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Hi my name is Jen - I am 33 and married; a graphic desinger, a big sister, movie lover, horse rider, and board game nerd.

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how do u find out how manii people have u as one of there favorite coloumnists?? pLeAse hElpP moderator please dont delete this question!
thankz ((i rAtEe gOoDd))

I deleted your question because it was poorly writen and in the wrong catagory. Please pay more attention.

To your question, just look under favorite columnist. It will list who you have listed, and who has you listed.

i recently saw my best friend (we'll call her A) and with my other best friend(B) like we are all best friends, and the other day B was showing me all the things that A gave to her for birthdays and halloween, and A didnt get me anything for her birthday, while i got her two very expencive pant that i had to return because they didnt fit! and i always give her(A)a ride to the mall and i even pay for stuf like i would spend 20$ on her when ever we go out because i buy her pop corn and everything! and then one day we went to the mall and we saw buy one get one free, and i took the one free and everyday she bugs me about it and says that its not fair! i realy don't want to be her friend but i don't know! i feel like she is the worst person i ever met! how can i tell her this!

You don't necessarily have to tell her you don't want to be friends anymore, just stop hanging out with her. Say no if she invites you somewhere. Maybe she will get the hint. And if she asks, then tell her the truth. That you just don't feel a connection with her, and you felt that your friendship was one sided. You were tired of giving so much with nothing in return, and then made to feel guilty about a pretzel.

But remember, friendships can't be bought. Hopefuly in the future you won't be quite so generous. It's great to be generous, but don't resent your friends if you don't get things in return.

1st of all I RATE!!! :):):):):):)
hey ya'll, i want a site that will let me put songs in my column and if there's a certain code that i will need, could yall put that in ur answer too, unless the site gives u the code i've been to a few that give u a code, but then they don't work
I DON'T WANT THE XANGA SITE OR IWEBMUSIC!!!!!!!!
they don't work for me(and yes i had the correct code, and iweb music is down or sumthin)
I RATE I RATE I RATE I RATE(i've looked at other questions that are the same, but they all have the 2 sites that don't work for me)

As of yesterday this site no longer allows music.

hello ppl. when i view my advice column it says i've been rated once and im rated a 5. well, when i check view feedback at the top, it says i've been rated 3 time, a 5 each time for different advice each time. but it still only says ive been rated once on my column. do i have a problem with my column or something? or does it take a while for my davice to show up. btw, to check this out, go to -*-frecklymatty27-*- and see for yourself. thanks for answering! i rate ^ _ ^

It usually takes a day for new ratings to be calculated. They should be counted tommarow.

hey im a columnist on here and i had music on my page and its gone ... whats the little code for it i need help please help asap i'll rate 5's

There were so many complaints that the site just decided to remove that option. So you can no longer have music.

Is it safe to cook with pans if they're getting rust spots in them?

No, metals can get into your food and is terrible for your body, especialy your kindneys. Don't risk it. Buy a new pan, they are not that expensive.

well i jst put this newhere .. but i wanna kno how i can put i pic in my advice coulumn .. cause evry time i do it it says its 15k to big .. but its smaller then some peoples pics nd i wanna kno how i can out mine in =)

Size isn't determined just by width and length, it also depends on your resolution, the quality of your picture. You want 72 dpi or less if you want a larger picture.

What exactly does a moderater do? And how do you become one..if you become one what is the point?

You can find all your questions about this site at the help section...

http://advicenators.com/faq.php

i'm 17 and never kissed anyone, how pathetic is that? the thing is, it's not like i'm ugly or anything because i know many people who have liked me or would've kissed me, but i don't want to make things weird between my guy friends by doing anything with them and the other guys who have liked me are not exactly top rate...another thing is that i never even tell people who i like cuz i don't want to be embarrassed...i don't know what i'm waiting for - someone who i feel comfortable with?? the perfect person who doesn't exist? i'm not the kind of person who would do things just to make myself appear cooler but as i get older it just gets more embarrassing to say i've never kissed anyone

Don't be embarassed, because you are not the only one. I didn't kiss anyone until I was 20. Yea I felt kinda odd about it, but today when I think about it I am glad I didn't kiss the first guy to come along.

Just to let you know I am 23 and happaily married, I waited for the "perfect" person. So it does happen!

i have a rating 4 and above how come im not a moderater? ive looked at the moderator faq thing and it doesnt say.

You have to be a member for over 2 weeks.
*I just looked at the FAQ and it's a month now, they must have changed it.

my girlfriend wears some clothing that bothers me. she has a very nice body, and its cool that she is comfortable with showing it off... but it bugs me that she likes the attention from other guys and all. how do i let her know that some of the stuff she wears (low tank tops / shirts, short shorts, etc) bothers me without sounding too much like a jealous control freak?

