Member Since: September 22, 2007
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Last Update: September 25, 2007
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alright so i bought some plaid capri pants which look really similar to this
http://i2.photobucket.com/albums/y44/Vampiress_21/pants.jpg
only with a little less red & grey and more black. but yeah, they're really close. anyway.
are plaid pants in style still?
and if that doesn't matter, well what could i wear it with? any ideas? & be specific if you can :) (link)
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those pants are kick ass.. and for a shirt for it. You probably want to keep it simple, nothing with patterns or graphics only because thats too much for the outfit. a nice fitting black tee or red or grey would look really good. just stay away from striped tshirts or tshirts with words. also, long sleeves probably wont look to good becasue long sleeves covers your entire arms, and the pants are capri type- so its two different lengths, that sounds stupid i know but try to keep about the same lenght. 3/4 shirt would work as well. and maybe a long necklace with it as well. for shoes, open toed would look the best- probably just flip flops or something simple like that. and maybe a silver ankle bracelet. haha.. i think i got carried away but whatever, hope i helped :)
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thanks. but how should i start the conversation online? (link)
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Is she in any of your classes? If so, you can talk about homework - maybe you dont understand something or you didnt get an assignment. im not saying act like a dumbass (sorry for the language) or a ditz, im just trying to get you to start a conversation. Maybe bring up the idea of hanging out sometime with a few friends, suggest a movie or a dinner or something... you have a lot more confidence online so you can be more outgoing. I think talking to someone online builds your confidence too, because if they like the way you act- your in, and its a lot easier to talk to them in person. Good luck, and let me know if you have any more questions!! :)
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ok well the other night me and my bf were in a fight and he got really mad and grabbed my arms and started shaking me. i yelled at him to stop and he did, and then later we worked out what we were fighting about. but anyway. i told my mom about it and she said i shouldve left right then and told him if he ever did anything like that again it would be over. and she still wants me to tell him that, and ya i know shes right. but now i feel weird about bringing it up cuz it happened a few days ago and everythings fine now. so do you think i should still say something about it? and how should i bring it up? or should i just wait and see if it ever happens again and then tell him that? we've been together for 2 years and thats the first time hes ever done something like that. (link)
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You should never feel weird bringing up something that bothers you to your boyfriend. You should deffinately give him the heads up on what you think about what happened because next time could be too late. Your boyfriend should of NEVER layed a hand on you and you need to make sure he knows that. If it happened once, it will happen again- as painful as that is to think about. Its important that he knows that it isnt acceptable because if you dont say anything now he could take advantage of you again and it could be worst. Im not saying your boyfriend is a bad person or anything like that, im just saying people dont realize what they are doing when they get angry and he needs to realize that he hurt you- maybe not so much physically, but emotionally. if he loves you and cares about you, he will stop and understand and listen to what you have to say. I dont ever want to see your story on a Lifetime movie so I hope you take my advice and go with it... Good luck.
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ok im 16/m and im really shy. there is a girl i like and i always think about her and i just dont stop. but i never even talked to her. she likes someone but i dont know if she is gonna end up going out with him.. can you tell me what i should say to her to start being friends then be a little more than friends? thanks! (link)
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Talking to someone new is always challenging and nerve-racking but its especially harder if you have feelings for them. I think its important to have confidence (thats what girls look for the most in guys..) but not cocky confidence. Is she in any of your classes? Maybe bring up something that happened in school. Go up and introduce yourself (if she doesnt know who you are already) If she already knows who you are, maybe talk to her online or something (if you are uncomfortable starting a conversation with her in person) - dont get her screen name from any friends though, if she has it posted publically - say on myspace or something, IM her.. Sometimes its a lot easier to talk to someone online rather then in person. Take it slow though, and if she seems interested maybe get a group of friends together to hang out sometime. I wouldnt suggest asking her on a date just by yourselves, its always better with friends and things are less awkward. All in all, be yourself- thats the most important thing and if she is worth your time & your feelings, she'll accept who you are and go with it. Good luck and i hope i helped =]
