Please anybody help me how to die very hardly and wierdly.Because i hate my life and now death became my best dream friend.I just want to meet my best friend.Sorry GOD.........
Please, don\'t do this to yourself. Everyone, even if it doesn\'t always feel like it, has a reason for living, for being on this Earth. I know it feels like all of life-including God-is against you. I know it feels like your life is made only out of bad luck, not good luck. And I know it feels like there is no way out-that your life is going to be dark forever.
Things won\'t always be this way. You have to have faith that one day, everything will fall into place. Look to the future, no matter how gray it looks, and tell yourself that everything will work out at one point, even if it takes months and years.
Please don\'t give up now! You have to give yourself a chance. You owe it to yourself to give life another try. You never know: you might just find what makes you truly happy.
Good luck with everything-i\'m rooting for you!
God Bless! :) :)
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So, I'm a 14 year old girl and I honestly can't cope with the way my parents tell me to live, I feel like I am trapped in my home and I can't do anything!
They have these rules that I cannot go on my iPad/phone until 8pm every night, even at weekends I'm not aloud to use them. They say I'm to antisocial and I need to get out more, I go almost everywhere with them! I do go to town with friends aswell. They won't let me out of my town, I live in Barnstaple, devon and I'm not even aloud to Exeter or Bristol to go on a shopping trip with friends which is only about 2 hours away. Also I'm not aloud to be friends with a few people I know, one of them because there is a rumour going around that her mum is a prostitute and the other one who is my best friend and I still hang out with her secretly because she said something rude on Facebook like 2 years ago! It annoys me how I can't be friends with who I want to be friends with. My parents won't let me go out after school and I always have to be back home at 4pm if I go anywhere, which means I can't go out in the evening or at night and have a laugh :(
They also won't let me use social networks other than Facebook and Twitter, I want to be able to use snapchat, Instagram and tumblr but I'm not aloud to have it on my phone, another thing is that my dad still reads my texts and my messages with friends online!!! I'm 14 and I literally have no privacy! It's really annoying I want to just tell him "no, I won't give you my phone" or just not tell him the lock to my phone but he always makes me! :(
This is really annoying me now how I feel like I am stuck with nothing to do and no privacy at all :(
Anyone know what I could do?
Okay. Can I just say right now that I TOTALLY UNDERSTAND WHAT YOU\'RE SAYING. I\'m 17, and my parents used to do the same.exact.thing.
My advice to you is to just talk to your parents. Don\'t throw a hissy fit, don\'t yell and kick and scream like a 5 year old, and ESPECIALLY don\'t whine and lose your temper. If there is anything i\'ve learned being a teenager, it\'s that parents ALWAYS respond better to calm, responsible DISCUSSIONS than loud, obnoxious, angst-ridden fights. I know it\'s frustrating, but trust me on this. Parents like to see that their children are growing up to be mature, responsible young men and women. Why don\'t you make this your ideal opportunity to prove to them that you are, indeed, a smart and mature young woman?
One more thing: I know it\'s annoying, but in the end, your parents are just looking out for you. Try to think of it this way: there are kids out there with wither totally unattentive parents or no parents at all. Be grateful that you have that never-ending source of unconditional love.
Good luck!
Rosieposie
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I dont know what to say ,i want to know whats the purpose of my life,like what am i made to do.ive been cheated on ,ive been bullied .i doubt any one would answer so just hear me out,i dont know what to do,how do i find my purpose ,and i also need to make new friends!!
I think everybody has asked themselves, \"why am I here?\" before. At least, I know I have! And the truth is, everyone will find out their true reason for living-their purpose-in due time. I know that right now, in the suckish situation you\'re in, it can feel like the whole world is spinning out of control. But please believe me when I tell you that everyone has a purpose in life. My senior english teacher in High School studied international politics and foreign affairs, worked with the government, was the head director of dozens of museums and historical societies, and spent six years teaching young children in Scotland. He even operates our town\'s ferry service and bartends for celebrities over the summer! Despite his epic life, however, he always said that the most fufilled he\'s ever felt was when he was teaching, not when he was going all those other crazy things. He spent years trying to find the purpose in his life, when all along it was staring him in the face!
So, you see, it\'s okay not to know your purpose in life right now. No one knows for sure where life will take them! You just have to be patient and optimistic, and one day you\'ll realize what it is that makes you feel the happy.
And as for the whole \"cheated on\" and \"making friends\" thing, take heart in the fact that-even though it doesn\'t seem quite possible sometimes-there are good, kind-hearted people in the world, people who would have the decency to be loyal and to commit. The same goes for making friends: you just have to get out into the world and shine. And who knows? Maybe one of the people you become friends with will help you on your road to fufillment!
Sorry this is sooo long and good luck!!
:) :) :)
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i met a great guy and he appears interested (he txt everyday, invited me out with his friends) but he hasn't asked me out on a second date. he says he needs to plan one when i give hints but he still hasn't asked me out. what should i do or don't do if doesn't ask me?
