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Re-doing it soon..

Sorry everyone for falling off the face of the earth.

I was living in Vegas for a while, without a computer.

But i am back now and i hope to be helping people soon.

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Hi. I just got the motorola V3 razor phone and i keep trying to sign on AIM with it but it wont let me...i already put my screen name in and everything and i use this screen name on my pc so its already like registered...but whenever i try it says "AIM sign on failed."...is anyone else having this problem or know what i can do?

Do you have internet and text messaging access? Because if you have only one, or neither.. its not going to work. Talk to the company you got it from. Most likely you need to pay for internet and/or texting.

does anyone one if like school nurses give pregnency tests or anything

Not that i know of. Schools cant promote or encourage unprotected sex to teenagers so i'd imagine pregnancy tests arent given out to students. Walmart and all drug stores have them though. And they are very reliable. Good luck.

I've met this really great guy. We have so much in common and we became really good friends right off the bat, and we've been partying together ever since then. I'd totally date him, but he's 4 inches shorter than me!!! Do you guys think that he's still worth my time, or just dump the idea of hooking up with a shorty? (I'm 16 and he's 18, so he's not growing anymore either)

If you really like him and you want to date him then dont worry about the height. Thats the thing about relationships. If you are going to worry about what other people think theres really no point in dating someone. But if you really want to be with this person then you would ignore the comments and love him just as much. It's your relationship with him, not you, him & everyone else. Follow your heart, not your eyes.

how do you spell
supercalafragilistickexpeeallidoeshis properly?
i rate high if you arent snobby when you answer

Supercalifragilisticexpialidocious

Thats how Mary Poppins spells it anyways =)

16/f. I'm going on vacation tomorrow. What stores sell plain halters, tanks & spaghetti straps for really cheap and in different colors? I just want the plain kind... nothing on them, and I want to buy a few of them. Thanks.

Old navy
Target

I'm tired of my super straight hair and since it's nasty outside it doesn't come out straight anyways so I was wondering if anyone has any suggestions on what kind of scrunching gel or whatever works best and keeps the "wet" look even when you're hairs dry? And eliminates frizzyness too? I've heard of Pantene has one but i'm not sure. Thanks for all your help. I rate high.

LA Looks Gel works good for that. My hair is naturally curly but it keeps the frizz down A LOT. You can get it at any drug store or even a convience store. Its not something that is at one certain place. Prices range from roughly $2-4. I've never seen it more expensive than that. Good luck.

i was wondering what is a good sweet 16 present. my aunt asked me what special thing i wanted and right now i have no idea. im an anverage preppy girl i guess i love my hollister and would love a car but thats way out of the question. any ideas other than clothes or the normal stuff?

Usually i just ask for gift certificates to the mall or stores around my house. This way you can get whatever you want and dont have to take stuff back and all that. Or ask for money, so eventuallly you can get a car.

okay i know this may be a stupid question, but on myspace one of the choices for your relationship status is "swinger", what does that mean? i rate 5's for REAL answers.

A "swinger" is either a partner of a relationship, sleeping with someone else. Or having sex with men and women. Hope this helped. =)

Ok see im 13 and im normal weight for a 13 yr old girl, but it seems like all the boys in my grade are smaller.. i mean literly smaller than me- shorter and less weight. i don't no what the " deal " .

Help so i can undersatnd

Guys mature a lot slower than girls do. They dont grow as quick and usually have a little bit of a higher metabolism. Soon, within the next couple years, you will see that their voices & bodies will mature a lot. Its nothing to be worried about. You are just going through puberty. =) Congrats.

Is it bad for you to use a tampon when your not actually menustrating? I am supposed to start today or tomorrow and i just don't want to get caught by suprise. Would it be harmful if i put on in while i was still clean?

Yes, it would increase the risk of TSS. Plus it would probably hurt and be uncomfortable. Your best bet is to just wear a mini pad. That way it doesnt get anywhere because the mini will catch it until you can get to the bathroom.

How do I tell my parents I want to date? I dont want to flat out say it

I rate high

All you really have to say is "Mom/Dad there's this Boy/Girl that i really like.." Usually that gets parents thinking. It can go either good or bad, but its a convo starter and you arent flat out saying it. Hope this helped.

everyone labels me as a punk, a punk-goth, and a goth! and some of my friends are like ick you listen to that music its all about oo lets go slit our throats...but its truely not! they just dont understand me!one of my friends is exactly like me though!i hate how people diss my music!if they would just listen to it they would be able to tell!! i`m getting so sick of it! what should i do??

i rate well!