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So yesterday, pretty much this morning, around 12:30-1:00 I had sex with my boyfriend. I lost my virginity to him and I don't regret it. We had a little to drink and then just ended up making out...and one thing lead to another and we had sex. It wasn't to painful and didn't realize that I had bled until I took a shower this morning and noticed my clothes. So yeah, we didn't use any protection but he said not to worry he didn't cum. I'm kind of nervous but not too worried about it, I just really don't want to get pregnant. We had sex for about 5 mins only; maybe evben less. Do you think I should get the morning after pill or am i ok? (link)
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I have had unprotected sex before with my (now ex) boyfriend and nothing happened. However, it wasnt until later that i found out pre-cum can get your pregnant too and I dont know if guys know when they pre-cum or not. I would say to not worry about the morning after pill but its alright to be safe. There is an extremely good chance you aren't but just be careful next time. If you over 18, you can buy the morning after pill at any "CVS" or "Rite-Aid" (i dont know what stores are near you) However, if you are under 18 I know you do need to get a written form by your doctor permitting you to take it. All in all, you should be fine but if you are that worried about it- go ahead and get it. It cant do anything but help you out. be more careful next time and Im glad you dont regret it. good luck and I hoped I helped out.. :)
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whats the name of the song that goes whoo hoo at the beginning like 4 times and a lady sings it i hear it alot but i can never get the name of please tell me the name of the song or the person who sings it (link)
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I believe it is called "The Sweet Escape" by Gwen Stefani.
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is it ok for a girl to ask a guy to homecoming?
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back in the day, it wouldnt be "appropriate" but in our world today, it is perfectly acceptable. Good luck!! :)
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if a college wants an app to be "postmarked" by a specific date what exactly does that mean for me? (link)
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You should always try to get your applications in early. Dont procrastinate with that at all. Having it being postmarked by a certain date means thats the last date you can SEND out the application but like i said, try to get it in as early as possible. Good luck, and I hope i helped.. :)
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Okay, so I'm a sophomore in high school, and everyone I know basically knows what job they want and are taking classes related to it.
Except me.
I have absolutely no idea what I want to be 'when I grow up'. My grades are in the 90's, but other than that, I have few talents.
What I DO like to do is draw, play with computer graphics, and technology's kind of interesting to me. I'm kind of good at math, but I don't like it that much.
Are there any jobs out there that are 'for me'? And if so, is the salary good? Or just average? (link)
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Its a big step to decide what you want to spend thousands of dollars going to school for, and what you want to do the rest of your life. Dont rush the decision, but narrow down your likes and dislikes. With the things you like to do (that you listed on here) you might want to check into majoring in Graphic Design. I looked on google to check the average salary and it says its about $43,758 which is pretty darn good.
http://swz.salary.com/salarywizard/layouthtmls/swzl_compresult_national_CM02000018.html
Thats the link i found it at, and at the bottom there is the job description. check into it, who knows.. it might be the right job for you. Hope I helped.. :)
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what are some good things and bad things bout get'n a noise ring? and how can i convince my dad to let me get it done? (link)
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there are pros and cons to every piercing that you get. Pros- it looks good. Cons- its hard to find a job that will let you wear it. I got my nose done soon after my 18th birthday (old enough to make my own choices.. legally) and I had to take it out for my job, now i found some ways to get away with it but all in all, it is hard to get a good job with a facial peircing. At least in my area. Now, to convince your dad- your going to have to figure out how to do that because I dont know how your dad responds to that. Also, if you are at a young age he probably wont let you do it and I wouldnt reccommend getting it done if you are under like 16 or something. Wait until your older, to make sure you still want it... And also, what are your reasons for wanting it? "because everybody has one" probably wont slide with your dad. Anyway, good luck with everything and dont do anything your going to regret later.. :) hope i helped.
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do colleges only want your unweighted gpa? (link)
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no, when they ask for your transcripts they will look at your unweighted and your weighted since they are both listed on there.
