My boyfriend always calls me very sweet things like beautiful and gorgeous. I am just wondering about some ideas of things to say back to him. I don't want to give him mixted signals when I do say anything back. I need some advice on how to respond to those things and what to say back.
You can call him handsome and sexy. You can be like he hotness when you guys see each other and lean in for a kiss. These are the things i say and do.
Hope this helped :)
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16/f
ok ive never had a bf in my whole life and my friends are startin to pick on me and my mom is startin to worry about me never havin a bf. Is this normal cause im not sure ive just never met 'the one'. My friends go out with people all the time and try to hook me up with people i dont even know. Guys ask me out but i just dont have the heart to say yes. Is this normal, to be 16 and never have had a bf in whole life?
Please any advise will be very thankful!!
trust me it is normal. Your just not ready. Your the way i used to be i had few bfs but i didnt really want one so i broke it off after a week ive been single throughout HS really. Now that im in college im open to relationships. Its normal to not want a bf and to just wait to you find the one. Just because your friends have guys dont mean you should rush into anything. Wait until your ready. & When the guy comes along you'll know that this is the person you want to open up to & let into your heart & life.
Hope this helps :)
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I have a friend that I like alit He told me that he likes me also but now after a convo that we had he now tells me that we should be friends nothing more. But its not as easy as he thinks it could be , we have been sexually active with each other . He its the first person I did alot of sexual things with ! I don't want too be only his friend I want too be more but now he questions if we can move forward because of what I said ! What should I do?
you should tell him that if you guys become just friends you cant do the sexual things you used to. I know its going to hurt not being more with him but thats what he wants and sometimes you can't change a guy's mind. Have a direct face-to-face convo with him & first ask him why he feels like you guys can't be together what's stopping him & if he still don't budge then tell him that you can't be sexual with him nomore. You don want to become a sex buddy you know.? You deserve a real honest relationship with a guy who will treat you the proper way.
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Last week i had sex & oral with a guy. The next day my vagina was alittle swollen, but that normal for me since ive barely had sex. The next day the swelling was gone, but about 3 or 4 days ago i noticed my vaginal area was a bit itchy. Afew days ago i looked at my vagina and found that there are about 3 little bumps that are alittle red with a slight white color on top. they are located on one of the inner lips right by the opening and its alittle swollen. Im freaking out and dont know what to do about this or how servire this might be. Someone please help and tell me what i should do about this. Im only 17..
You should tell your mom about what you did with this guy and have her take you to the doctor. Or if you drive you can go there on your own. You should get that checked out there is a possibility that he had something & either he didn't tell you or he didn't know. Go get checked out
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So, I'm 14 and I have been talking with this guy for about a month now. My mom doesn't really know him, but I like him like crazy. He wants me to go to the movies with him tonight but I don't know how to ask/ tell my mom about it. He is a really great and nice guy and I want us to work out in the future but how can I do that without my mom knowing ?
You should tell your mom so she won't be mad about you lieing to her. Then she's going to think that this boy is making you lie to her about the places your going. Go to your mom and tell her. Be like mom there is this boy in my school and he wants to take me to the movies tonight just as friends. Approach your mom politely about it and be honest with her. Trust me if your mom finds out you lied to her about a guy she's is not going to like him she is going to assume that he is manipulating you into lieing to her and she's going to think he is bad news. Be honest
Hope i helped :)
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So my fiance wants us to take a shower together. Which I don't know how to feel about it, I don't know what we would do. Can you give me some tips on what to do or something. This whole thing just boggles my mind! Thanks.
If you guys had sex before then showering together will be fine. It's just like taking a shower alone except you have a significant other with you. He can soap your back you guys can make out or even do a little something extra. If your taking a bath you can sit in front of him and you guys can make out then too. You can relax with each other and enjoy each other's company in a nice smooth sexy way. It's a shower so not much things to really do but the same thing as sex just standing up. Just be imaginative.
Hope i helped :)
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My best friend is copying me.
Ugh it's just everything I do, everything I say.
Whenever I start obsessing over something, she obsesses over it to.
She crushes on my crushes-fine-but then she says really stupid and irritating things like "We SHARE Johnny."
Like, WHAT!?
She knows NOTHING about Harry Potter, but she claims she is a witch-like me-and goes on about it. And the worst thing is this: My OTHER friend who HATES Harry Potter asks her "do you like Harry Potter"?" and I heard her reply is "no"
She does that ALL the time. Let's call her F and my other friend A. A hates the shops that I shop in, F claims to love them (after I told her that i shop in them) and then A (who is quite popular) says she DOESN'T like them and F agrees. Then F tells me how she thinks that A has bad taste. I asked her about this once and she said she just doesn't want to get in a fight.