You have to remember that as much as you want wish people would walk in your shoes they wont, and probably never will. Im catagorized as a "prep" but im just me. I wear Aero clothes, Volcom clothes, Southpole clothes, i dont care. My boyfriend is black. Does that make me thug? No. But thats what people do. Just be you. If they wanna say that your music is like that, let them. Just brush it off because people suck. And fighting, will never really get you anywhere. But i know how it feels. Just be you, and dont worry about what other people think.

Can anyone tell me what are the best cell phones to purchase...Best deals....Best quality.
Thanks,Cujobird

I have Cingular Wireless but personally i think that Cricket Wireless is the best. Their phones are expensive but the most expensive plan is only $45.00 for unlimited minutes, texting, long distance, voicemail, caller id, call waiting and 3-way. But everyone has their own opinions.

www.mycricket.com

does anyone know how much money you get paid an hour for working at a job like af & hollister?

It depends on what you do and how long you have been working there. My friend worked at A&F and she only got paid minimum, but had to wear the stores clothes, which took up more than her paycheck. And usually you dont get a discount. But if you want to do it, im sure that as time goes on you will get a raise. =)

what can you say to someone like someone asked me to talk dirty to them and i didnt know what to say please help how do you talk dirty to a guy?

ill rate

What you have to do is just basically tell a story of what you want to do or what you are going to do to a guy. For example, you could start out by saying, "im coming into your room, crawling on your bed and un-zipping your pants" just stuff like that. You will eventually get into more detailed and dirty things. Usually guys get more arousal out of this than girls but just do your best. =)

omg I axcendently stepped on my ferret and now its just like laying there and its still breathing but real heavy i dont know what to do becuz i cant like take him to a vet or nething cuz they arn't open now..i dont know if its like gonna die or what! help what should i do?
I LL RATE HHIGH!
stephanie

Hi i just read your question now and im sure youve gotten him to the vet by now because its been 2 days. So im just writing to say that i hope he is okay and make sure you hold him and show affection to him. Good luck. =)

is it true like.. if a girl fingers them selves that they get there period sooner... cuz like.. wen girls have sex.. they are fingered and they bleed... sumtimes

Nope thats not true. Your period doesnt even take place in the vaginal opening that the penis enters, it takes place in the uterus. The reason women bleed is because their hymen is broken. So you may bleed, but it has NOTHING to do with you period.

I know people who have been playing the "choking game." Not by themselves though, I know you can die easily that way. What they do is kneel down, and put their head on the ground and take deep breaths. They get up, take a deep breath and hold it, then a friend puts their arm around their neck and chokes until they pass out. Is this really all that dangerous? I've read that people have been doing this since the 1980's, and the only reason its a big deal now is because kids are doing it by themselves and arent letting go of the choke before they pass out. If a friend is doing it and knows when to let go, is it dangerous?

Its dangerous no matter what. Havent you heard the news lately? There has been about 4 deaths because of the stupid "game". It gets addicting and kids do it by themselves and die. Please dont do it, and please encourage your friends not to do it. I dont think we need anymore teenage deaths because of a ridiculous game.

my friends and i recently had a "falling out" and now they are harrassing me...like putting things telling me im a butthead in my inbox. i wish they would stop but they wont...what could i do to make them stop?

the real question i wanted to know is:
can you ban people even if they arent a columnist?

WILL RATE...
PLEZ ANSWER

http://advicenators.com/abuse.php

Thats for looking up how to ban someone or file abuse. But to make them stop, just ignore them, dont let them see that you are upset. That will make them want to do it more. And if you retaliate, they are never going to stop. So even though its hard (i know i've been through it) you have to stick it out. When it ends, you will be glad you never said anything back. Good luck.

ok i was hanging out with my friends when i felt something weird on the inner part of my lip. like a pimplish kind of thing? my one friend insisted it was herpes and said at one point everyone gets herpes. im like what? is this true? i thought herpes was like a perminant thing.

Canker sores and cold sores on and in your mouth are considered a form of herpes. He was probably just fucking with you. It may have just been a blister though. Dont worry, your fine.

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