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never been kissed


Question Posted Friday July 23 2004, 1:02 pm

i'm 17 and never kissed anyone, how pathetic is that? the thing is, it's not like i'm ugly or anything because i know many people who have liked me or would've kissed me, but i don't want to make things weird between my guy friends by doing anything with them and the other guys who have liked me are not exactly top rate...another thing is that i never even tell people who i like cuz i don't want to be embarrassed...i don't know what i'm waiting for - someone who i feel comfortable with?? the perfect person who doesn't exist? i'm not the kind of person who would do things just to make myself appear cooler but as i get older it just gets more embarrassing to say i've never kissed anyone

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Siren_Cytherea answered Friday July 23 2004, 8:08 pm:
You sound as critical as I am.
Just keep waiting. Your prince charming will come alone. Cliche, I know, but mine did. I ran into him in math class, like, just when I'd decided I was sick of dealing with guys, and wasn't going to get into another relationship. Then I fell for him really hard, really fast. Lol.
Your perfect person may exist, so keep waiting. Never settle for a guy. A good one will come along. I have a freind who's gonnna be 18 in november and she's never kissed a guy, or even admitted to having a crush on a guy.
Don't let the facts embarrass you. They make you who you are, as opposed to "just like everyone else". Be unique!
(and keep waiting for a guy you can tolerate, lol.)
Hope I helped!
-Siren =)

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xxhotsexycutiexx answered Friday July 23 2004, 2:26 pm:
hmm...well may b you're tryin to find dat perfect guy outhere...n give dat special kiss...you kno sometimes just dont look to high...just give a guy a chance n dont think bout to much wuts gonna happend next...*live like there's no tomorrow* u never kno wut happens....give a guy a chance...u might b suprised :) xoxo effy

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kevin1986 answered Friday July 23 2004, 2:03 pm:
Don't worry if you're 17 and never kissed anybody. I had only kissed one girl by 17. But your problem lies more in your fear of getting embarrassed if you let the cat out of the bag on who you like. You probably are waiting on somebody perfect,but you'll be waiting forever. Guys,let me assure you,are not perfect. But you're not either and we learn to love the little imperfections. Don't say you've never kissed anyone,say no one's kissed you. I say forget about being embarrassed and just ask the guy out. And then,plant one on the boy. Just don't be real obnoxious.

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texangirl01 answered Friday July 23 2004, 1:33 pm:
you should be so proud that your saving yourself for the right person!!!! that is so cool you of and nothing at all to be embarrassed about!!!!! and you probally just havent been in that perfect moment when you recieve that first perfect kiss! and there is a perfect person for everybody in this world...they may not literally be perfect...but to you they are.

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storageanddisposal answered Friday July 23 2004, 1:30 pm:
It's not pathetic at all, it's endearing. Waiting for someone you're comfortable with is what everyone should do. If you're attracted to one of your boy friends, then you might want to tell them how you feel. If he's a good friend, he'll be empathetic and your relationship might be stronger, even if he doesn't feel the same way. Weirdness will only occur if you make it occur.

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*tasha* answered Friday July 23 2004, 1:26 pm:
Its nooo big deal...my friend shawna *21* she didn't kiss anyone till she was like 19...and she is beautiful and everything!She just "didn't wanna make things wierd" but I think that you should just wait till ya find that special someone...but you won't find "him" until you get who "him" is out...who cares if everyone knows who you like??Its not big deal...its just someone you have feelings for...and if people wanna be sooo immature as to make fun of you for liking someone then they're gay and you should just forget them...I hope I helped and good luck!


*much love*
*~tasha~*


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Bethany answered Friday July 23 2004, 1:26 pm:
you should be proud i would be.. theres no reason to be embarrassed.. So what you've never been kissed i would think thats pretty cool that your not just ganna give stuff like that away just to act cool or whatever..

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sunny answered Friday July 23 2004, 1:23 pm:
its ok it don even matter and if u r embarresd just don tell ne one if somone asks u just say maybe it works kissin isnt all that great it sounds like u have more self respect then ppl that just go and kiss everyone they ever liked.so its not a bad thing .the right guy will come and yull be glad u can share that moment of ur first kiss with him.

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hOlLisTeRcHiCk001 answered Friday July 23 2004, 1:21 pm:
Hunn,

You really need to stop being embaressed..because when you tell them something and they say ahaha just dotn tell them nothing...and just walk away..and act like it dont hurt you..i mean you cant tell your heart to stop loving someone..it just does it on its on....lighten up and dont be so scared..a kiss is a kiss..you should try it!

XO,Megan Nicole!

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Amanda801 answered Friday July 23 2004, 1:20 pm:
I wouldn't be embarrassed if I were you. Just because you haven't kissed anyone that doesn't mean theres anything wrong with you, it shows that your waiting for the right person to come along, and that your not going to kiss someone just to say ohh I kissed someone. Your respecting what you believe in and thats a good thing. And dont be embarrassed to tell people who you like because if you dont how do you know that the person doesn't like you?

Amanda

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jbdreamer answered Friday July 23 2004, 1:16 pm:
Don't be embarassed, because you are not the only one. I didn't kiss anyone until I was 20. Yea I felt kinda odd about it, but today when I think about it I am glad I didn't kiss the first guy to come along.

Just to let you know I am 23 and happaily married, I waited for the "perfect" person. So it does happen!

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