He obviously isn't going to make the first step, so my advice to you is to just ask him yourself! Don't be forceful, he may think that you're taking things too fast. Just say something like, "I know you said you were planning something, but I was wondering if you wanted to ___________ this weekend." Or something like that. Sometimes, a guy just needs that push, the reminder that, yes, you guys like each other and that, yes, you like him. Wait another few days, (you never know,) but if nothing happend, ask him yourself! You're too awesome to be ignored!
Good Luck!
RosiePosie12321
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Okay well first off, we aren't dating yet. We dated for a while and broke up. We worked out our differences and are almost 100% sure we are getting back together, just not yet because we wanna be friends for a little while. But we still kiss. We both have never done more than that. He wants to have sex but I don't feel like I am ready for that because of a few reasons. First off we are both 15, I am almost 16. Second, I don't want to risk getting pregnant, I have my whole life left to live! Third, we aren't dating yet, I don't want to have sex with someone unless I love them and they feel the same. I REALLY like him but idk if I love him yet. I feel like sometimes I do but I am 15 I don't know what love feels like. I feel like if I did end up having a kid, I would be able to take care of it but I don't want one now. Most of my and his friends have had sex and he feels like we are both missing out on it. But anyways my question is, what should I do? I don't think I am ready and I told him that but I feel bad because he really wants to. But that's also my choice to make, not his. Help!
Hello! You ask whether or not you should have sex with your almost-boyfriend, but it seems to me that you already know the answer. You know that physically and emotionally you just are not ready to make that kind of commitment, and your boyfriend should respect that. This sounds like the "everybody's doing it" thing, and I know it seems like it, but NOT EVERYONE is doing it! And when you see those girls who are suppossedly "doing it" with babies at 16 years old, then you'll know you made the right decision. Good for you for knowing that you really can't understand the complexities of true love at 16 years old! :) You seem to understand more about yourself and what you're comfortable with than a lot of other girls. Believe me, you may feel like you're missing out on sex, but when you wait and have sex with the person you know deep down inside you really love, it's simply magical. So my advice to you: Don't feel badly for saying "No" to your boyfriend. If he really likes you and respects you, he will wait for you! I personally think that you already know this,:), you just didn't want to make your boyfriend mad at you. (which is completely understandable!) :D You're right, it IS your choice! Don't let him or anyone else walk all over you. You're too awesome for that!
Good Luck!
RosiePosie12321
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I been dating this guy for 5 months and im completly in love with him!! He has been by myside trough everything when j went to a mental.hospital he was there for.me when.i was sad and.crying.he would hold me and well hes my bff and even tough we have huge problems because hes 19 & im 15 my social worker told me that if.he comes at night and.sneaks into my room he would get a restraining.order against me and i know.my parents dont like him much because they believe it was his fault & blah blah blha well the point is that we been falling apart lately so he asked me to have an open relationship meaning that he can flirt and kiss other females.. when.he.told me that my heart broke in million of pieces and i started crying like hell it hurts a lot. His reasons for asking.for.an.open.realtionship was that we couldn't see each other that much Bcuz we live 30 minutes away and im never with him when.he needs me and that there was no point of staying faithfull if.i wasnt near him.. But now.Idk what.to do?!!!!! Should i stay with him and haven an open relationship? And.wait till i get a car and wait.till its only us again? Or be done with him? Or be in an open relationship and get revenge??!! Meaning by showing.him that i can be with as.many as guys as he.can be with girls.
Revenge will only make things worse. If you are really uncomfortable with an open relationship, tell him. If he really and honestly cares for you, he would understand and wait for you to heal and be ready for him. To be honest, you are too young to understand the complexities of true love. I know how you feel: I was in a similar relationship when I was 13, and was dating a 17 year old. I thought I was in love, but it turned out he was cheating on me because I wouldn't give him what he wanted. So my advice to you is to just tell him truth. If he storms out and never speaks to you again, well, it will hurt, but it really means that he is not worth your awesomeness!
Good Luck!
RosiePosie12321
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I currently have a boyfriend. He is sweet,funny and treats me like a princess. The issue is I don't feelthose butterflies. Also I'm not physically attracted. I followed my brain and gave him a shot. Im still not physically attracted. I use to have a crush On a guy but we became best friends. This was 3 years ago. We barely talked during the last year. I needed help with school things so I text him. We started texting and I felt butterflies again. I anxiously waited for his replies. I feel horrible. Why can't I feel like this for my bf? I thought I was over the other guy but Clearly I'm not. I didn't flirt with the other guy but I feel like I'm deceiving my bf. Should I break up with him? Also I know there's not a chance with the othe guy because I'm in the friendzone. There's always that attraction between us but it's been there since I me him and he's never asked me out. Also I'm scared to ruin such a good friendship. Either way i feel my boyfriend deserves better.
