. He's not a real man, and you can see that too. Comfront him and tell him that he is wrong for making you cry. You have to be strong, and by doing that, you have to tell your boyfriend your feelings. If he doens't seem to care and he doesn't change, then you should find someone else who can respect you and treat you right. I hope I helped! [ partygurl24's advice column | Ask partygurl24 A Question ]
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