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i need advice: my fiance wants us to take a shower together...
So my fiance wants us to take a shower together. Which I don't know how to feel about it, I don't know what we would do. Can you give me some tips on what to do or something. This whole thing just boggles my mind! Thanks.
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Remember your first kiss and how you didn't know what to do with your hands? It may not be that fresh in your mind, but you probably felt a little awkward at first. Taking a shower together is going to be awkward at first. You're standing, water gets in your face, there may not be a lot of room for two people, you might get cold if your partner's in the water and you're not, I'm sure you can think of more. The thing is, it's something that you should try that could be fun. Just because it may have been awkward doesn't mean you shouldn't have tried kissing. I'm sure you're great at it now and it feels natural. You'd hate to be missing out on it now. Same thing with the shower. If you do it a few times it may not be as awkward. It's good to expect some awkwardness, but don't focus on that. Taking a shower together feels great. It's sexy and one of those sort of "forbidden" things to do. If your fiance has this fantasy, you should try it! There's no harm. If it totally sucks it's not like you'll have to do it again. If you end up loving it, then great! No harm either way. From someone that's done it before, it's definitely worth trying. My advice is to not feel as if you have to have sex in a weird position. Try to do more with your hands and go from there. You don't even have to do anything too sexual, just rub soap on each other, dry off, then have fun outside of the shower if that's easier. Good luck!
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Taking a shower together can be fun. Contrary to the other writers sex can be done in the shower but more likely foreplay is more in order as washing your lover is very sexy.
Like anything else that has to do with sex it requires consent of both parties. It sounds like you may willing to give it a try so consent could be there. Consent can be withdrawn at any time by simply saying no or stop. That goes for this or anything you and your fiance decide to experiment with in the future sexually.
My advice is since you may be willing to give it a try then go ahead. As I said it is a fabulous way to make out or method of foreplay with your fiance. If it gets to a point where you are uncomfortable simpe say stop or no. Then if you want you can dry off and finish in the comfort of your bedroom.
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How old are you guys?What if he suddenly asked you to have sex with him?What would you do?There's no need to have sex in the tub though,so don't worry too much!Enjoy the moment with him.He's your fiance so I suppose you have already had sex.I agree with the other person before me,be imaginative,absolutely.
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If you guys had sex before then showering together will be fine. It's just like taking a shower alone except you have a significant other with you. He can soap your back you guys can make out or even do a little something extra. If your taking a bath you can sit in front of him and you guys can make out then too. You can relax with each other and enjoy each other's company in a nice smooth sexy way. It's a shower so not much things to really do but the same thing as sex just standing up. Just be imaginative.
Hope i helped :)
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