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why won't he ask me out?
i met a great guy and he appears interested (he txt everyday, invited me out with his friends) but he hasn't asked me out on a second date. he says he needs to plan one when i give hints but he still hasn't asked me out. what should i do or don't do if doesn't ask me?
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Sometimes guys are shy. You should take the first step and ask him. Just ask him if he will like to go out on another date because i really enjoyed the first one we had. Just make a jump but to dont push him to much just talk to him one on one and ask him at the perfect time like before you guys say bye to go your seperate ways.
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He obviously isn't going to make the first step, so my advice to you is to just ask him yourself! Don't be forceful, he may think that you're taking things too fast. Just say something like, "I know you said you were planning something, but I was wondering if you wanted to ___________ this weekend." Or something like that. Sometimes, a guy just needs that push, the reminder that, yes, you guys like each other and that, yes, you like him. Wait another few days, (you never know,) but if nothing happend, ask him yourself! You're too awesome to be ignored!
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Tell him this" "I really like you and I want to go out with you again. Do you feel the same way or do you want to take it slower?" The worst thing he can do is tell you that he's not interested in you. At least then you'll know. It's going to take a ton of nerve to say something like that (believe me, I know), but it's something that you have to do in order to get the peace of mind that you want. Maybe he's nervous too. What if he isn't sure that you like him? Guys are people and have the same feelings as us women do. It's really unfair that they are expected to put themselves out there all the time and we aren't. It could mean a lot to him if you do and it may be what needs to happen for this to go anywhere. If he's too scared, nothing may ever happen even if the both of you want it. Don't be scared and just spit it out! Like I said, the worst that could happen is that you figure out that he's not interested. Even though you may be sad for a little while, in the grand scheme of things, that's not a big deal. Good luck!
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