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I need advice about my love life.
well.. I'm 19 years old and i just recently got a new girlfriend, we've been dating about 2 weeks now.
She's ready to have sex and i'm fine with that only i'm still a virgin and she's not 'o.0 i've had plenty of times to have sex in the past but i didn't take them because i chickened out -.- i love being around females i'm not scared of them until they get close to me! I want to have sex with her so bad but all at the same time i'm scared and i don't know what to do about this.. I don't want to get like so close to where we are about to have sex and then freak out cause she will be like wtf and she's the only female i've been with that i havn't told i was still a virgin she broke up with her 22 year old boyfriend for me and if we don't end up having sex in the next month it will look bad =0 i'm ready but i'm not sure that i am at the same time what am i to do?
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I think you need to explain to her what your feeling... if she is a good girlfriend she will understand and accept it. Dont EVER rush into something that you are unsure about becasue it will probably end horribly. You want your first time to be nice, and she needs to respect that. You need to be comfortable with her, becasue thats the biggest part. All in all, talk to her about it- your feelings and such (as awkward as it can be) And if she is worth it, she will stick around and accept it and give you time. Hope it helped... =]
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First things first:
If you aren't sure about being ready - you obviously aren't.
Secondly, it's perfectly acceptable to be a virgin at your age. Infact, I admire it.
To be perfectly honest, I think a girl would appreciate that in a guy. It means you've saved yourself for someone special - whether it be your current girlfriend or not.
Next, so what if you've been dating for 2 weeks? It works both ways here. If only one of you is ready to have sex, the other must wait. and if they have a problem with that, they obviously aren't good enough for you.
Next time your girlfriend brings it up, or if you're brave enough, sit her down and explain you haven't got that far with anyone else before. What's there to be embarrassed about? Nothing! If she likes you (which I'm guessing obviously she does), she will understand.
My advice to you is to wait. When you are ready to have sex, you will definitely 100% know.
It's normal to get scared - which is why you need to grow closer to one another before you begin to get that physical.
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