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i get lovesick way to easily
i dont fall in "like" often.
as in i dont ever feel the instant spark or connection with someone but when i do... its bad.
recently i felt it and i cannot stop thinking about this guy.
i hate when i go through this because it makes me go crazy.
i hate liking guys because of this feeling.
i feel like i text the guy im into way to much and think about him way to much and flat out obsess about him.
how do i turn this off? and stop this craziness. and just be mellow and normal when it comes to a guy that im into.
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Well, feelings for someone aren't exactly something you can just "turn off". Never obsess, let the man do the chasing. If he wants to talk to you, he will. No matter what, he'll give in. No matter how hard it may be for you, just kick back and try to get your mind off him and don't contact him first. Because when he finally does contact you, it'll be when he can engage in a better conversation, and you'll feel so good that you know he thought of you, just the way you think of him. Relationships are a two-way street, and require communication. Especially the growing ones! Just keep calm and carry on.
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I had the same problem and same thoughts with this guy i liked. I was scared that he may find someone else and me & him won't get our chance that i wrote him constantly thought about him 24/7 wanted to hang with him 24/7. I realized that guys will go after a girl they believe are relaxed and don't chase after them TRUST ME. Don't be to noticeable about it because guys don't like when girls are all over them 24/7 and always up their behinds. Play it cool. You should have him write you and if the day goes by and he hasn't wrote you don't write him because then he'll notice that your more calm and relaxed and guys love that in girls. They want a girl they can relax with and a girl who knows her place. Do things you love to do what ever they may be and you'll forget about him even if it's for those few hours, at least it helped. Trust me a guy goes for non-clingy girls so just don't be too clingy. Let him know your interested in a nice calm and sexy way. Meaning write him once each day and conversate with him play it cool with him and he'll start to like you more than you thought he would.
Hope i helped :)
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