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throwing a suprise party


Question Posted Thursday August 2 2012, 9:49 pm

14/f

This year, our band at school has had problems with many people quitting. We were lucky to have one specific member of our section stay. He is really talented and he brings a lot of fun to our section. Earlier, he found out that his last main friend in band has quit so now he's really depressed. I really want to cheer him up because I hate seeing him so sad. Some friends of mine and I are planning a surprise party for him on Saturday. Does anybody have any ideas for that or anything else we could do cheer him up. I really appreciate all answers


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VoiceofReason answered Saturday August 11 2012, 9:49 am:
I don't get this: you're saying that your friend in the school band is in full blown depression because a buddy of his quit? Or is he in just one of those teenage states of, "this class isn't as much fun without so and so in it, too." Now either your friend has deep seated problems or you guys are totally overreacting to this stuff. If he has deep seated problems, a surprise party won't solve them. If he is just a sulking teenager I would ignore the complaint and move on.

One thing that concerns me, though, is why there seems to be such an exodus of band members. Maybe the band needs a new leader.

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latoline answered Friday August 3 2012, 9:24 pm:
first of all i think she is talking about a student.
You should first of all tell him how talented he is and mostly tell him what a big difference he brings to the group and without him it wouldn't be the same just be straight up to him. If u do he would feel wanted and appreciated. If needed u should throw the surprise party

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Girlygirlhere answered Friday August 3 2012, 1:32 am:
1st of all who are you talkinv about? The teacher? If so then yes throw him a suprise party IF he is fun. And nice and chill. Dont if hes strict as hell. Im 13/f and i understand :) btw why the heck are you in band? Has your school started? Ik still in summer! Lol okay well just have some ballons and a little cake, appropriate music with some chips and dip. Maybe a bug card the whole band can sign an presto! If he is uptight then just make a card. And if he has a favorite food ask him. He will never suspect his small class throwing him a suprise party! Hoped this helped! Bye

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