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confusion: He its the first person I did alot of sexual things with and I don't want too be only his friend I want too be more!
I have a friend that I like alit He told me that he likes me also but now after a convo that we had he now tells me that we should be friends nothing more. But its not as easy as he thinks it could be , we have been sexually active with each other . He its the first person I did alot of sexual things with ! I don't want too be only his friend I want too be more but now he questions if we can move forward because of what I said ! What should I do?
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So many times guys will just blow you off after doing sex stuff. it's ridiculous. If he really cares for you he wouldn't be doing that. I mean he's not going to change very much from his stance now. I would either talk to him straight up and tell him how you're feeling and ask him WHY he's doing what he's doing or move on. You can do better!
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I'm sorry to say, but that's the trigger. If a guy really cares or has intentions of caring, he will want to get to know you BEFORE doing sexual things. Us girls get used, and it happens to the best of us. Drop him. Why try to pursue something with someone who never had intentions of pursuing something with you? No one likes to be used. Just keep your head up and never give in too easily unless you know your emotions won't get in the way. He's definitely not worth your time or effort. Always let the man do the chasing.
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You know this guy better than I do. However, this does set off a red flag. Is there any chance he was using you for sexual favors and gave you the friends line trying to distance himself or make you go away? I'm putting it out there. If it's not like that than that's great.
You can't force him to more than friends if he doesn't want that. However, you really should talk to him about how you feel and where he stands with you. Let him know it's hard to have intimate contact with someone now to be rejected and deemed only a friend.
Try to find out why and go from there. If he's worth having as a friend keep him but be prepared to move on if not. As hard as it is everything is up to how he feels and whether you can live with that.
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you should tell him that if you guys become just friends you cant do the sexual things you used to. I know its going to hurt not being more with him but thats what he wants and sometimes you can't change a guy's mind. Have a direct face-to-face convo with him & first ask him why he feels like you guys can't be together what's stopping him & if he still don't budge then tell him that you can't be sexual with him nomore. You don want to become a sex buddy you know.? You deserve a real honest relationship with a guy who will treat you the proper way.
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