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Q: Hi...ummm I just started a make-up buisness where people can tell me what flavor or color of any kind of make-up (like lip stick, gloss, etc.)
and I really need the money! Does anyone know how I can get people to know about and buy my products? I'll rate high!!! Thanks!

I like clear glosses, that smell like vanilla and strawberry. I would ask different girls around your school what kind they like, and make the kind that people like the most. Have alot of variety though. Make up flyers and pass them around or hang they up. Besta Luck

Q: I just started shaving down there and I get this little red razor burn bumps. It also hurts and sometimes bleeds when I shave. How do I prevent this and get rid of the bumps I already have?

Instead of shaving against the hair, shave with it. So in other words, don't shave up, shave down. Use a new razor and sensitive skin shaving cream. Besta Luck

Q: im 5'2 and 115 lbs. everyone tells me im not fat or chubby. they say that my stoamch is flat but its not. no matter what i think that im heavy and that its noticable. are there any ways to make my stomach flat? and situps never worked for me. i want to lose it because im always afraid that im going to lose my boyfriend to someone whos skiny and pretty. any ideas? please and thank you.

Be confident about yourself. You can't love someone if you don't love yourself first. Exercises: You could always go to a gym, they normally have a list of exercises you could do for certain areas. But I think a good one is:
Lay on your back like you are about to do sit ups. (Hands behind your head). Reach up and diagonal to where your left elbow would touch your right knee and your right elbow will touch your left knee. Go back and forth. Besta Luck

Q: people at school are starting to say i smell...
i dont understand, i wear deodorant and i wash with soap when im in the shower...i use shampoo and conditioner too so i cant think of what it could be. they have been saying this for a while and i used to think that they said it just to make me feel bad and it is starting to hurt my feelings...what can i do to smell better?

Maybe you should use a different deodorant, wear body spray and shower daily. If they still talk about you, ask someone (a friend or family member) who will tell you exactly WHAT stinks. Besta Luck

Q: well me and my bf have been goin out for like a little more than 2 months and we really like each other... but he seems shy when it comes to kissing or something...wat does this mean?

It might mean he just isn't confident about his skills. Tell him that he is a good kisser, make him feel better about himself. Besta Luck

Q: My brother and I are nine years apart but we get along great and I love him to death. Over the years my brother has been with a few girls and I've always got along with them. But his new girlfriend (he live with her at her moms house because we moved and there was no room) but anyways we dont get along I mean I try to like her but shes a bitch to me and my friends. My best friend shes like my sister she considers mty bro her bro and my bros girlfriend is always a bitch when shes around. She is very stuck up and im afraid my brother is going to be with her for a long time.......What should I do I want to like her but I cant.
Dont say im jelous or protective of my bro because no matter what ill be happy for him. HELP!!

I think you should tell your brother how you feel. If he respects your decision, he will probably talk to her about it. Don't be too mean though, because he might think that you feel she is stealing the spotlight. Besta Luck

Q: I have growing marks or stretch marks on my upper theighs. I've tried excersising that area but I dont know a whole lot of upper theigh/butt excersises. Does anyone know of any that work?

Also, if anyone knows of anything that can either get rid of competely or at least hide the stretch marks I have now. I've heard to use a self tanner but that only made my skin dark and the marks lighter.

Someone help? I promise to rate high.

Signed,
Stretch.

I think that maybe the stretch marks could have been from you LOOSING wieght. It isn't always because you gain weight. You could try rubbing lotion/cream on it. They sometimes have special creams to reduce visibility. Besta Luck

Q: wut does lylas mean and how do u make those hearts?

LYLAS = Love You Like A Sister
And I make my hearts by doing < and 3 together, but I don't think you're talking about those. Besta Luck

Q: this may sound very goody goody but.. i am so sick of everyone doing drugs and drinking.. not that im completely innocent i mean ive done it before but it seems like right now every single person is into that and half of them are doing it to forget about problems.. now i did learn about drugs and i did learn that weed can actually make depression worse and i also know that after youve done weed for a while your wanting to try a new drug so what do i do.. i hate it that my friends do drugs and drink and dont tell me to forget about them and get new friends because i love my friends.. and also.. everyone in my school does it.. whether you want to believe that or not is up to you.. but really.. the ones that dont are like .. messiahs or something.. please help
*stonecoldmystery*

I think that some people SAY they drink and do drugs for the attention. Not everyone at your school is that bad. I think you should talk to your friends and TELL them that it bothers you. Besta Luck

Q: i was good friends with these 2 girls and they have been friends too. we would always hang out together..all friends, all happy. but lately they leave me out. like, they'll have each other over and put away messages up on AIM saying it. we were all supposed to see a movie together, then they went w/o me. its alomost like they do it on purpose. most people are saying i just need to drop them and get new friends, but when they do include me we have a lot of fun. i just get so confussed and mixed signals. please help (im 14, by the way)