I'm not an emo but people say I am and F thinks I am (I don't say anything about it) so F goes on about how emo she is and everything, when she's clearly not.
This time, it's my Pirates of the Caribbean obsession. I know how to play the theme tune on the piano, I have a Captain Jack hat, etc. I am a huge POTC fan. And now she's saying that she is as well.
She hasn't even watched all of them. She just emailed me, like right now, "Am watching potc 1. Biggest fan ever."
NO. NO. NO. NO. NO.
And also, I started reading the LotR books, everyone called me a nerd including her, now she is reading them too, but tells me not to tell anyone, but also tells me she's a bigger fan than I am because she "wants to marry Legolas"
She really gets on my nerves.
Another annoying thing she does is yells out everything that I say to her.
You know when you say something incredibly stupid and embarrassing without thinking? That happens all the time to me. She just tells everyone unless I grab her by the arm and drag her out of the room, begging her to shut up about it. THEN she shuts up.
Despite all this...she's a good friend. She sticks up for me and everything.
But I just need some advice...how shall I deal with her annoyingness?
You should tell her you guys need to talk and sit her down and explain to her what she is doing is annoying. She needs to stop being your twin and she needs to be your best friend who needs to do what she loves not what you love. You also need to ask her how many close friends she had before you. I say that because usually when people copy things there best friend do is mainly because they never had a best friend before or someone so close like with what you guys have and she's afraid of losing that.Like you said she don't want to start arguments. That could be why she agrees and does everything you say. She's afraid of losing you. She probably never had someone close like you and she feels that if you guys argue that she will lose this closeness she has with you. You have to sit her down and tell her to follow what she believes in not what you believe in and reassure her. That even though you guys have arguments you will continue to be her best friend, but she has to stop doing everything that your doing or she's going to start losing you slowly with her annoyingness.
hope i helped out your situation :)
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I've been told im really cute and been compliented about it by parents friends and people from school.and whenever Im at a store or the mall i notice that alot of women look at me even the most prettiest ones that are there do it. And whenever i notice a beautiful girl looking at me i make a quick 2 second eye contact with her and automatically look away and try to avoid her unintentionally because i get really shy because of how darn hot they are .and i end up acting funny if she trys to hint hints to me that she's interested .what should I do
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Awww i think its so cute when a guy is shy and not sure of what to say. You should practice it with your friend. Choose a girl that your friends with and practice with her. Also practice in the mirror too. It will help your confidence boost up. Compliment yourself and keep doing that until you start believing in it and you start feeling less shy. Don't get cocky and think your the "MAN" lols but have the high enough self-esteem to be able to get out your house & talk to those girls and flirt and hang out with them.
Hope i helped :)
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Ok so i dated this guy and we met on a cruise and i was totally in love with him. Oh and im 14/f. And like 2 months ago he broke up with me and i was a mess. I thouggt i could get over him and date someone else and i did and it didnt work out and i still have HUGE feelings for him and i cant get over him and i get soo sad and i dont know how to het over him. :(
The best way to get over someone is to 1.tell him how you feel. Because you can try to get over someone, but if you have so much feelings and anger bout the breakup and questions there still going to be in your head. Just talk to him and tell him how your feeling about everything. 2. when that is done don't hide in your room congratulate your self for being strong and go out with your girls and have some fun and 3. Move on day by day
Hope this advice helps you :)
I been through the same thing too
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i met a great guy and he appears interested (he txt everyday, invited me out with his friends) but he hasn't asked me out on a second date. he says he needs to plan one when i give hints but he still hasn't asked me out. what should i do or don't do if doesn't ask me?
Sometimes guys are shy. You should take the first step and ask him. Just ask him if he will like to go out on another date because i really enjoyed the first one we had. Just make a jump but to dont push him to much just talk to him one on one and ask him at the perfect time like before you guys say bye to go your seperate ways.
