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Is it really better than xp? I heard a lot of people say they didn't like it. Would you suggest downloading it onto my laptop? What does it do? Thanks in advance.

well, I wouldn't suggest it for a laptop, unless you have an external harddrive as windows vista itself is big, which will make your laptop slow :\

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he doesn't notice me. i'm his best friend, yet, im not there when it comes to relationships. i like him. "he" is spencer. i've known him probably forever. hes so easy to talk to, and yet, when i like him, which i have off and on, i trip up things. i say things i soon regret, and i act weird.. so he knows. but then the attraction goes away.. disappears. after that, its like he loves me-- but not in that same way. he loves my company, me being there. but not in a relationship. this has been going on for as long as i can remember.

sometimes we hang out. we walk home the same way almost everyday, so we talk a lot.
sometimes i hang out and watch TV with him.
sometimes i talk to his mom.
we act like best friends.

he's never had a girlfriend.
i've had 5 boyfriends.

we hug.
we laugh.
we smile.

i want him to ask me out.
i need him to ask me out.
i have no clue how to get him to ask me out.

we have a dance coming up soon.
a black and white ball.
he's not one for any school functions, really.
but, he said he might ask someone.

he didn't really tell me.
no, let me rephrase that.
he didn't tell me at all.
just
"i might ask someone to the dance"
then i changed the subject;
i didn't really want to hear it.

but,
the real question is...
how can i find out, with out dropping hints that i like him, AGAIN?
how can i gain his attention?
will i ever get the one guy i've liked since 2nd grade?

Gently suggest/ask if he would ever consider going out with you..don't make it serious, cause then the guy might be scared( I don't know his personality)

If he asks why, just say that you were wondering, or your friends are having a competiton.
(i've done that) :P

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Where can I find FLAT ankle boots? I'm already 5'7" so I don't wanna to add any height :) And I don't mean like, uggs... Preferably $50 maximum, anddd yeah. Here's an example:...I think these are so cute, but they aren't flat. http://www.famousfootwear.com/product.asp?product_id=1012993&variant_id=51326

And these would be perfect,
http://www.famousfootwear.com/product.asp?p=1012696&variant%5Fid=51324&hix=1
...except I think they're kinda boring. I like how there is a bow on the first one.

Any suggestions? Thanks so much :)

I couldn't find any flat ones :\

but these aren't very high, and they are cute.

http://www.shoe-shop.com/invt/pav25764
I suggest looking through shoe-shop anyway :)

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i really want to find a website where i can watch the full episode of 'side order of life' that i missed. other than youtube, what are some websites?

http://www.veoh.com/
http://peekvid.com/
http://flickpeek.com/
http://www.dailymotion.com/us
http://ovguide.com/
http://www.tv-links.co.uk/
http://movie6.net/


one of them should have what you're looking for :)

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I don't know if any of yall remember a windows game called chips challenge? but if you do I need some help. I have a ibook G4 mac laptop. I really want to download this game from my childhood :] I found one but when I downloaded it it was a folder with a bunch of documents and such in it. not what I want. it wouls be best of it couldbe an application. I dont want to have to buy it. thanks!

http://takegame.com/arcade/htm/chipschallenge.htm

I was looking for the game too :)

you can download it form the link.
Very small size :P

Hope this helped

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okay, well ive been dating this kid tom for 2 weeks now. Well, i have homecoming the 6th of october and i asked my boyfriend to go. He didnt want to because he said he'd feel awkward because he dont know anyone because he goes to a different school. Well, my friend Zack who happens to be one of my best friends asked me to go to homecomming with him. I really want to, but i dont want to start anything w/ tom because idk how he will react. what should i do? i really want to go w/ zack because i know it will be fun, but should i care what tom thinks?

YES, you should care what Tom thinks, although you've been going out for 2 weeks, it still means something. Talk to Tom about it, and explain how you have been really looking forward to homecoming, if he is 100% against it, ask him if he would mind if you went with one of your friends. You have to promise to Tom that nothing will happen between you and Zack. And during the homecoming send him a text saying that you are missing him.

Don't ditch Tom because of a homecoming.

:)

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Ok So i have this guy that i reall ylike and he is soo sweet. I really wanna tell him so he will like me or have a chance of asking me out...Im 13 too he is almost 14. He is in 8th and i just want him to know. My friend offered to tell him or ask him if he ever would but i'm scared that will make things akward!! This guy means alot to me and i have no idea how to tell him. He always says hey to me and waves to me in the halls but it's kinda like as best friends...and he has been hanging out with a 15 year old..:( How do i tell him without making it akward because im not gunna be like i like you and i want you to like me.....Please give me advice!

XoXo, Missy May

Well, I know how you feel, I am in the same situation :(

If you are the kind of person who goes out a lot, invite him too and you can get to know him better..but also invite some of his friends, so it won't be too awkward for him.

