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sex w/o protection
So yesterday, pretty much this morning, around 12:30-1:00 I had sex with my boyfriend. I lost my virginity to him and I don't regret it. We had a little to drink and then just ended up making out...and one thing lead to another and we had sex. It wasn't to painful and didn't realize that I had bled until I took a shower this morning and noticed my clothes. So yeah, we didn't use any protection but he said not to worry he didn't cum. I'm kind of nervous but not too worried about it, I just really don't want to get pregnant. We had sex for about 5 mins only; maybe evben less. Do you think I should get the morning after pill or am i ok?
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Well first of all , you should never have sex without a condum : you can get pregnant or get an STD : even both .
- when a guy says that he wont cum in you ,
i'll take it out blah blah .
bull shit-
forreal , it will be very hard for him too ,
hes gettin ready to hit a wonderful climax & then has to stop .
don't ever blieve a guy will do that .
unless you want him to .
& yeah you should get the morning after pill ,
'but they cost ALOT , and , you get real sick from it .
so yeah ,
just be careful next time ,
& makes sure you carry around condums ,
so just in case later that night you will be ready and safe for the heat of the moment .
xoxo
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Unprotected sex means you are never ok. You may drop lucky and not be pregnant or worse, as in you may not have contracted an STD from him but you may have done. You should get yourself on the contraceptive pill and if you still have time when you get this, you should see about the morning after pill.
Never rely on a man to say 'I won't cum' or ' I'll pull out' because they never do. They don't have much control over that part of their body when it comes to ejaculation. I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and I STILL don't take his word for it.
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If you've had unprotected sex then you are never ok. No matter what, got it?
Whether it lasted 5 minutes or an hour doesn't matter, what matters is that you had sex, you didn't use protection, pulling out isn't effective, and you can still get pregnant from precum. Next time be safe, and use protection. Don't rely on your boyfriend's self control, because most likely he doesn't have much. =]
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you should definetly get the morning after pill. even if he doesnt cum you CAN still get pregnant. pre cum (the stuff that comes out before the cum) has even more sperm in it than the actual cum does. if you had sex at all without protection, it doesnt matter how long it was for, you can get pregnant.
xo hope i helped
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No matter how long the sex was, no matter if he actually ejaculated (which you can't always trust...) pre-cum still contains sperm. Not as much as semen, but enough. It just takes one strong swimmer to do the trick.
Even if you and your boyfriend are both virgins, you still need to use condoms. Even on birth control. It is wise to start the habit of practicing safe sex. Condoms are the only thing out there that protects you from STDs.
I'm not going to tell you weather or not you should get the morning after pill. I don't agree with them at all, therefore making my opinion on the matter biased. That is your own personal choice to make, not ours.
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hmmmm this is tough! well if you REALLY do trust him then maybe u dont have too. but if hes just a random guy, I dont think u should trust him
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Like others have said, it doesn't matter how long you had sex, or even if he pulled out/didn't cum, because there IS such a thing as precum. There is still a good chance that you're pregnant. You need to take the pill as soon as you can, if it's not too late. Good luck!
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even if he didn't finish he could have pre-cummed.
pre-cum has sperm in it and it is very possible to get pregnant from that. i suggest you get the morning after pill because by the time you realize you are actually pregnant (if you are) it will be too late to take it. and it won't hurt, better safe than sorry.
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Take it, pre-cum has a large amount of sperm in it, and pre-cum is secreted very early in sex because it acts as a natural lubracant. Just because he didn't cum doesn't mean you can't get pregnent. Take the pill.
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Take the pill.
You can still get pregnant even if he doesn't cum. (pre cum can contain sperm).
It also doesn't matter how long you had sex for. There's ALWAYS that risk.
Next time, don't skip the condom part.
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I have had unprotected sex before with my (now ex) boyfriend and nothing happened. However, it wasnt until later that i found out pre-cum can get your pregnant too and I dont know if guys know when they pre-cum or not. I would say to not worry about the morning after pill but its alright to be safe. There is an extremely good chance you aren't but just be careful next time. If you over 18, you can buy the morning after pill at any "CVS" or "Rite-Aid" (i dont know what stores are near you) However, if you are under 18 I know you do need to get a written form by your doctor permitting you to take it. All in all, you should be fine but if you are that worried about it- go ahead and get it. It cant do anything but help you out. be more careful next time and Im glad you dont regret it. good luck and I hoped I helped out.. :)
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you should take the pill asap, because whenever there is sperm near a vagina, it could have got into you... So next time use a condom, and even if he says that he will pull out before, it never works, some sperm will get inside you. You are lucky if you are not pregnant.
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