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everyones making me tell him
my friend is gay. and i love him.
and everyone wants me to tell him i like him
but i cant. because hes gay, but im the only one
in the entire world that knows
WAT DO I DO?!
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It depends on both of your ages and has he ever gone out with girls before. If his reasons for being gay are because he wasn't attracted to girls when he went out with them then there's no chance. But maybe if you tell him how you feel, he'll maybe give you a chance, as weird as that sounds. Since he was comfortable enough with you to tell yo he was gay. You should be comfortable enough with him to tell him you like him.
Good luck.
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So, you know that he's gay, but no one else does, and people know that you like him, but because he's gay you don't want to tell him. Hmmmm. I say, if you'd like him to know your feelings, say it to him jokingly. Just be like "You know, it really bites that you gay because I liked you." Simple, and to the point. Evidently, because he's gay, it wouldnt work out, but its ok to like him. Hope I helped!
-Brina
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Well first of all.. did you love him before you found out he was gay or after? When people are hanging out with a homosexual and they dont know for a fact that he/she is gay or not they can become attracted to them because of the way they might act differently. If you think you loved him after he told you, he might just be because you know you cant have him and that might make you upset. Dont listen to your friends though to tell him, it has to be your choice. If you dont want to tell him- then dont. The decision is yours. Sometimes though, people can think they are gay when they really arent- they are just curious. If he is at a decent age (over 18 or so)more then likely he is being honest with you. However, its a possibility that he could also be bisexual and not really know it. When people "come out of the closet" the first person they tell is the person they care about the most (so feel special). If he isnt ready to tell other people, then you also need to make sure you keep your mouth shut too. But like I said before, the decision is yours- I know its hard loving somebody you cant have, and sometimes the love will fade eventually or get stronger. If you tell him though, make sure its in all honesty. Im sure he can accept the fact, and maybe explain to you what he thinks about the situation. If he cowards and runs away though, afraid of tension or awkwardness then he really isnt that good of a friend, and deffinately not worth your heart. You cant have people tell you what to do, they can only offer advice from both sides to make your decision a little easier. Hope everything works out for you.. and i hoped I helped.. =]
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