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My boyfriend cheated on me several times, i forgave him, i got pregnant and he asked me to abort saying that we are not ready, i refused and he broke up with me.he went back dating one of the girls he was 2 timing me with.later on he said that he can't be with me but that he will be there for the child eventhough he can't provide financially. I was devastated, depressed, and so hurt. i didn't know what to do and i didn't want the child to suffer, so out of fustration i had an abortion, but i told my him that i had a misscaraige. he felt for me and asked me back out again. i accepeted and we started dating later to find out that he was still involve with other women. i broke up with him and ever since now we have being on and off. he says he loves me, that am the love of his life and that we should be exclusive. recently i discovered that he is still involve with one girl and is chasing after other gilrs. i confronted him and he told me that he will set things straight with other girls an let them know that the past is the past and that he wants to concentrate on his future which is me. i don't know what to do,i love him so much,but i can't trust him,i have tried several to move on but its hard, i feel miserable without him. should i give him another chance?i am 23 and i want to be in a stable relationship with someone that i love so that i might end up marrying the person and carrying his childreen. A part of me wants to be in a relationship with him again, but the other part is afraid of getting hurt again. what can i do?
He cheated on you so many times you have to honestly ask your self these questions. . . Is he worth my tears? Do i want to keep this unhealthy relationship going? Should i destroy my happiness and trust in guys because of this one person? You will feel that you can't trust guys because of this one boy.
My friend is in this situation with her ex now too. Im going to tell you the same thing i told her. You two are traveling in different places. Your trying to be an adult and grow up while he's using you. Honestly he is because he realizes that your going to keep taking him back no matter what. He's going to mess with other girls and tell you what you want to hear because he knows that will draw you back to him. You have to be strong and as much as it's going to hurt you have to let him go and destroy his life on his own without bringing you down.
You don't deserve that type of man in your life. You deserve someone whose going to be honest with you love you care for you always be there for you and someone who wont two-times you and who puts you first. He's a jerk who still has to get over his teenage years. Your a woman who has to move on from her teenage boyfriend. Trust me your heart will start to heal again and once that happens you will be able to open it back up to someone you really trust and care for and someone who will do the same for you. Then you will be all smiles with your marriage and children. Trust in what your heart and head tells you but also what your conscience says too because that is God's way of leading you down the correct and safe path of happiness.
Hope i helped you out :)
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hi im noelia15/f,
well im confused i really like a guy ive known him since i was 1 the thing is he wants to date i do 2 but at the same i dont because people cheated on me before n i dont want that 2 happen again i trust him n myparents no his parents n him very well they approve of him / they worked with his parents for 30 years
i dont no what 2 do.... is he the love of my life because i get butterflies every time we r together
thanxs i appreciate your advice
～noelia ～
Go with the flow. If you guys like each other then try it out. Go on dates and see where those dates lead you too. All i can say is to take a leap of faith with love because love is all we got honestly. Without love this world will be chaos. So go on dates go on plenty if you have to. Then try the relationship & see where it goes. You can't be scared and close yourself off to guys because there were jerks before him because he just may be your Angel you have been looking for. Like they say no one is better for you than your best friend. :)
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I know it's terrible, but if my boyfriend leaves his phone around, I can't help but to look through it. It sounds contradicting to say I trust him, but I know he'd never cheat on me or do anything to hurt me. It just upsets me because in the past I've found that he's looked at porn on his phone, and I don't buy into the whole "he's just a guy thing" I've asked him not to, and he agreed. Well tonight I found that he had been on the Playboy website. I asked him about it and he said "oh I was trying to unsubscribe because they keep sending me emails" and then got upset because I didn't believe him. :(
Okay well let me start off by saying first & foremost trust is very important in a relationship because without it your just two people trying to compete for each other's affection and it will seem like there is no real love in this relationship. So if he says that he was trying to unsubscribe then you have to believe him. If you see on his phone that he's doing porn again then that's when you can question him. You have to trust and give people 2nd chances.
I hope i helped out your situation :)
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Hey! You answered my question about me gettin a hard on whenever another guy touches me.. I Pleaseee myself a TON haha! Do you have any other suggestions?
Im glad you tried it lols. But you can also try meditating. I know it sounds bizzare, like meditating.? But if you watch gay porn and practice meditating that will also help you alot. Also like i said try and go around guys after you try the porn and see what happens.
Hope this helps you alot too :)
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i dont fall in "like" often.
as in i dont ever feel the instant spark or connection with someone but when i do... its bad.
recently i felt it and i cannot stop thinking about this guy.
i hate when i go through this because it makes me go crazy.
i hate liking guys because of this feeling.
i feel like i text the guy im into way to much and think about him way to much and flat out obsess about him.
how do i turn this off? and stop this craziness. and just be mellow and normal when it comes to a guy that im into.