If you know that he is good at a subject, ask him to explain something to you, and then you can keep talking to him after that(worked for me :) )

I don't really suggest telling him how you feel just yet, guys get worried if they know that a girl likes them, cause they tend to think that they are giving out wrong signals.(But I'm not saying that he doesn't like you :) )

I hope it all goes well :D

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welll, boys have been giving me more attetion i guess and i have no idea how to flirt or talk to them. i dont get nervous, but i just dont have anything to say. like on IM the convo is always the basic, hey. whatsup. nothing, you?. and thats it. what do i talk abouttt and how to i flirt?

well you could say something like your hair looked good or your shirt is cool...or if you have lessons with them talk about that..and if he says he dislikes the lesson/teacher/work you can jokingly call him silly or lazy :)

This usually works for me :)

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Is there any way to find out what song someone has even if its hidden, other then asking them. Because i really want to know this song, and i looked on google, and i cant find it, and ive asked the person and they wont tell me. So can you figure out the song even if its hidden

myspace: if you have firefoz(better than INTERNET EXPLORER!) you can click on ''view'' and then ''page style'' and then you choose no style, then you will be able to see the music box thing :)

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my boyfriends birthday is coming up;
also that is the day of our one year anniversary.


so i got him:
an Italian wallet probably around 120$
i got him a starbucks card in it and
a picture of us in it too.
and im getting him an engraved key chain b.c he is turning 16.
and im taking him out to dinner.


do you think he will like it?

It is an amazing gift, I hope he likes it ..or loves it :D

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okay so i hav this friend who i think looks like she's about my age and she is but alot of ppl think she's like 10 years older then me. How old would you say that she looks?

http://i202.photobucket.com/albums/aa319/ilanna92/s1604040292_30039149_4876.jpg

i think she's like 17

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I just bought these thermal leggings from JCrew. They're cream colored, and have that print with a pink flower and a stem. It's like a really simple print.
Anyway, I'd wear them under a denim skirt. Anyone have any idea of what kind of top would look good?

a beige or black long sleeved top will look nice:) or a pink one.

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So yesterday, pretty much this morning, around 12:30-1:00 I had sex with my boyfriend. I lost my virginity to him and I don't regret it. We had a little to drink and then just ended up making out...and one thing lead to another and we had sex. It wasn't to painful and didn't realize that I had bled until I took a shower this morning and noticed my clothes. So yeah, we didn't use any protection but he said not to worry he didn't cum. I'm kind of nervous but not too worried about it, I just really don't want to get pregnant. We had sex for about 5 mins only; maybe evben less. Do you think I should get the morning after pill or am i ok?

you should take the pill asap, because whenever there is sperm near a vagina, it could have got into you... So next time use a condom, and even if he says that he will pull out before, it never works, some sperm will get inside you. You are lucky if you are not pregnant.

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I have cable sbc yahoo internet,
no laptop, i have NO memory card for my phone.
basically i have a phone with barly no connections lol.

well download any music/pics for your phone, then plug your cable to your phone and computer...then if you go to ''my computer'' your phone should show up somewhere. double click on the icon and then you can copy any files to your phone folder thing :P

tell me if you need any more help :)

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If you call the crisis hotline, is it completely anonymous, or can the replace things to your parents?

Thank you.

I'm just wondering about the phone bill, but otherwise noone but you will know(and the person you talked to)

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13/f
In girl's shoe sizes in a one or two and people always say I have really small feet. But anywawy, what size shoe would I be in women's shoes?

Thanks in advance. I will rate!

I think you should be around 37-39 or size 5ish (in english sizes) but there is not size that ''you should be'' it all depends on your body, for all I know you could be 4ft tall..

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i have t mobile and i was wondering when you sign in at tmobile.com you can send someone a text message through the net.
SEND TEXT MESSAGES
Send a text message to a friend's T-Mobile phone. (Note: recipient will be charged).

who will be charged? I ahve 400 txt every month & I go over my limit & my mom gets pissed. So if I were to send it through the internet, would that count againt a text message on my phone?

You might be charged, I'm not sure..but the person you are sending it to will DEFINETLY be charged, and it might be more than a normal text.

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i have a razr from tmobile not te newish kinds but kinda old. I was wondering if i can download songs from limewire & put them into my cell phone.
if so, how.
thanks

tell me wether you have a memory card, a cable or a laptop, then I can help you :) It will just take too long to explain all 3 now.

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Ok well I never wore a bikini before, when I was small i wore those one peice bathing suits but now since I'm older in high shcool I don't really like people seeing my thighs like all the way up there, and it's kind of old style.

I'm always consience of my body, I'm a ssize zero and people say i look beautiful but it's all about the bathing suit issue.

I always have nothing to wear so i always wear like a t-shirt or a tan top or both with capriis and it seems that after every year, I swim with more and MORE clothes on, which makes me very heavy and not calling it swim at all.

Any help?

Well what you could do is weat cool surf shorts over your bikini bottoms, and many girls do this nowadays..and I think it will be ok with your top part :)

Because I am quite conscious about my body aswell...but noone ever makes comments about it(I'm quite fat)

If you show confidence in yourself, then other people won't care..they will love you.

Hope this helped :)

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im making a cd for my car. theres only a couple songs i can think of right now that i deffinetly want to put on it, but im drawing a blank as for other songs lol. i was homewrecker by hellogoodbye, who knew by pink, fer sure by the medic droid, and must have done something right by relient k anddd before he cheats by carrie underwood(i dont really like country type songs, but that song kicks ass=]). what are some other songs i should put on there? i know a lottt of bands(emo, indie, alt., things like that), so just put some songs out there like those, because for the life of me, i cant think of any other songs=].

thanks!

well if you have iTunes, you can look at the ''recently most played'' playlist,and take songs from there..or just listen to your music and copy the songs you like...you can delete some afterwards when you are organizing the disc.

But yeah, another thing you could do, is (if you have iTunes) Right click on the top bit where it says artist, title etc. and tick the ''play count'' then you can order the songs by play count and songs that have a high play count, you could add to your CD

Hope this helped somehow. :)

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