Hello! You are clearly stressed, and I must say I do not blame you. You sound like a good person who really knows the difference between right and wrong. You've already conquered the first step: Acceptance. You understand that what you're doing to your current boyfriend is wrong, and that he definately deserves better treatment. To me, it seems like you have a lot of emotions to sort through, and my advice to you would be to be truthful with your boyfriend. Tell him the truth: that he's a great, fantastic person, but that you can only see yourselves as friends. If you tell him straight-out how you feel, he'll hopefull understand. You may feel miserable in a relationship with him, but completely happy in just a friendship with him. And about the other guy: It's good that you didn't flirt with him, as your current boyfriend doesn't deserve that. I can't tell you whether or not you should date the other guy or not: that's your decision, one to decide when your free and ready. My other advice to you: Take some time off. Be single for a while. Really think and sort out your feelings and emotions. Maybe even try dating other people besides those two guys. Take a deep breath and realize that nobody is perfect, and that, no: YOU ARE NOT A HORRIBLE PERSON!
Good Luck!
RosiePosie12321
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Alright. So I started working at a restaurant about 7 months ago. There is this guy who has been there longer than I. Ever since I started working there we've constantly flirted with each other. After being with him countless hours and working by his side, I have developed feelings for him. a few months ago I got his number and asked him my work schedule for the week (just as an excuse to text him). After that he started texting me maybe once a week checking up on me and was always such a sweetheart, but we never talked about dating each other or anything like that. So these past few days we've texted almost every dat for a few hours at a time. But he hasn't done that in 3 days now and seems more distant but is flirting at work more than ever. Do you think he has genuine feelings or am I just a friend? The other night he did in fact ask me about my past relationships.
Hello! Because you're not reciprocating, he may feel like you're not interested. Gather up your courage, girl! Don't be afraid to ask him out yourself. He's obviously interested, as he's already asked you out. He probably didn't ask you out while his family was in town because he thought it would be a bit too much...you know, the whole "meet the family" thing would be weird, because you guys haven't even gone out on a date yet. And the whole "past relationships" thing obviously means that he's interested. He wants to know what you look for in a guy.
So, in conclusion: YES, HE MOST LIKELY HAS FEELINGS FOR YOU. But to be honest, you're never going to get a clear answer on here. The best way to find out is just asking him yourself. Good Luck!
RosiePosie12321
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I am turning 18 in 2 days and i want to sleep over at my boyfriends house. I don't know how to tell my parents about this they are extremely strict. All we are going to do is watch a series on tv all night. What do i tell my parents?
Hello! Sit your parents down and explain the situation. Prove to them that you're a mature 18-year-old. This means no screaming, slamming doors, or whining if they don't give you the answer you want. To be honest, they probably won't say 'yes' the first time you ask. But if you're polite and mature, they'll begin to understand that you can be trusted. All it takes is a little patience and a little maturity on your part. Oh, and one more thing: If they end up saying 'no' all together, don't sneak out! You can get back at them in their old age and when they need someone to take care of them...just kidding! Sneaking out will just get you back to square one.
Good Luck!
RosiePosie12321
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Hi, I'm 16
I have a boyfriend and we r really close and talk about everything. He always brings sex up tho and asks me when we can have sex and stuff like that. I know tht I am of age so if I wanted to I could but I don't know if he's hinting or what but I'd love to I just am too embarrased to tell him tht straight out.
How can I tell him that I'd love to have sex and do other stuff.
Hello! You seem pretty eager for an answer, so i'll get right into it: the number one key to a successful relationship, (besides trust,) is being open with each other. Sex is a big, big thing to talk about with one another. A lot of people are embarrassed when talking about sex with their partner, but it has to be done in order to truly be ready for sex. Call him up, get together, whichever you're more comfortable with, and tell him that it's time to talk about sex. Because he's already started hinting that he wants it, i'm guessing that he really does want it! But there are two people in a relationship: both people matter. Once you two reach a level ground of understanding and agreement, go for it! (With protection, of course. You don't want to be raising a kid at 16, now, do you?)
Good Luck!
RosiePosie12321
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I've been told im really cute and been compliented about it by parents friends and people from school.and whenever Im at a store or the mall i notice that alot of women look at me even the most prettiest ones that are there do it. And whenever i notice a beautiful girl looking at me i make a quick 2 second eye contact with her and automatically look away and try to avoid her unintentionally because i get really shy because of how darn hot they are .and i end up acting funny if she trys to hint hints to me that she's interested .what should I do
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Dear ?,
Everyone gets nervous at one point when talking to someone of the opposite gender or someone they like. It's natural! The problem, I think, is in your head. You know you're attractive, (which rules out the "low self esteem" option,) so you just need to have more confidence in your actual abilities of attracting someone...you know, charming someone. Next time a cute girl tries hinting that she's interested, take a deep breath. Relax. Look her in the eyes when you talk. Get the whole "name, age, location, hobbies" thing down, just to start things off. And the number one thing: CONFIDENCE! When girls see a guy with confidence, (but not TOO much confidence, you don't want to appear arrogant,) they become even more interested. Good luck!
RosiePosie12321
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