I had the same problem and same thoughts with this guy i liked. I was scared that he may find someone else and me & him won't get our chance that i wrote him constantly thought about him 24/7 wanted to hang with him 24/7. I realized that guys will go after a girl they believe are relaxed and don't chase after them TRUST ME. Don't be to noticeable about it because guys don't like when girls are all over them 24/7 and always up their behinds. Play it cool. You should have him write you and if the day goes by and he hasn't wrote you don't write him because then he'll notice that your more calm and relaxed and guys love that in girls. They want a girl they can relax with and a girl who knows her place. Do things you love to do what ever they may be and you'll forget about him even if it's for those few hours, at least it helped. Trust me a guy goes for non-clingy girls so just don't be too clingy. Let him know your interested in a nice calm and sexy way. Meaning write him once each day and conversate with him play it cool with him and he'll start to like you more than you thought he would.
Hope i helped :)
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I have had my period since I was 13, and that same year I became a vegetarian which caused my periods to be so light that they sometimes did not come at all. After I started taking vitamins and had a bigger diet, I got it again, but they were very irregular so I was put on birth control when I was 15. This year I got my period on July 3rd, and like every other period it lasted about a week. About two weeks later I went to a party and ended up drinking. I didn't drink a lot but I drank more then a little. When I got home, I noticed that I got my period again and it lasted almost 2 weeks. When I thought it was over, I was at another party where I consumed a smaller amount of alcohol then the last time, and I woke up with my period. Is alcohol making me bleed? Should I talk to my doctor about it? HELP!
That is very unusual. That should not be happening so yes please go ask your doctor about this. Also stop drinking so it won't get worse.
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English IS my first language so dont worry haha, I'm from Dublin,Ireland :D Theres this guy called david ( just to add,hes polish)
we started talkin the day of his birthday because his cousin carolina (whos my good friend) was talking about him to me.. we were on facebook and she poked him off my page as a joke, he poked me back and added me. We started talking and we got a long great..(ive never seen him face to face)
we talked about EVERYTHING..then on july 1st he went to poland to visit his family till august 15th.. and im going on holidays to turkey on august 12th and wont be back till august 26th.. and he says he wants to see me straight away when i come back and that he really likes me and all.. he promised me he would talk to me all day but he hasnt been? hes been different, not being himself to be honest.. hes just not being himself at all... i dont know what to do cause i cant get him out of my head? rather not say my age, im a teen though :) i told my mam and dad about him and i never tell them anything about guys so :/ like should i just drop it and leave him or give him a chance when he comes back and see what hes like?
Give him a chance maybe he's stressed about something with his family. He'll hit you up when he's feeling better and calmed down. When he gets back im sure he will write you and find out when you guys should hang out. Give him space trust me if he likes you he'll start missing your texts and you & will hit you up :)
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So I went to a teen night club, and was dancing and having a blast for almost 3 hours; I knew that this guy was there and he watched me a lot; even though he didn't dance (let's call him J). J and me know each other, but arn't really close. Well after the teen night club ended, I went to Mcdonalds, and was texting a friend when all of sudden, a guy sort of "pushes" against/beside me and it was J. He said "Sorry Katie", smiles, and walks away to get his drink. When I went to fill up my drink, him and his friend stared at me the entire time, and he talked to me for a bit and then had to leave. He was smiling a lot, flirting, etc... What should I do? Thanks
Since you guys know each other hit him up & see if he wants to hang out with you. Keep it casual like the park or movies. Talk to him and get to know each other. If it seems like he gets more flirty and you like him even more, You should tell him that you like him. Just ease into it. Start off slowly. Associates, friends,best friends and if he likes you he will take you on a date and then it will develop into something serious. Just remember take it slow and try not to read into things to much and don't rush things either.
hope i helped :)
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erm well what does it mean when someone says 'The best thing we ever had, we took it for granted' ? pleaseee need to know what he meant.. thanku !
Exactly what he said is exactly what it means. In a broken down version of it even more basically he's saying you guys had something special, but either you guys weren't hanging out alot or he thought you guys slacked off after you approved of the relationship. It wasn't what you guys thought it will be and it started going the wrong way once you guys started dating. Basically you guys have something real, but you guys never noticed it to it was gone.
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13/f
ive been datin this boy since feb. and im friends with 3 of my bfs exs ive been friends with 1 of them since oct. and the 2 one since nov. and the 3 one since mar. is it right or wrong cause im not sure.
Any advise will be very thankful!!
There's nothing wrong with being friends with your bf's exes. Just make sure it's for the rite reasons. That there being your real friends and not trying to be noisy and sabotage your relationship. Just make sure they know there place. Other than that everything is fine and well. Just focus on your relationship and as long as he loves you and only you then he shouldn't have a problem with you being friends with any of his exes at all. :)
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