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i used to be bff's with this girl kayla and then highschool came and we didnt have any classes together except one and she dropped it. so i started hanging out with a whole lot more people and now im friends with a lot of people all over school. and when me and kayla hang out its like she is a whole different person and she seems to get on my nerves alot. when i talk about my other friends she gets all defensive and interuptts me when im telling a story and breaks in with what her and this other girl danielle did. and danielle dont like me at all for some reason and tells kayla lies about me. my friend jt says that she is jealous. he is my bff now becasue kayla and me dont ever see or talk to each other any more. so can you tell me whats going on with all of this?? (link)
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Wow, i think every girl in America goes through this- well at least I did =] When you grow up, your old friends and yourself might drift becasue you are both changing into "who you are" At a younger age (when you both got along great) you are both a lot more open minded because you arent sure who you are or where you stand with anything. Its good that you are making friends, and it sounds to me like Kayla is probably a little jealous at the fact. Sometimes its really hard watching your best friend go out without you, and hang around people that she doesnt like. She isnt a very good friend though if she isnt happy for you that you are making other friends. When I went through this, I learned who my true friends were and who arent. Friends come and go in your lifetime, and some of them will be really hard to say goodbye to. Especially if you have been friends for a long time. Dont ever feel afraid to go out and make friends because your upsetting one person though. You cant put all your trust and love and respect into one friend, because what happens if that friend leaves you one day? Who are you left with? Nobody but yourself. Like i said before, Kayla might be getting annoying to you because you are both changing into different people (high school does that.. believe it or not) When my best friend Jenn and I went through that, we chilled away from eachother a little bit and then everything seemed to be fine after time. Changing is hard enough as it is, but also having a friend who is going through the same process but ending on a different path is even harder. If your friendship is worth it, you will continue to be her friend and try to help with whatever she needs but in all honesty, it sounds like it isnt. I would not waste my time with someone who cant listen to me or help me out, thats what friends are there for. I know this response was long but i really hoped it helped you out!!... :)
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my friend is gay. and i love him.
and everyone wants me to tell him i like him
but i cant. because hes gay, but im the only one
in the entire world that knows
WAT DO I DO?! (link)
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Well first of all.. did you love him before you found out he was gay or after? When people are hanging out with a homosexual and they dont know for a fact that he/she is gay or not they can become attracted to them because of the way they might act differently. If you think you loved him after he told you, he might just be because you know you cant have him and that might make you upset. Dont listen to your friends though to tell him, it has to be your choice. If you dont want to tell him- then dont. The decision is yours. Sometimes though, people can think they are gay when they really arent- they are just curious. If he is at a decent age (over 18 or so)more then likely he is being honest with you. However, its a possibility that he could also be bisexual and not really know it. When people "come out of the closet" the first person they tell is the person they care about the most (so feel special). If he isnt ready to tell other people, then you also need to make sure you keep your mouth shut too. But like I said before, the decision is yours- I know its hard loving somebody you cant have, and sometimes the love will fade eventually or get stronger. If you tell him though, make sure its in all honesty. Im sure he can accept the fact, and maybe explain to you what he thinks about the situation. If he cowards and runs away though, afraid of tension or awkwardness then he really isnt that good of a friend, and deffinately not worth your heart. You cant have people tell you what to do, they can only offer advice from both sides to make your decision a little easier. Hope everything works out for you.. and i hoped I helped.. =]
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well.. I'm 19 years old and i just recently got a new girlfriend, we've been dating about 2 weeks now.
