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yeah i need help..
ok im 16/m and im really shy. there is a girl i like and i always think about her and i just dont stop. but i never even talked to her. she likes someone but i dont know if she is gonna end up going out with him.. can you tell me what i should say to her to start being friends then be a little more than friends? thanks!
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aww thats sweet! :) but let me tell you something! i have been through this and there is one thing i have learned from it- it might be hard but you need to decide your future before the future decides itself for you. I hope that made since... but i like this guy too and i never even talk to him, but i still like him, so i know where your coming from. but me myself am in the process of telling him. lets see i have my cousin, my two best friends and me telling him. so just dont be afraid to tell because how will you ever know how she feels if you dont make it clear that you like her? so yeah! my point- just be her friend and show her the true you- then maybe it will be easier tell her than just how you say walking up to her and telling her you want her more than a cherry popsicle on a hot summer day! lol... but yeah other than that just dont be a jerk, or a pervert, or mean, cuz girls like a guy who will be strong enough to protect them and always do the right thing, but not so strong that they cant hold the girls hand in front of his friends..... i hope i helped!
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Talking to someone new is always challenging and nerve-racking but its especially harder if you have feelings for them. I think its important to have confidence (thats what girls look for the most in guys..) but not cocky confidence. Is she in any of your classes? Maybe bring up something that happened in school. Go up and introduce yourself (if she doesnt know who you are already) If she already knows who you are, maybe talk to her online or something (if you are uncomfortable starting a conversation with her in person) - dont get her screen name from any friends though, if she has it posted publically - say on myspace or something, IM her.. Sometimes its a lot easier to talk to someone online rather then in person. Take it slow though, and if she seems interested maybe get a group of friends together to hang out sometime. I wouldnt suggest asking her on a date just by yourselves, its always better with friends and things are less awkward. All in all, be yourself- thats the most important thing and if she is worth your time & your feelings, she'll accept who you are and go with it. Good luck and i hope i helped =]
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