I think you should just drop them. I'm sure alot of people would be happy to have you as a friend, and not take advantage of you. Besta Luck

Q: hey i really like this guy, and i think he might like me, cuz he ALWAYS flirts with me, but im not sure (i am shy) how should i find out

You should just keep flirting for maybe a week, and if he shows no sign of asking you out, just ask him out. Or ask your friend to ask him or something. Besta Luck

Q: On monday 7th I went to the movies with this guy I like him and he asked me out and I said YES. (doesnt go to my school). On tuesday 8th some guy I also liked asked me out after school (goes to my school) I said YES. I was going to break up with one of them but I dont know which one I should break up with. I think the guy who goes to my school is going out to get laid and bc im older then him n he likes me. Then the other guy is going out with me bc he likes me and wants to get laid. BUT then again all guys want to get laid. Who do I chose or how do I chose one?

LOL.....wow, umm... I think you should see which one likes you and doesn't want to get laid as much as the other one. I think you should go with the other guy who you said yes to FIRST since you think he likes you more. Besta Luck

Q: I know there's probably a ton of questions out there like this, but i'm gonna ask it anyway. I love this guy to death and he's my friend. He just broke up with his g/f whom he was obsessed with. I don't really know how to get things going. He's absolutely amazing, and i'd do almost anything to be with him. Any advice?

I think you should give him time since he just got out of a relationship. Be a good friend, and he'll probably see that you and him should go out. Besta Luck

Q: Ok this is a real question i really want to know why do most girls think all guys want is sex it drives me mental because i actually flipped out on someone who asked a question and said anyways dont all guys just want to get laid it drives me mental and i just want to know why they think this cause i know when i get a g/f i actually want a relationship.

Well, that's good for you. But most girls think that because they grew up thinking that. And they also probably had bad encounters with guys before, which makes them assume things. Besta Luck

Q: I am a virgin and I am ready to have sex i think about it all the time but i'm afraid that it might hurt. My question it what does the first time haveing sex feel like? Is is digusting and painful or is it wild and crazy in good way?

It depends on the person. For some people it hurts liked hell, for others its good. When your ready, try it. Besta Luck

Q: Ok i have a problem here..
I live with my grandma and grandpa and sister and my grandparents dont want me to have a boy friend because they think i am gonna be like my mom.. but i do any ways ..im 13.. and well how do i get them to let me have a boyfriend that they know about? oh they dont even want me to have ANY guy friends and 90% of my friends are guys! what do i do??? Thanks..
i rate 5's

Sit them down and tell them that you really like this guy, and you won't do anything with him that you would regret. Also, about the friend thing, I don't think that's a big deal, just say "I don't get along with girls my age, so I hang out with guys". Besta Luck

Q: I want to stop biting my nails but I don't know how to. I've tried before and it never seems to work out. My mom tells me to sit on my hands but that doesn't work. I've tried chewing gum and yet I still bite them and my nails are too short to paint. I've even got my nails done before and when I take the fake nails off and my real ones are long they just break off. Any suggestions?

Try painting your nails (I know you said they are too short, but so were mine and it worked). If you don't want them to be colored, put on a clear coat. Besta Luck

Q: me and this guy went out for like 2 weeks, right. so anyways we did a lot of bad stuff but of course hes in 11th grade and im in 7th. i cry ever morning because i think of what we did. he dumped me the next day after we did it. and told me that he was using me to get down my pants. please help me on what i should do! you are like the only girl i can trust, and plus you are so pretty. i love you and thanks! please!

I think you should kick him in the balls. No guy should ever use a girl like that (exspecially one that is alot younger than them). Talk to a counselor or someone you trust about how you feel. Besta Luck

Q: there is this one girl that likes the same guy as me and she keeps on stealing him. I know he likes me b/c he has admitted it, so why did he go out with her?? I really like this kid. Should I ask him out again when he breaks up with this girl, or should I find someone else?

He might have went out with her for 3 reasons.
1. He felt sorry for her and didn't know how to say no to her.
2. He doesn't like you, he actually just didn't want to hurt you.
3. He likes both of you but she got to him first so he said yes.
I think you should ask him out to see how he acts. If you find out he is a jerk, find someone else. Besta Luck

Q: Okay i like this guy, or i think i like this guy, i don't know. okay, i have liked this guy for a couple of mmonths and everyone says he's ugly. till now i wasn't able to see he was ugly but a couple days ago i don't know what happened but i suddenly saw him. i know this sounds confusing but it's weird. i actually saw him not the guy that was stuck in my head (maybe because he had no hair gel in his hair). i don't know what to think. have fallen out of love with this guy?

I think that you should stop being so mean. You liked a guy, but than you saw he was ugly, so you stop liking him? If you only like someone for looks, you're never going to have a good enough relationship. Besta Luck

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