She's ready to have sex and i'm fine with that only i'm still a virgin and she's not 'o.0 i've had plenty of times to have sex in the past but i didn't take them because i chickened out -.- i love being around females i'm not scared of them until they get close to me! I want to have sex with her so bad but all at the same time i'm scared and i don't know what to do about this.. I don't want to get like so close to where we are about to have sex and then freak out cause she will be like wtf and she's the only female i've been with that i havn't told i was still a virgin she broke up with her 22 year old boyfriend for me and if we don't end up having sex in the next month it will look bad =0 i'm ready but i'm not sure that i am at the same time what am i to do? (link)
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I think you need to explain to her what your feeling... if she is a good girlfriend she will understand and accept it. Dont EVER rush into something that you are unsure about becasue it will probably end horribly. You want your first time to be nice, and she needs to respect that. You need to be comfortable with her, becasue thats the biggest part. All in all, talk to her about it- your feelings and such (as awkward as it can be) And if she is worth it, she will stick around and accept it and give you time. Hope it helped... =]
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Ok so I just started a new high school this week and already I have problems with a girl. At first when I first met her she was nice and ok but now I'm starting to notice another side of her which I don't really like. She seems to be drifting away from me and only comes to me when she doesn't have any1 to talk to BASICLLY SHE'S USING ME and i already confronted her about it today and she just didn't say anything and stood quiet. I really don't want any problems with anyone does any one know what I can do? (link)
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No matter where you go, there are going to be some people that arent going to like you or get along with you. The most you can do is just be yourself and be friendly with people. Dont get involved with drama (you know high schools are notorious for that) and try to make friends in different "groups". You dont deserved to feel used so its good that you confronted her about it.. hopefully she will stop and if not your going to have to make the choice to either stay aorund and help her or just leave her. Thats your decision. All in all, just be yourself and be nice to people. And like i said, dont throw yourself in a group and just talk to a few people- make a few friends from each "clique" because then you have a variety of friends... Hope it helped =]
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There's this guy in my Spanish II class who I really want to be friends with. He went to my middle school , so I know who he is, but I don't think he knows I exist. (He's a sophomore and I'm a freshman. I took Spanish I last year, so that's why I'm in his class incase you were wondering.) He's really cute, smart, and he's amazing at guitar. In my class, he sits all the way across the room from me, so I can't really talk to himk, but I'm really shy too, which doesn't help. How do I get him to notice me? (Oh yeah, please don't say where sluttly clothes. Of course that will get his attention, but I don't want him to think I'm a skank!) (link)
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Haha.. Slutty clothes never starts anything good so Im glad you ruled that out already. Its hard to make friends, especially when you have (it seems like) an attraction to them because then you definately want to give a nice first impression. When you want to make friends though, no matter how shy you are, your just going to have to put that behind you. What is the worst that could happen? Start a small conversation with him. IF something funny (or worth talking about) happens in class, bring it up to him sometime. I would also suggest maybe talking to him online first (if you both have the internet) because sometimes that can break the ice (doesnt always work) All in all, be yourself (just with some more confidence) heh.. Hope it works =]
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Okay, so first off i do have a confidence problem.
WHen im with my friends, some of them i can be really loud, but then with ALL my friends or in big groups i get really quiet. I was wondering if this had anything to do with my confidence.
If it does how do i gain confidence. And i don't want to be shy when it comes to groups, its just i never can think of anything to talk about either..
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You and I are almost the exact same way. The problem isnt confidence- its comfortability. You are more comfortable to be yourself in a small group of close friends rather then a large group. I'm crazy fun with a few friends, but when Im at a party with a lot of people I know im pretty quiet and i get uneasy. Building up comfortability and confidence just means you have to get used to being in larger groups. Gaining confidence comes through experience (unless your willing to spend a ton of money on useless tapes that tell you that "your good enough") Start a conversation with a small group (when there are a ton of people around) and they might bring it up to other people and you could get to talk to a lot more people. Your only 14 as well, and thats when you start to really question if what you are saying is "cool" and you are worried how people percieve you... Youll gain confidence through age as well- so dont worry. Hope it helped.. =]
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In French we have to make an acroustic poem using adjectives about ourself. The problem is I dont know any adjectives to desribe me that start with the letters of my name, Mary. I have adventureuse but thats about it. Can anyone show me where I can get a huge list of adjectives to choose from. Ive been through many google pages and couldnt find any... Any help would be apprieciated (link)
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http://french.speak7.com/french_adjectives
There is a site that could be helpful for you.
Hope it helped... =]
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well ive been sick for like 2 days now, but i don't know what i have so i can't treat it to get any better. my symptoms are constant uncontrollable shaking, 102 fever, stomach ache, sore throat, and occasional headaches and ear pain. Can someone please tell me what i have?? (link)
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sounds like you could have the flu, but i highly doubt there are any experienced doctors on this sie to diagnose you. Honest opinion, go to the doctors, they cant do anything but help you.. :)
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okay so i was just wandering is it true kissing or making out comes kind of natrually? (link)
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A part of it is natural... Kind of like a talent for music or sports. However, it is not natural enough that you couldnt pick up new techniques and practice. Everybody has their own way of kissing, and in your life you will meet people that (according to you) can kiss and not kiss. Kissing is also based on being comfortable- thats the most important thing in any relationship if you are trying to advance physcially. Hope it helped... =]
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