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How to get over him????
Ok so i dated this guy and we met on a cruise and i was totally in love with him. Oh and im 14/f. And like 2 months ago he broke up with me and i was a mess. I thouggt i could get over him and date someone else and i did and it didnt work out and i still have HUGE feelings for him and i cant get over him and i get soo sad and i dont know how to het over him. :(
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Was this your first boyfriend? I'm just wondering because when my first boyfriend and I broke up it was tough on me.
You cared for him of course you're going to miss him its only natural. You are still upset so maybe dating isn't the best thing for you right now. Maybe right now you should just enjoy being single. I felt that way about my first boyfriend for a long time. Took me a long time to realize that I didn't need him but he did break my heart. I never thought I would ever be with anyone else and it turns out I did find someone that made me happy.
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Everybody goes through break ups. What you need to do is focus your energy on something else rather than thinking of him. Take up some new hobbies or go hang out with your friends. Don't talk about him though, the more you talk, the longer it'll take to get over him.
It's only been 2 months and that's not long. So it's normal to still have feelings for him.
I'm not sure if you still have contact with him at all, but if you do, you need to cut all contact with him. It'll be easier for you.
It's different for different people. Some people get over someone in a matter of weeks and some people get over someone in months.
Just give yourself some time, and do something else with your time.
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The best way to get over someone is to 1.tell him how you feel. Because you can try to get over someone, but if you have so much feelings and anger bout the breakup and questions there still going to be in your head. Just talk to him and tell him how your feeling about everything. 2. when that is done don't hide in your room congratulate your self for being strong and go out with your girls and have some fun and 3. Move on day by day
Hope this advice helps you :)
I been through the same thing too
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