Tell her the truth, that it makes you feel jealous when you see other guys checking her out, and that her clothing attracks that attention. Maybe she will take what you say to heart. Although, you can't change who she is. She shouldn't have to change the way she dresses just because she has a boyfriend. Just trust that she won't decive you, and stay happy in the fact that you have a beautiful girfriend.

Both of my great grandma's just died. I went out shopping with my best friend all day yesterday after going to a doctors appointment with her dad. I feel terrible about not helping my dad with the funeral stuff... Should I feel bad?

I am sorry about your loss. I think the imortaint thing is to let you dad know you are there for him if he needs anything. And if he needs you, he'll ask. But don't feel guilty, I am sure your grandmothes would want you to be happy.

ahh!! ok, soo I've been playing the piano for about 5 years. when I first started my mom literally had to drag me there because I didn't want to do it. then I was lying to her saying I enjoyed it. I thought, hey if I did something for my mom, maybe she wouldn't hate me. But anyways, I have been telling her I dont want to do it anymore for about a year. She said to me today "I dont want to listen to this. you dont want to do anything but sit on your lazy ass" OMG, I can't stand this! I hate the piano! My mom tells me she loves me but those are just words. she doesn't actually mean it. Whenever I try to talk her her she's like "I'm not going to listen to this! You're a very ungrateful spoiled brat" Oh, and she was on the phone and said "she always complains school is very hard for her, but why would she graduate number 2 out of 360?" OMG, I have to study about 5 hours a day, and spend about 3 hours on homework!! Please help! She does take me to the barn every day and does help me but I think thats only because horseback riding is my sport and she wants to get me "off my lazy ass"

Don't doubt that your mother doesn't love you, she just wants the best from you. Unfortunatly her expectations seem rather high.

Tell your mother that you are old enough to know what you like, and don't like, and piano is something that you just don't enjoy. And it's not because you are too lazy to bother, it's because it's not enjoyable. Being forced to play will make you hate it even more, and by the time your an adult you will never touch a piano, even if you have talent.

Remind your mother that you are a hard worker, and that you do want to please her, but you feel she is pushing you to hard. You are just a kid, and you can't be perfect.

i like several guys. one of them being a guy named steven. we are really good friends and just yesterday he asked me about one of my friends erica. he was like is she single? i told him yes but i am now wishing i told him no. He is a redneck (my type)and we have a lot in common. too bad he likes erica. i dont really think erica would be very good for him b/c she likes bad boyz and that he is not. how to i get the point across to him that erica is not his type and that i am better for him??

>>>i rate good

I think it was good of you to tell him that your friend was single. He asked and you gave him an honest answer. You should have also mentioned that you are single as well, with a cute smile. But that chance has past. But you still have a 2nd chance. He is still single and so are you, so suck up your guts and ask the guy out.

k me and my boyfriend had sex lat night...and we didnt use a condom but he pulled out right bofore he came. but i was kind of worried because he got a little "stuff" right below where he puts his....well you know...is it possible for something to happen? or does it actually have to be inside the girl?? PLEASE HELP ME!!!!

Are you stupid? I know that is harsh, but really, why are you having sex without protection? Don't be surprized if you do find out you are pregnat, or even worse, have an STD. Please educate yourself more before contiuing your sex life.

i like this boy and he doesn't like me and i have a major crush on himk but i dunno what to do! sooo what should i do?

If he doesn't like you, then what is to like about him? Just keep telling yourself that you deserve better.

I wanna lose weight, on my stomach and my bum. But I wanna lose weight before I go back to school in 5 weeks, anyone got any good ways?

Cut down your calorie intake. I have been on a 1400 calorie diet for 3 weeks and already lost 6 pounds, and with minimal excersice. I still eat just much as I did before, I am just making better choices. No more fried food or pop!

in my feed backs it sez 4 people rated me .. but where it sez rates it doesnt show them !! is there sumthin i have to do for it to show ?

It usually takes a day for new ratings to be counted.

As my mind and my body grows tired,
I find that my soul still remains strong,
Though I have come to the point to realize my fate,
To accept death as it slowly creeps up on me,
To accept the fact I will always be lonley,
To accept my life as it truly is,
And to accept the way things are

It's fine to post your poems, but could you please post them under the correct catagory, ie: writng. Thanks!

I am 14 and i just started going out with this guy 2 1/2 weeks ago.. he lives like 30 mins away and hes a total jock so we don't really get to hang out much... so when I have him over I want him to enjoy it with me do u think 14 is to young to be giving head? some of my friend think it is but I don't..

Yes, I think you are too young. Not only that, but you have only been going out for 2 weeks! You hardly know the guy! (and don't tell me that you do, 2 weeks is nothing) Slow down!

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