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Black and White Ball.
he doesn't notice me. i'm his best friend, yet, im not there when it comes to relationships. i like him. "he" is spencer. i've known him probably forever. hes so easy to talk to, and yet, when i like him, which i have off and on, i trip up things. i say things i soon regret, and i act weird.. so he knows. but then the attraction goes away.. disappears. after that, its like he loves me-- but not in that same way. he loves my company, me being there. but not in a relationship. this has been going on for as long as i can remember.
sometimes we hang out. we walk home the same way almost everyday, so we talk a lot.
sometimes i hang out and watch TV with him.
sometimes i talk to his mom.
we act like best friends.
he's never had a girlfriend.
i've had 5 boyfriends.
we hug.
we laugh.
we smile.
i want him to ask me out.
i need him to ask me out.
i have no clue how to get him to ask me out.
we have a dance coming up soon.
a black and white ball.
he's not one for any school functions, really.
but, he said he might ask someone.
he didn't really tell me.
no, let me rephrase that.
he didn't tell me at all.
just
"i might ask someone to the dance"
then i changed the subject;
i didn't really want to hear it.
but,
the real question is...
how can i find out, with out dropping hints that i like him, AGAIN?
how can i gain his attention?
will i ever get the one guy i've liked since 2nd grade?
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Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
Gently suggest/ask if he would ever consider going out with you..don't make it serious, cause then the guy might be scared( I don't know his personality)
If he asks why, just say that you were wondering, or your friends are having a competiton.
(i've done that) :P
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That's really sad... but I'm afraid that the only way is to ask him flat out. Tell him how you feel. I'm sorry I can't say more.
Good luck with it
~The Dragoness~
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It sounds like to me you already have his attention,
he is just a very shy person.
This could be the reason he wont ask you out.
Its not that he dont like you more than a friend,
Its the fact that he doesnt want to lose a bestfriend if it doesnt work out.
As far as the ball goes, thats a tough situation.
Maybe ask around, see if he is going with anyone.
but i would go for it, u could say u want to go as "friends"
hope I helped.
xoxo-kiki
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