Alright. So I started working at a restaurant about 7 months ago. There is this guy who has been there longer than I. Ever since I started working there we've constantly flirted with each other. After being with him countless hours and working by his side, I have developed feelings for him. a few months ago I got his number and asked him my work schedule for the week (just as an excuse to text him). After that he started texting me maybe once a week checking up on me and was always such a sweetheart, but we never talked about dating each other or anything like that. So these past few days we've texted almost every dat for a few hours at a time. But he hasn't done that in 3 days now and seems more distant but is flirting at work more than ever. Do you think he has genuine feelings or am I just a friend? The other night he did in fact ask me about my past relationships.
Additional info, added Friday August 3 2012, 1:08 am: He had actually asked me to hang out with him and we had set plans to go to a party together, but his family came into town and he hasn't asked to hang out since then. And tonight for example he texted me and asked "what are you up to?" I responded but he didn't reply. Is he losing his interest? . Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? RosiePosie12321 answered Friday August 3 2012, 2:29 pm: Hello! Because you're not reciprocating, he may feel like you're not interested. Gather up your courage, girl! Don't be afraid to ask him out yourself. He's obviously interested, as he's already asked you out. He probably didn't ask you out while his family was in town because he thought it would be a bit too much...you know, the whole "meet the family" thing would be weird, because you guys haven't even gone out on a date yet. And the whole "past relationships" thing obviously means that he's interested. He wants to know what you look for in a guy.
So, in conclusion: YES, HE MOST LIKELY HAS FEELINGS FOR YOU. But to be honest, you're never going to get a clear answer on here. The best way to find out is just asking him yourself. Good Luck!
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